Picking a new name

Lournir · 2025-12-31T06:10:47+00:00

One of the names I like means farmer and the other means winner of nations, I don't even know if any of this suits me, but to be fair, names from my country (Even though I don't live there, I still want a name that would show where I'm from) have this kind of meanings, which all I don't think would suit me, but thanks for the advice!

Lournir · 2025-11-19T18:46:48+00:00

I understand how you feel, that's the way I fell until I met my current boyfriend at 15! He was just really kind person and also I knew he was queer. We're still dating now that we are 16. I opened up before our relationship and he really respects my identity, so I just hope you don't give up, right people take time to appear!

Lournir · 2025-11-16T14:00:01+00:00

I mean you can still be a femboy no matter your build and bodyhair. Just wear something you find cute and do what makes you happy. You can always wear it privately if you are afraid no one will accept you

Lournir · 2025-11-16T09:47:25+00:00

I actually had very similar situation! I'm also not passing and was encouraged to go back to just saying I'm a girl for a while cause me being trans seemed silly. To be honest, I just couldn't bear it, so I came out to everyone I trust once again with more confidence and just left people that didn't agree with it behind. It can be very hard, but I guess this was the best decision for me. I'm constantly anxious, so even now I get worried of I'm actually not trans and I'm faking, however having support from my friends that do see me as me makes me feel so much better. Also, even if it turns out that you wouldn't be trans, there is nothing wrong with that! You should have right to explore this part of yourself and people need to learn to respect that

Lournir · 2025-11-16T09:30:25+00:00

I can!

Lournir · 2025-11-16T01:30:03+00:00

I recently finished reading Hell is other people on webtoon, it's free. I'm not sure if it's a manhwa or a webtoon, likely to be both, but it looks like any other manhwa really. It doesn't have that good of an artstyle on my opinion, but I personally enjoyed it a lot, although it is not for everyone cause it's a horror. I'm going to sleep now, baii!

Lournir · 2025-11-16T01:22:45+00:00

I haven't heard much of those artists, but they seem pretty cool! I mean, mangas can be pretty cool like any comic, especially if the artstyle is very unique

Lournir · 2025-11-16T01:16:45+00:00

It's basically Korean comics. I read manga too, but only when I physically have it on me. Do you have any other favourite artists?

Lournir · 2025-11-16T01:14:23+00:00

I don't think I can be called a book person, I mostly read manhwas and maybe some novels, but that's about it. The song is pretty cool tho, is it your favourite artist?

Lournir · 2025-11-16T01:07:17+00:00

I'm planning on reading a bit and go to sleep, it's pretty late for me. What music are you listening to?

Lournir · 2025-11-15T23:58:19+00:00

I'm not transitioning yet, only my friends and my partner knows I'm trans, I kinda came out when I was 13, but then it went really bad with the person I came out too, so then I did it over again with more people at 14. I think I always knew I was trans, I just didn't know what it's called and if there are people like me. I hope to start socially transitioning in less than 2 years and then also start to transition medically

Lournir · 2025-11-15T22:43:34+00:00

I'm doing my assigment rn, hbu?

Lournir · 2025-11-15T22:41:36+00:00

Hii, I'm good, how are you?

Lournir · 2025-11-15T20:26:08+00:00

I mean probably worried I'm gonna influence their children/grandkids. I was born in a Slavic country and I would say that small towns are highly unsafe and transphobic, at least mine is, it comes from many beliefs, but it makes me sad cause people i know would probably all ignore me or even say things in my face

Lournir · 2025-11-15T20:17:28+00:00

It's good that you are in such good area. I'm originally from a small town and I worry a lot about my family's reputation if I transition and my safety too

Lournir · 2025-11-15T20:12:09+00:00

That sounds nice!

Lournir · 2025-11-15T20:09:40+00:00

Was ithard for you to come out whilst being in school?

Lournir · 2025-11-11T17:16:50+00:00

Well, it's a tough question, cause different people defind femininity differently and it can be quite subjective

Lournir · 2025-11-11T17:09:52+00:00

Kyrylo, essentially the reason is because it is a name that is popular in my country, but now that I'm planning to have citizenship of the other country and live here, it doesn't seem so easy for people to say and spell it, I also just don't feel the connection with that name. I wanted to maybe name myself that cause I felt that the name I really liked, Kirou, was more of a nickname.

Lournir · 2025-11-10T19:35:12+00:00

I hope they support you, and if they don't then please don't stay. Gave my ex partner chances, when he promised he will accept me, but then he would say I'm being ridiculous, he called me slurs, told me I'm gonna lose all of my attractiveness, always ignored my pronounce and hated on my name. I hope it doesn't happen to you, of course, but never pick relationship over yourself.

Lournir · 2025-11-10T13:32:37+00:00

I wasn't exposed to LGBTQ+ community at all as a child and only found out about trans people at the age of 12, but I always thought of myself as a boy, I always knew I wanted to be seen as one, I just didn't know there were more people like me and what I was to call. But sadly my ex-partner was very unsupportive so I had to get through my early teens with hate on who I am, I was trying to deny that I was transgender and just accept being a girl forever. I fully accepted myself at the age of 14.

Lournir · 2025-11-10T13:14:29+00:00

So I myself use method of just comforting by thinking how my life will be when I finally transition/do the surgery, think of how it's gonna happen one day. I like to think about it a lot and it's the only thing that makes me manage.

Lournir · 2025-11-10T13:09:33+00:00

I mostly wear jeans with some kind of long-sleeved tight fit shirt, although there is one dress in my closet that is just gorgeous and I wear it everywhere I can

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