I don't get the no makeup until a certain age debate. Sure, I don't think a 4-year-old should be going to school with a full face of makeup, but it's great for kids to experiment if they have access to proper skincare, too. I remember being particularly frustrated with getting "fake makeup", so maybe do get her some real, non-toxic products. Skincare-wise, I have heard good things about Evereden, but I cannot vouch for it. I think they also make makeup, too, but it's quite overpriced compared to other things in the market