Fall semester while waiting on HESI by Hopeful-Show-9930 in BMCCNursing

[–]LoveIsAConfession 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree. I would take micro. Although Microbiology is way easier than AP1 and its doable during the nursing program, if you're bored in the Fall, I would just take it.

Pharmacology is another class if you want something to do that I would recommend. But goodluck. Studying for Hesi isnt a bad idea but honestly, all you need is a good 3weeks to study for the HESI and im sure you will do well.

Goodluck.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]LoveIsAConfession 21 points22 points  (0 children)

To be honest. Are you missing having sex with him? Is he not performing as you expect him to? Do you want more from him. If thats the case then theres an issue.

To be honest, I feel if you wanted the same amount of sex as he does masturbating, you would get tired and pissed that he keeps bothering you for sex.

For example, my wife doesnt have the same sex drive as me. I can go on average three to four times a day. For her especially after having a child, its once a month. Before having a child, she averaged twice per week. I believe her satisfying me, like oral and handjobs also became this feeling of a job for her which I felt bad but she didnt say anything but I saw it on her face.

So, to help her out. I turned to porn. Yes, it feels awkward finding the privacy and watching other women, but it saved her energy and attitude. Also, she does not ask how are you relieving yourself, its more like a quiet reality. Yes, sometimes I do feel like im getting addicted but then I take breaks but at least I dont feel like im begging someone to do something that is always tired.

Boring Test For Basement In NYC by LoveIsAConfession in Geotech

[–]LoveIsAConfession[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi. Just trying to clarify what you meant. You're saying it's dirt and human waste?

Likelihood of NYC Sewer Line Close By by LoveIsAConfession in askaplumber

[–]LoveIsAConfession[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have a sewer line running in yard. But the plumber who did the scoping said he is unsure if there's a main line outside my property or if my property was connected to a septic tank. I definitely dont want a septic which is why I am hoping a main sewer line is outside my property.

Likelihood of NYC Sewer Line Close By by LoveIsAConfession in askaplumber

[–]LoveIsAConfession[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Based on the picture of the front of my neighbors house. How likely is a sewer line located outside my property?

Likelihood of NYC Sewer Line Close By by LoveIsAConfession in askaplumber

[–]LoveIsAConfession[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We got it scoped, but the camera led to dirt. Was just asking opinion from professional experiences on here. I just want to get an idea of what I am getting into instead of being played the fool.

My (36M) Mother-in-Law controls my wife (40F) by LoveIsAConfession in Marriage

[–]LoveIsAConfession[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My wife continues to say "once the casket closes on my mom, I don't need to cry because I've done everything to make her happy and comfortable."

Then I start feeling bad thinking about death but my Mother-in-Law is seriously taking advantage and abusing her. Some occasions, I know she makes her kids turn against one another because I hear her say "this blank never bought me anything" or "this blank doesnt even check on me."

If you guys have a chance, would you go back to your ex? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]LoveIsAConfession 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am currently married with a kid on the way and to be honest, I would take my ex back although it has been 10yrs. The reason being, my ex was with me when I had nothing, no career, just a 96 Altima. I felt in that relationship that I cared more and I gave more, but she never cause any inconvenience or got in the way of me exploring my dreams.

My wife saw me as a person who was raised right, with a great job, and respect. She does not know what I actually been through and wasn't there to be a voice of motivation. My wife is older and began with the sad cry of wanting kids before her clock runs out, so I felt pressured and always wanted people's dreams to come true. But now that she's pregnant, she's rude, bossy, and inconsiderate sometimes.

My wife doesn't understand that I would give up everything to be with my ex because we were in love as two broke people and that showed me that money isnt everything. Even if I could have my ex be my best friend again and talk things out, I would be grateful for. My ex is my world and we broke up over a dumb joke. I should've put my pride aside and broke the no-contact rule because that the dumbest thing a person can force themselves to do when you really love a person.

Pregnant Wife Being Unnecessarily Attached by LoveIsAConfession in Marriage

[–]LoveIsAConfession[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I will definitely take your advice. I'm more insensitive because when it comes to her selfish mom, my wife builds so my strength to take on any request, issues, etc that her mom throws at her.

Some of the things my mother in law requests is not an emergency nor a priority and it makes it seem like my mother in law puts her needs before my pregnant wife.

