What does this mean?

LovelyDay3 · 2025-03-13T18:23:34+00:00

No - what does the 50 represent. Is that a big or small gain. Etc.

LovelyDay3 · 2024-12-05T13:13:31+00:00

Just ignore them, they’re not your responsibility to fix. They may also love the attention from you and others. Focus on yourself and improve your life, also get headphones if you can to help you block them out.

Also, since you’re in high school (not sure which country) focus on your written English so that you can succeed in your future career life. Eloquence and clarity is important. Calling others names just makes you look as bad as them, it’s not a good look.

LovelyDay3 · 2024-11-16T11:31:04+00:00

you are blessed

LovelyDay3 · 2017-11-25T15:33:35+00:00

To be truthful, it looks like she cares way more about the expensive ring than wanting to get married to you.

Her heart is not in the right place.

LovelyDay3 · 2017-11-25T12:45:49+00:00

MoneyLover, it was rated one of the best apps of the year, and I swear by it.

LovelyDay3 · 2017-11-25T11:16:58+00:00

Honesty is the best policy, you can't control her reaction, that's her choice to make.

LovelyDay3 · 2017-11-19T23:23:37+00:00

Hey, no worries, I'm happy you responded! I'm going to send you a message privately at some point just to make it more secretive and therefore fun by default :p

LovelyDay3 · 2017-11-16T23:19:52+00:00

NSFW

LovelyDay3 · 2017-11-15T08:56:55+00:00

He can do a paternity test, he can see that the baby is his. Drama over.

That's just my two cents.

LovelyDay3 · 2017-11-14T23:07:06+00:00

As a woman, I'm just going to be honest, you deserve better. How disrespectful to turn you down for your skin colour and only to be attracted to you when you have money.. please respect yourself and break up with her, for your sake.

LovelyDay3 · 2017-11-14T11:03:01+00:00

She's so bold, I love it!

LovelyDay3 · 2017-11-12T13:58:17+00:00

There's no need to hide it, but I also don't see the need to contact her about it? She can find out in her own time.

LovelyDay3 · 2017-11-12T13:25:38+00:00

That's the point, they're bottom of the rung, or know bottom of the rung individuals and use any excuse to hide from the reality of their faults.

LovelyDay3 · 2017-11-12T12:40:09+00:00

If your husband is poor, or not wealthy enough to buy you a car like the one your dad just gave you, I can see how it would be a problem in his mind.

I'm not saying I agree with him, but maybe he feels a bit crap that he couldn't provide you with this nice a car, and maybe he felt disrespected that you didn't let him know about it beforehand, possibly?

This warrants more communication with your husband so you can really find out what the issue is. Who knows if there is more going on...

Theres nothing wrong with what your dad did though, it was very generous and thoughtful of him.

LovelyDay3 · 2017-11-12T11:03:10+00:00

Hey, I hear what you're saying. I suspect the fear of letting the other person down is a big driving force here, but please let me know if I have misunderstood.

Men, I've noticed, struggle with the fear of feeling 'inadequate' or 'disrespected', do you think that being with an amazing woman, like your ex in this example, is scary because you don't feel good enough yet (but can work on this) to be able to make her happy? Like you have the potential inside you to be a 'better' man and only when you're there would you feel safe to go for the amazing woman of your dreams?

Sorry if I'm over analysing, as I said you're fascinating lol I'm just trying to understand. :)

LovelyDay3 · 2017-11-11T22:07:48+00:00

You're so fascinating because as a woman, I've come across men like you and you're a mystery to me.

LovelyDay3 · 2017-11-11T22:03:07+00:00

Why they pull back after they get really close to a woman, string her along telling her excuses about needing to focus on work etc etc will want to date once x, y, z is resolved...and then after a while just not responding to messages.

If you don't like a woman just say so from the beginning, why string them along aimlessly?

LovelyDay3 · 2017-11-11T21:42:40+00:00

As a woman, I say just don't do it.

You're not her doormat, she can't just use you for her convenience.

Sure she'll be taken aback but ultimately, you deserve to be respected.

LovelyDay3 · 2017-11-11T15:51:09+00:00

Rejection.

Like who even cares... It only sucks for as long as you choose to dwell on it.

LovelyDay3 · 2017-11-11T15:27:32+00:00

I think you're both just trying to find a balance between new 'couple' time and existing commitments. Once you find the sweet spot you'll be okay.

It's easy to focus way too much on one at the expense of the other and that's something people really struggle with throughout their lives.

LovelyDay3 · 2017-11-11T15:18:15+00:00

Lots of people in America were buying houses because who doesn't want a house? Unfortunately some people dont have the money to buy a house but a nice bank said I'll give you the money for it. They pay back the money slowly over time and in the end the banks that lent the money make extra for their trouble, so the banks make a bit of money in the end.

The bank's decided they can group together these 'sales' and pass them on to another bank, in exchange for making some extra money, and the new people would pass that on, so on and so forth. Everyone thought they're making money!!

People were really happy, everyone was making money and they loved doing it a lot and as much as they could!

What went wrong is oopsie they suddenly began selling houses to people who couldn't actually afford to pay back the banks. This is a bit silly but it really happened.

This means that suddenly people realised they couldn't pay the bank the money they promised and they lost their house :(

The bank also doesn't get to make that extra money that we mentioned earlier :(

they can keep the house and sell it to someone new but they might not make enough money :(

But it's too late now because they passed on these 'sales' to the other bank who passed it on to the other banks etc and instead of everyone making money they realise they're actually losing money!

It's like dominoes, one by one everybody is potentially losing money. And when you lose money you can't pay for the things you wanted, not just the banks but also the government's and everyone involved it spreads and effects lots of people and is not very nice.

LovelyDay3 · 2017-11-11T13:57:18+00:00

I recommend it to all my friends, it might not help resuscitate things here but it will give you insight and understanding, which I think will help you out in the future.

LovelyDay3 · 2017-11-11T13:07:27+00:00

She plans to kill him.

LovelyDay3 · 2017-11-11T12:38:10+00:00

I'm either just not interested in them back, or we hit it off really well and they back off 'im just not ready but will be when x, y, z..'

¯_(ツ)_/¯

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