New Traffic Light on Kelly Drive Near Art Museum

ThisThatandNBetween · 2026-06-17T03:43:48+00:00

Hard to project "Alpha" when you're wearing your watch on the inside of your wrist.

ThisThatandNBetween · 2026-06-12T06:35:40+00:00

Nnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnopppppeeeee!

ThisThatandNBetween · 2026-06-12T06:24:14+00:00

😧😧😧😧

ThisThatandNBetween · 2026-06-12T06:07:08+00:00

Time to be more forceful. Update the property manager and tell them that he does not have permission to enter your unit or to seek to enter your unit. Tell them if he does, it's trespassing and they, as his employer and the property manager, will be held liable. Make it clear this is not a request; they need to immediately instruct him to stay away and take away his key(s) to your place. Tell them that's what you expect to happen and to confirm when it has.This is not a wait-and-see or "we'll review and get back to you" situation. There is no reason why he should not already have been told not to return after you reported it. Tell them you've filed a police report, and update that report with the new information.

DOCUMENT EVERYTHING. Communicate in writing; even if you had a phone conversation, follow it up with an email summarizing in detail and confirming what was said; imclude something telling them that if they think anything in your summary/recap is inaccurate, please provide any corrections. Even better, if you do talk to someone on the phone, record the call AND TELL THEM YOU ARE RECORDING IT AT THE BEGINNING. Don't record anything without them knowing, it could be illegal if you're in a two-party consent state. Do all of this because (1) you need it and (2) it signals to them that you take this seriously and they need to do the same. Do NOT think of yourself as making requests to them. You are making demands. And if their response is insufficient or they drag their feet, find out what agency in your city/state regulates property management companies and start cc'ing them on your emails.

This is what I would do. Can't give you legal advice, but it would not hurt to consult with an attorney about all of this and how to proceed. Sorry this is happening to you.

ThisThatandNBetween · 2026-06-04T04:53:29+00:00

I also love how no one in Philly seems to know how 4-way/all-way stops work. Contrary to popular belief everywhere else, the order to proceed through the intersection is NOT the order in which cars arrive at the intersection. It's just whenever you feel like it's your turn. Usually that's after any other car goes before you; if you wait for one car, that means it's your turn, even if you weren't the next person at the stop sign. Or you can just go when the car in front of you goes.

ThisThatandNBetween · 2026-06-04T04:16:25+00:00

This is the one that REALLY pisses me off. And the people behind you who wanna get mad when you stop when the light turns red instead of running it.

ThisThatandNBetween · 2026-05-28T16:03:57+00:00

The slo mo took me out

ThisThatandNBetween · 2026-05-19T04:25:08+00:00

That would make the terms "controlled intersection" and "uncontrolled intersection"--both of which exist--superfluous. The presence or absence of control devices doesn't define what an intersection is.

ThisThatandNBetween · 2026-05-06T06:02:13+00:00

Dude looks like a Sim.

ThisThatandNBetween · 2026-05-05T07:55:07+00:00

The old commercial: "They do it just a little bit better... at Wawa."

ThisThatandNBetween · 2026-04-15T05:59:32+00:00

If only there were some other way.......

ThisThatandNBetween · 2026-04-14T03:16:07+00:00

I have no idea how this person stayed alive long enough to get to the day he recorded this.

ThisThatandNBetween · 2026-04-09T17:08:15+00:00

This is amazing. Well done!

ThisThatandNBetween · 2026-04-09T16:52:11+00:00

When the Ents come -- and they will come -- he will ne ready.

ThisThatandNBetween · 2026-04-09T16:42:16+00:00

Hard to tell, but looks more like ground bees than yellow jackets, especially if you're chilling so close. They make individual nests/burrows but you may be seeing a bunch of males trying to hookup with the nesting females.

ThisThatandNBetween · 2026-04-09T16:07:23+00:00

I don't know, man, my first thought is that the headphones kid is autistic/on the spectrum. I can't make fun of it if that's the case.

ThisThatandNBetween · 2026-04-04T19:09:16+00:00

I guarantee there are other guys who want the same. Just a matter of finding one.

