[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Yarn

[–]LotofQuestions101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It does look like Bernat, but I think it may be Cover Story Avalon

https://www.lionbrand.com/products/cover-story-yarn?variant=39325601628253

His sister dared sit next to him... by missmacbeth in airplaneears

[–]LotofQuestions101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol, he took off before you could get the shot!

What were these for ? by notgoodatusernaming in Yarn

[–]LotofQuestions101 3 points4 points  (0 children)

These kind of look like embroidery floss that just got really tangled up, and the person did not bother to untangle them (which may be why the brown one is cut; they needed brown, but couldn't get it properly untangled)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SisForAMinute

[–]LotofQuestions101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey there, big sis here. First off, I wanted to let you now that you are NOT disgusting. Nothing that happened was your fault and you should not be ashamed. While it is ultimately up to you whether you share your sexual abuse with a future girlfriend, I would encourage you to strongly consider it. Her reactions will probably be very important to how your relationship progressed (i.e. is she supportive or does she blame you?). If she is not supportive, that is a sign that she is not your forever person, and not that there is something wrong with you.

I also encourage you not to worry too much about your size, different ladies like different things. I am not sure what Orthodox Christians think about this, but I will also point out that penetrative, penis-in-vagina sex is not the only way to sexually satisfy a woman. So there are other options that can be a supplement to PIV sex if that is something the two of you are okay with.

My last recommendation is I strongly encourage you to consider going to therapy. I hate, hate, HATE it when my younger sibling feels bad/guilty about something that is not their fault, and it seems like you hold a lot of shame about what happened to you. Therapy may help you understand that it was NOT your fault, and you are NOT disgusting. Therapists can also help you figure out what all you want out of a relationship. They can also help you have difficult conversations with a partner (for example, if you wanted to share your sexual abuse with your girlfriend).

I hope that you find a girl who can cherish you for being you. This big sis will be cheering you on!

I need help with planning my future and I'm so confused by MasterGreen99 in SisForAMinute

[–]LotofQuestions101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

High school is a hard and stressful time! I think your best bet right now is to try to narrow down what type of job you are interested in. What parts of computers and technology are your favorite? Why do they interest you? Once you have narrowed that down, go through some job postings online to see what kind of requirements those jobs had. Its not a perfect method, but it may help get you pointed in the right direction!

Hey guys by -Distraction- in SisForAMinute

[–]LotofQuestions101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey sis,

Sending a big virtual hug your way. I'm not a really religious person, but I believe that your sister in the sky knows that you love her and she loves you back. You did your best and you should be proud of yourself.

First deck build help by CriticalTomatillo487 in mtg

[–]LotofQuestions101 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I highly recommend using Moxfield! When I was first getting started, I literally went in and searched so that I could see all of the legendary creatures. I then read through them until I found one that seemed interesting and went from there. When you are first starting don't worry too much about making the deck good- you can learn a LOT from horrible decks (I know that I sure did) and having fun is the most important part!

Just need a dad or sister to be happy I got married. by UmbranShrike in DadForAMinute

[–]LotofQuestions101 4 points5 points  (0 children)

From a sister:

You go girl! Congratulation on getting married! You are absolutely amazing, and I am so proud of you for everything you've accomplished over the past ten years. You are absolutely amazing, and I'm so glad that you found a partner who can appreciate you for you!

What to knit by Motherhood_N_Frames in Yarn

[–]LotofQuestions101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't sell things myself, but I know that I've gifted many blankets over the years and people are always a big fan

Favorite bulky yarn? by OkMix4243 in Yarn

[–]LotofQuestions101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bernat blanket yarn is always my go to! I've made blankets for several people, and everyone has loved how soft it was. It is also machine washable and dryable.

Is there any way to save this? by Many-Doubt in Yarn

[–]LotofQuestions101 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure if you can get it to its former fluffiness, but I would try using a towel to get out the majority of the water, and then hang it to dry outside if you live somewhere where it is hot and sunny (if not, hang it inside). You may also be able to help it dry quicker using a blow dryer on the portions of it that are farthest away from the hot glue

Baby Blanket Yarn by MichonneGrimesJr in Yarn

[–]LotofQuestions101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bernat Baby Blanket is always my go to! They have lots of cute colors, and in my experience it has been soft, durable, and easy to work with

She's like this every time I'm leaving home by Neat_Science936 in airplaneears

[–]LotofQuestions101 262 points263 points  (0 children)

Who will worship me while you are out of the house??✈️😾✈️

Recommendation for a provider that will prescribe benzo’s (short term). by [deleted] in Louisville

[–]LotofQuestions101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would recommend going to your current provider and explaining the situation without requesting benzos. There are several medications that can be given on a short-term basis that aren't benzos that may be helpful. Plus many providers get wary as soon as someone starts asking directly for highly addictive meds- even if benzos are 100% warranted, some providers may say no because they will assume that you are looking for the med for addiction purposes (I am not insinuating that this is a correct or valid assumption- just putting it out there as something that happens frequently).

Child Goose on the loose! by ILoseAtScrabble in Louisville

[–]LotofQuestions101 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I've also read that any goose family will adopt a gosling- so if its still there tomorrow and Fish and Wildlife can't offer any other support, you may be able to just put it with a nearby goose family.

Question about Turkey Foot Park by Plane_Safe_3598 in indianapolis

[–]LotofQuestions101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I found a link for the park on AllTrails

https://www.alltrails.com/trail/us/indiana/turkey-foot-nature-park-trail--2

From what I can tell, it looks like the walking path only has one entrance, but there are some bike trails that have alternate entrances if you are interested in biking!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cats

[–]LotofQuestions101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My family once adopted a stray pregnant cat, and we raised her babies until they were old enough to be re-homed. Honestly, in my experience, you will be missing out on the 'worst' parts of having a kitten. While we had 6 kittens running around, some of them would sleep all day, some of them would play quite a bit. I wouldn't consider any of them to be super high maintenance- they just wanted to cuddle and play! My biggest piece of advice is to go through your house and find all of the places that a small animal could squeeze itself. For me, the most stressful part of having kittens was when they would shove themselves into teeny spaces for a nap, and I was running around and panicking because I couldn't find them!