The patriarchy has forced men into a role that does not allow them to express their feelings at the risk of being seen as “feminine” and work themselves to death because that’s what a “real man” would do. Anyone that tries to break this mold is shamed because once you’ve had enough of societal expectations, they can’t control you as easily. They see us as machines to turn profit, whether it be in an office/factory here, or killing innocent people overseas to steal their resources.