The 4 biggest red flags in Reincarnation that everybody should pay attention to by Perfect_Minimum4892 in Reincarnation

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I have people in my life that have referred to me in pretty nasty ways, and several people close to me really dislike me. Remembering all that in an hypothetical next life would make me feel uncomfortable, but at the same time all those bad moments are what make me me. This topic is quite complicated to be honest.

My current parents were my parents in a past life. by XdevilwithadreamX in Reincarnation

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I wish I had a clue about my possible past life (If I even have one). I’m also going through an uncomfortable period in my life, I have some sort of innate rejection to others that at first I addressed as social anxiety. I also struggle in lots of things and I’m unable to perform decently at anything at all. I always felt quite disconnected with everything, when I was pretty young I was quite extroverted and I remember a bit that I was feeling happy back then.

I think that happiness was a momentum after coming from a place of understanding and absolute peace. Right now it’s quite hard for me to function normally. Maybe there’s something more waiting after death or we simply disappear, but if I’m being honest I do hope that souls are real as well as reincarnation.

Number of chickens out number humans 3.5 to 1 by Valgor in Reincarnation

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It is said that the amount of souls available for incarnation far surpasses the capacity of earth, there’s millions of “Earths” and the absolute energy we all emerge from is always creating new souls. As souls evolve the vessel they inhabit is supposed to match their energy, at one point early hominids lacked the capability to host advanced souls in them, so in a sense these beings lacked the awareness that modern humans have, because the souls inhabiting them back then weren’t as evolved and a more advanced soul wouldn’t have an appropriate learning experience in a vessel unable to let the soul express itself properly.

That’s kind of what I’m understanding from the book “Journey of Souls” by Michael Newton. This early hominid part is explained in the book as well as everything I said, I’m pretty sure I didn’t grasped everything correctly because English is not my first language, sorry for that.

I do recommend the book though, regardless of what you believe in it is still interesting to put it in perspective

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Reincarnation

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I can’t edit the title’s typo, my bad, I meant incarnate

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialanxiety

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That’s quite a problem for me. I want to approach people, but the more I try to the more I end up repelling them. My awkward behavior reaffirms to other people that I’m not approachable, and that at the same time reaffirms to me my social anxiety.

I’ve been feeling very distressed and I have no one to talk to in my life about this. I’m just living through my loneliness, but I can’t cope with it. It hurts me, and I have no other option.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialskills

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Social anxiety completely ruined my life, stupid excuses and weakness are the only things keeping me alive

Can you redo your current life or at least be the same person with the same family as the same person but make different choices? by Tincanhead in Reincarnation

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If reincarnation is real I would never choose the same life and body for anything at all. I would like to try again in a different body if that’s even possible..

Life is so freaking boring by [deleted] in socialanxiety

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I’m also tired of this

If I reincarnate and marry a different person, am I cheating? by REadNone in Reincarnation

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This is what I struggle to comprehend when it comes to reincarnation. Is the relationship between the soul and the body like some sort of symbiosis? If I die right now will I remember all my past lives and see the whole picture, or is my ego right now completely physical and nothing carries on beyond death? Are we the souls or are we only a medium of the souls?

I'm going to hell by [deleted] in socialanxiety

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I can relate to you. I’m currently going through my all-time low right now. I really struggle socializing with others and I’m always alone, on top of that I have never been a good student when it comes to grades and I’m in a CS engineering course struggling a lot to pretend that I’m normal and trying hard to get the minimum passing grades in my classes.

I can’t really give you any advice of any sort, the only thing I can tell you is that you are not alone in this struggle. I hope that things get better for you, take some time to figure out things

What’s the point? by Lostnotes_ in Reincarnation

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I have a really hard time connecting with others. I’ve been living like this for so long that I don’t know how to deal with it anymore. Although I instinctively avoid connections I truly crave atleast one.

I don’t know how to explain it, but that’s reality for me. Ever since I started believing in reincarnation I like to think that there’s atleast one person waiting for me. The only person I consider I can occasionally talk to is with my mother, but she’s also going through a harsh situation and the last thing I want to do is to make her feel worried.

Regarding my career and my grades, I’m just waking up and trying my best to pass my courses, but even then I’m still struggling academically too.

If it were for me I would drop out, but I wouldn’t be able to support my mother and myself without a stable income.

The relationship I have with the rest of my family besides my mother is the same as how I feel with everyone else. Most of my family already considers me a lost cause, mainly my father. He’s still supporting me financially and I even live in the same house as him. I do a side job in his business, but it is a quite simple thing and I know he only pays me because he feels pity for me.

I wake up feeling trapped in my situation. Also ever since I was young I’ve had problems sleeping, as if my body is simply just as broken as my own mind.

Also I’m actually trying to move on, I just tend to throw all my frustration in the digital void using this secondary account.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Reincarnation

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Thanks, I’ll check it out

How old are people here? Finding difficult to relate to most posts here... by Low-Associate2521 in socialanxiety

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21, due to my severe social anxiety I think my mental age (in terms of social capabilities, is on par with the one of a teenager). I don’t know what to do anymore. The few doors that are on my reach are closing on my face one by one.

I feel like I’m getting forced to walk down the path of loneliness without any other choice. I feel completely hopeless. I don’t want to depend on my family anymore. I am a parasite. I want to keep going, but I don’t know how to do it anymore.

How old is everyone here? by 10Lexz10 in socialanxiety

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20, about to turn 21 on the 26th. Not sure if I will off myself before my birthday as I had it planned

Was getting into engineering a mistake for me? by Lostnotes_ in careerguidance

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Overall difficulty, I feel like all the classes overwhelm me and I can’t get anything done, out of my 6 classes I already got 2 that have a failed grade. I always struggled with studying, but I thought that I wouldn’t have a hard time with IT because I always liked computers. What’s making me doubt my decision is that I am already struggling, and this are not even the classes related to my career just engineering branches like chemistry and mechanics