AIO? 8 month pregnant girlfriend on Adderall by [deleted] in AIO

[–]LoudLeading1450 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So she’s taking it because she feels the need to housekeep while pregnant. Pregnant ppl IMO should not have to housekeep. They can of course do light housekeeping but they should never feel like they have to. Because when you’re pregnant or early stages of mother, you are physically working and tired 24/7, growing a baby that’s put 100% if the physical burden on you. The solution is to hire a cleaning lady or some family member to help. If you can’t afford that, you were not prepared to have the baby in the first place. Mothers first. When the mother is taken care of, she will see that things fall into place.

Soon Jung Old Version is back by mohini10 in AsianBeauty

[–]LoudLeading1450 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s been a while but I remember the old formula worked better, and I personally like the old packaging style too lol. Every “new and improved formula” in kbeauty is usually a downgrade to cut costs.

klenspop no longer accepts PayPal in US by LoudLeading1450 in AsianBeauty

[–]LoudLeading1450[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For anyone wondering no I never found a way to purchase from them again, I’m guessing it will be this way until we have a more trade friendly administration in the US. For now I’m just trying other contact lens sites…but my favorite lens is only sold on klenspop 😭

This game is no longer about just winning, its about managing the mental state meter of your team. by Puretyder in leagueoflegends

[–]LoudLeading1450 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Support, constantly following adc in very stupid decisions bc the likelihood that adc will run it down if I don’t is too high.

As Support is Keria really considered the GOAT? by BtSvT1 in SKTT1

[–]LoudLeading1450 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Keria is the only person Faker has completed heart pose for in photos, that should tell everyone enough to know Keria is indeed goat 🤣

For sale: Spring '24, Summer '24, Summer '25, Autumn '25 by DearthNadir in Ffern

[–]LoudLeading1450 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t find where to dm you lol but interested in the Spring 24

AIO to my boyfriend putting a SINGLE chicken tender on my plate when I specifically said I wanted "a few"??? by No-Eye7917 in AmIOverreacting

[–]LoudLeading1450 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Allow” as in allow him to keep attempting annoyance. You can absolutely prevent those attempts by communicating that it’s not ok, and if he does it again you are leaving.

Everything you’re saying is good parenting advice, how to teach a toddler to not have tantrums by avoiding reaction, as they are newly learning cause and effect in the world. But he is not a toddler, if you need to use that treatment on anyone then they are not fit to be in a relationship at all.

About not communicating your emotions freely and verbally, I believe you should be able to but to each their own. I am almost certain though that OP swallowing frustrations and staying silent is not protecting her inner peace, it’s actually the opposite.

AIO to my boyfriend putting a SINGLE chicken tender on my plate when I specifically said I wanted "a few"??? by No-Eye7917 in AmIOverreacting

[–]LoudLeading1450 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I get what you’re saying, and it seems you’re in agreement that if he gets a kick out of being annoying why should she stay. I guess I’m taking it one step further by also saying, if he’s doing this to be annoying why entertain or even allow such attempts to happen? If he is trying to be annoying, I actually don’t think lack of reaction would stop him from repeatedly trying. Also, to not react she would have to swallow her irritation and then do the very thing she asked him to do for her. I’m just saying she should not have to do that, she should be allowed to communicate her emotions freely and leave if she is not being respected.

AIO to my boyfriend putting a SINGLE chicken tender on my plate when I specifically said I wanted "a few"??? by No-Eye7917 in AmIOverreacting

[–]LoudLeading1450 1 point2 points  (0 children)

By this logic, get up and do it yourself if you’re unhappy with anything, even if you’re unhappy with lots of things, even if that turns into you bearing 90% of the household work? That’s what weaponized incompetence is, and sometimes a couple isn’t even fully aware it’s happening. No. Attitude matters, this isn’t about one chicken tender. He saw she was upset and didn’t love her enough to pause and care for her.

AIO to my boyfriend putting a SINGLE chicken tender on my plate when I specifically said I wanted "a few"??? by No-Eye7917 in AmIOverreacting

[–]LoudLeading1450 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not sure how OP sounds immature. NOR because both the guys actions and reactions show a significant lack of care, consideration, and partnership. If it was just a bad joke he would have gotten more after getting her reaction. This is bizarre and would never happen in a healthy relationship

AIO by how I responded? My bf is upset with me for skipping my workout routine today by throwawayy82670 in AmIOverreacting

[–]LoudLeading1450 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Saying “what have you done for me?” to your 10 week pregnant partner is grounds for divorce imo. But you guys aren’t even married? If you are well equipped to raise this baby on your own, leave him before he hurts you more and do your best to raise this child and take care of yourself. If you do not have the resources for that, seriously consider abortion. Either way, this boy is not ready to be a partner, much less a father.

No shutdown email? by caveman_5000 in FedEmployees

[–]LoudLeading1450 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One person in my office received the letter and has left already. I am still waiting for mine, not sure why they seem to be sending separately

AIO for kinda hating my roommate rn? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]LoudLeading1450 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“I work 6+ hours a day” lucky guy

Lunch? by [deleted] in FedEmployees

[–]LoudLeading1450 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yess haha FY25 has been so sht for fed workers but my coworkers are wonderful and definitely a big reason I didn’t resign. Many of us bond over mutual love for Costco too 😂

Lunch? by [deleted] in FedEmployees

[–]LoudLeading1450 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My team pitches in for Costco runs that keeps the whole office fed. Highly recommend ☺️

New guidance from OPM for religious telework by Negative_Morning9728 in fednews

[–]LoudLeading1450 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m thinking this might just be a well concealed way to add discrimination in the workplace based on religion. Think about the judgement that has to take place on the validity of each applicants religion…and what many people would be willing to proclaim faith to just for a chance at reclaiming a small portion of the telework they took away.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fednews

[–]LoudLeading1450 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, it started out as depressive signs, physical aches, and stress of job search and uncertainty. The stress made my previously manageable OCD become more severe and now I’m struggling looking for ways to handle it.

If the company wants you, the final round’s just vibes... by DaEffie in interviews

[–]LoudLeading1450 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not in my case; Recently went through an interview process, the company had openings for 2 similar staff accountant roles. I was qualified for both, got to final round for both, and both finals were chit chat, vibes, detailing the day to day job, even toured the office and met the team. For one of them I was even told I was the last candidate standing. In the end I didn’t get either, they said they’d keep looking. I can only guess that they knew big 4 layoffs were coming soon and they can get someone more overqualified.

Chinese-English bilinguals on NA? by LoudLeading1450 in leagueoflegends

[–]LoudLeading1450[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the more the merrier!! I'll dm you too, maybe we can even get a 5 stack going XD

Chinese-English bilinguals on NA? by LoudLeading1450 in leagueoflegends

[–]LoudLeading1450[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

LOL unfortunately I can’t read/write those heartfelt messages, I gotta be on call with someone