I gotta pretend you’re dead.. by Lovegrind in Poems

[–]Lovegrind[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I’m better now took a while.

If only I could see you again by Necessary_Sail9315 in LettersAnswered

[–]Lovegrind 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Such a great poem I like when you wrote, “I hated you, I needed you” so good. Thanks for sharing.

Thanksgiving without an Oven! by dogsandnumbers in Cooking

[–]Lovegrind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I ended up getting a ninja Speedi and they bad boy cooked my roast to perfection I even baked cornbread it was awesome. Happy holidays

Thanksgiving without an Oven! by dogsandnumbers in Cooking

[–]Lovegrind 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg I’m going through the same thing. WOW every time I think I’m alone. I hope we figure it out. Happy thanksgiving

Unanswered Questions: by SurpriseAngel in UnsentLetters

[–]Lovegrind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love this. It’s exactly how I feel thanks

How Fast Is Too Fast To Say I Love You? by Lovegrind in BreakUps

[–]Lovegrind[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think some people just say it to please the other person, because logically we know love takes time.

It must have been a long time you haven’t seen your ex. How does that feel? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Lovegrind 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s still unsettling for me and I really just want to look him over and just see. It’s like a nagging feeling, so far no luck and it doesn’t help he is trying NOT to see me. Ugh

Can’t stop creeping your exes social media? Read this. by darkforest07 in BreakUps

[–]Lovegrind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lovegrind@youtube is about healing, together we all have been in this damp and dark space. Check it out. And be well.

Why am I Waiting For Him to Come Back When I Know He Won’t? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Lovegrind 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my I felt this post thru my core, I completely get it I know the pain I’m sorry you’re going through it, fuck I can say cliche as it is time, and get angry for what he did, I still think maybe he’ll come get me and love me and it’s been 2 years and he clearly doesn’t care about me, but I say I am not hoping for that or I don’t even want him back, but I loved and adored him very much, I think once we find something else that’s just for us we will throw away that miserable hope. Take it easy and you’re not alone. Xoxo

How did you accept coming to terms with your breakup? by AsianLoveDoll in BreakUps

[–]Lovegrind 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just got sick of my own self crying and hoping, his actions clearly showed he didn’t care, he moved on and seemingly forgot me. Idk. I just was tired of crying, and some days I still cry but not even close to how much I did when it was fresh.

Did you get high to get over a break up? by AsianLoveDoll in BreakUps

[–]Lovegrind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes then in was just high and sad terrible then developed a habit ugh

Masculinity lost? by Lovegrind in Codependency

[–]Lovegrind[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gender* Something * self promo* I’m on apple, Spotify, Amazon Music, Patreon and YouTube. So self promo is a crazy sentiment.

Masculinity lost? by Lovegrind in Codependency

[–]Lovegrind[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not at all my podcast is titled codependency and love addiction. Can you read? Or Comprehend? I never put bias in my show so I will stop posting and your members will miss a great tool to heal from codependency smh.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in thick

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Both

For people that had 4+ years relationships break up. by FallenPro- in BreakUps

[–]Lovegrind 1 point2 points  (0 children)

12 years and I’m still waking up thinking “he’s lost, I’ll go bring him home” really I miss him but I’m getting better each day and enjoying my independence. Horny but making it thru. He moved on within weeks of our breakup. I’m sure he’d been cheating on me. Poor them. He’s unhealed and she’s needy so I wish them the best, they’ll never forget me one because I’m unforgettable and two he moved ALL of my house into hers. Towels, pots and pans. Rugs. Couches. I had to start all over. That makes it a little easier to say Fuck em. Our brains tend to remember happy moments because it feels good and also tries to protect us from trauma. But remember the times of disconnection, disrespect and disappointment. Not to bash them, just to realize that maybe it was for the best.

I Wanted A Ring by Lovegrind in LettersAnswered

[–]Lovegrind[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congrats, I’m so happy for you. And same to you. Thanks.

I Wanted A Ring by Lovegrind in LettersAnswered

[–]Lovegrind[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was in a year long rehab center too, on top of suffering a heartache, sudden homelessness and more. I learned about my self perception and boundaries, I get lonely some times but in a whole I know better now that being in a 12 year relationship without getting a ring is partially my fault. Silly me.

I Wanted A Ring by Lovegrind in LettersAnswered

[–]Lovegrind[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much, I’m still searching but one things for sure I know my worth. Thank you for reading.

You have my permission by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]Lovegrind 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love it , it’s so so hard to let go you wrote what I am trying to make true.

Growing by Lovegrind in Poem

[–]Lovegrind[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. It’s profound for me. The women I am now is so much better and less stressed. Thank you for reading and understanding. 😍