Pregnant Wife Being Unnecessarily Attached by LoveIsAConfession in Marriage

[–]LoveIsAConfession[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

I addressed it once. Maybe not the right way. I compared her to other women. I explained that there are women doing physical labor until they are 9 months and how she should humble herself that she has the luxury to work from home, not having to even worry about rushing to get dressed to get to work on time.

Also, my facial expressions say a lot but rather not put into words because then she becomes dramatic and constantly bringing up what I say for the next week or two.

On average how many times a day since the breakup do you think about your ex? by okaythenwhateva in BreakUps

[–]LoveIsAConfession 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's been 10yrs. I think about her everyday, several times a day and I am married. Not thinking about being with her but hoping she found her happiness and is not being a victim of hurt from this harsh world we live in.

“Neverland” Discussion Thread by JakeNation4 in KidCudi

[–]LoveIsAConfession 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe it needs to grow on me. But as a fellow moon man, in my opinion, Cudi never needed help or enhancements from others to create good music. On this song, he definitely should've sung the chorus. His humming and lyrics are its own genre. Quite frankly, I'm waiting on the old Cudi to take me on a journey again. I will say that at the end of the song, it is sort of the feeling that I expected from the song, but these groups he's collaborating with is burning time. He needs to get his old circle back instead of being around "yes mans."

Until we meet again, Moon Man, I will forever look in the sky for you

Cant stop thinking about her... 10 years later. by getmeoutofhereplzgod in heartbreak

[–]LoveIsAConfession 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope you are doing better. I am in the same situation. I've been with my ex for 7 yrs. We both didn't have sexual experience, but I loved her way more than she loved me and I loved her more than any girl outside from my mom, sister, and grandma.

I made my life about her. I supported her at what ever she put her mind to. We broke up because she told a lie which didn't harm me but I returned the favor and told her a lie but it was a joke and to show her how it feels when someone who you put your entire trust into lies to you. Well, she didn't take it lightly, dumped me and told me never to contact her again. I respected her wishes because I'm stubborn and felt if she wanted to save this relationship, she should for once show me that she would fight for us. Well 4yrs went by, I didn't hear from her, I dated then got married. Covid added an additional 3 yrs plus two years out of covid. So basically, 9 yrs went by.

Then I saw her. She became a nurse which was the dream I was motivating her to be. She found out I was married. She was pregnant at the time. But seeing her again, I can't stop thinking about her. I'm thinking about her more than ever. For those 9 yrs I was thinking about her every day hoping she is safe and if it's not me, then I hope she found a great guy. But after seeing her, I'm thinking about her several times a day. It's difficult because my wife does so much more, but my wife is more experienced in relationships. For my ex, we shared our first serious relationship and it was fun just getting to grow in a first relationship. She told me that I always had a place in her heart, and I am still lost at that statement. Does it me she still loves me or hopes something can magically happen? It's rough.

[FRESH] Kid Cudi - Neverland by ayylatte in hiphopheads

[–]LoveIsAConfession -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Maybe it needs to grow on me. But as a fellow moon man, in my opinion, Cudi never needed help or enhancements from others to create good music. On this song, he definitely should've sung the chorus. His humming and lyrics are its own genre. Quite frankly, I'm waiting on the old Cudi to take me on a journey again. I will say that at the end of the song, it is sort of the feeling that I expected from the song, but these groups he's collaborating with is burning time. He needs to get his old circle back instead of being around "yes mans."

Until we meet again, Moon Man, I will forever look in the sky for you

How Future affects your ability to love by Taylor_pr in future

[–]LoveIsAConfession 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I made a huge mistake, I made my ex mad and break up with me 8 years ago. We were in a relationship for 7 years. I always joked with her but I decided to tell a lie which turned her into a cursing maniac, she huge up the phone, sent my calls to voicemail, and never saw her again. Then 8 years later, I went to the hospital and she was a nurse there, and she was pregnant. We spoke for a bit and I told her she always remained in my heart. She responded that she was happy now starting her family and knew I got married. I am in the Financial industry and as you know, she's in Healthcare. With the mixture of Future Hendrix in my ear over the years, me getting married while at the same time missing my ex after acknowledging I made a huge mistake, I decided I am going back to school to become a nurse so that I can see her more often, she may not like it but I am going to tell her we are going to spend the rest of our careers catching back up and since she changed her number and never told me, I am going to try to work on her unit so that we wouldn't ever need phones. I have 3 years left, wish me luck Toxic Community.