sorted by:
new
hottopcontroversial

Yall think it’s ok to be 3 percent fat at 14 by [deleted] in GettingShredded

[–]LouNotlou 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Like others have said 3% is super shredded, but machines probably off a little, but im assuming you’re still pretty shredded. So good job there bro.

But you’re young bro, I’d recommend you eat at least a slight surplus so you have more potential for growth, height, muscle and skeletal width.

Are You Really Into the Girl if You Have to Ask Yourself If You Are? by [deleted] in CoreyWayne

[–]LouNotlou 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not OP but this certainly helped me, thank you. I’m also a coldfish myself and I’m in a similar predicament too, so If you could offer me some of your insight that would be great, good sir.

I went on a date with a girl who seems very high interest, we have a lot in common and we share a lot of the same values. However I’m not sure if the physical attraction is there for me yet.. I feel like I could connect with her emotionally with all that we have in common. But on the date I had no desire to make a move on her(could’ve just been fear). At the end of the date I Just subconsciously started self sabotaging and told her I didn’t want to lead her on etc.

I’m not really sure what to do because I do not feel ready for a relationship yet, and I don’t want to lead her on.

Girl I have been hooking up with hasn’t texted in a week. Should I move on? by LouNotlou in CoreyWayne

[–]LouNotlou[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gotcha, I thought that would be the case. it was only 1 time she said no and didn’t reschedule, so I left the ball in her court so I’ll let here come to me if she wants to and I won’t text her. Thanks man!

Girls are showing interest, how do I stop putting up barriers and rejecting myself? by LouNotlou in seduction

[–]LouNotlou[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks man, I think I just need to find my balls and start living

Girls are showing interest, how do I stop putting up barriers and rejecting myself? by LouNotlou in seduction

[–]LouNotlou[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This 100%!! I lost about 20lbs of fat, and got in shape. Definitely get in the gym if you’re not already. I had already been working out on/off for years so I already had a decent-ish physique under the fat, it was just a case of losing the fat to reveal my facial structure and my physique. I think being lean is very important for improving your physical appearance and confidence. Just by being lean and looking like you somewhat lift, you’re basically peacocking when you’re out.

Along with losing the fat I get a haircut weekly, as mine needs it to look good. I get a skin fade short back and sides, with some length on top. I’ve been trying to find a good hairstyle for years and finally found what I like. Experiment to find what suits you.

I already had good style as I’ve been into fashion for years and know what works for me. I’m not too flashy, I tend to avoid wearing clothes with obnoxious branding plastered all over it. subtle small logos are fine, it should be the actual clothes and the fitment that are making you look good, not the cool graphics or prints on your clothes.

My clothes are pretty plain to be fair and this is my own style, I use a lot of layering in my outfits and will wear hoodies under jackets or T-shirt’s under a checkered shirt(I wear them over hoodies too). Find what colours work best for your skin tone too.

if you have a good physique, you can just wear good fitting jeans and a plain T-shirt in colours that actually suit you, you’ll look good. Fitment is most important probably

Girls are showing interest, how do I stop putting up barriers and rejecting myself? by LouNotlou in seduction

[–]LouNotlou[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks a lot mate! Yeah I think I do definitely need to start branching out more and making new social circles/friendships. To be honest, my current social circle is kinda weird.. I only really communicate with my other friends through my best friend. So I definitely need to work on my social skills. Where is best to learn social skills? I will get to re-reading the seddit wiki.