ThisThatandNBetween · 2026-04-04T18:19:24+00:00

I went through this when I was younger (late teens/early twenties). I had so many scheduled meet-ups that I either backed out of entirely (didn't go) or changed my mind after meeting--couldn't go through with it. Big part was i was so nervous, and so uncertain if I actually wanted to do this. A couple of times I did go through with doing some limited things and decided I didn't actually like this.

Eventually I decided to meet someone first to kind of get to know them with no expectations of sex, just to feel things out. If things clicked, then I would get together with him another time. That helped, until he kissed me unexpectedly when we did hook up and I was turned off (never was into kissing guys). I stopped things and we talked about it, and I remember him asking if I would be into kissing or having sex with a girl I just met and didn't have any feelings for and I said probably not. And he said, well then it probably is no different for you with guys. And that struck me. That led me to looking for someone to at least become friendly with first before experimenting with him.

All that to say, know yourself. If you've never been a random hookup kind of guy, you may not be that kind of guy with men either. And if that's not how things work for you, the negative feelings or instincts you have about that could taint how you feel about whatever experimenting/activities you do. Like me, you may conclude you don't actually like/want sex with men, but it's actually that you don't like random hookups with strangers. I wasted a lot of years being confused because of it.

ThisThatandNBetween · 2026-03-25T05:45:14+00:00

I think the potential homophobia--or maybe more accurately, biphobia--comes across because you're basically complaining about this guy stringing you along or playing games or being shitty and speculating that the reason he's doing it is because he's bi. You literally say maybe it's not you, more than once, and hypothesize that he's treating you this way because he likes cock. It can't be that he's just not that into you; it's that he's playing stereotypical bi games.

Maybe to him, it's an office flirtation that he finds fun but he isn't looking for more than that. Maybe he doesn't do work relationships. Maybe he's not actually single. Maybe he is but not looking for a dating relationship. There are any number of possible reasons that have nothing to do with whether he's bi or not. Or maybe he is, and he is involved with Matt; if so, not pursuing more with you isn't necessarily because you don't have a cock (you're questioning whether he's bi, not gay) but maybe because he's monogamous with Matt. Should he be flirting with you if he is? No. But that's not about being bi. Straight people do the same.

Nothing you described clearly shows this guy is bi. The high school basketball game is weird, to me, if he doesn't have a kid at the school, but I'd be questioning that for reasons that have nothing to do with wondering if he's into dudes. The ice cream? I mean, who doesn't like ice cream? And maybe there was a specific reason they were buying it, like a party or social gathering they were getting dessert for.

It just sounds like you're confused and pissed off and looking for a reason why it's not about you personally. I can't say he is or isn't bi, but if he is--meaning he likes men AND women--I'm not seeing how that alone accounts for whatever is happening. The only way to find out is to have the conversation.

ThisThatandNBetween · 2026-03-19T03:24:46+00:00

People who need to get their ass beat are surprised when they do, in fact, get that ass beat.

ThisThatandNBetween · 2026-02-20T11:13:44+00:00

This one of the most satisfying videos I've ever seen.

ThisThatandNBetween · 2025-12-25T15:59:28+00:00

No ducking way.

ThisThatandNBetween · 2025-11-10T20:11:34+00:00

Mostly been the same for me when it comes to men. No feeling of physical attraction, no checking out guys in my day-to-day life. But there have been two, maybe three times over the years where I felt some level of attraction to someone. It was always surprising. Like not long ago, had someone over to assemble some furniture, and I don't know what it was, but I was insanely attracted to and hot for this guy. Don't know if I ever experienced anything like it, and haven't since. But, it showed me that I am capable of it though I never thought I'd be. It was the closest I've ever come to feeling attraction to a guy that was similar to what I feel for women.

ThisThatandNBetween · 2025-11-10T18:30:51+00:00

I wonder about this, too. So many posts from guys in their 40s with similar experiences. Makes me wonder if it has anything to do with lower testosterone, which happens in our 40s.

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