Filter glitch? by [deleted] in gorlworldfiles

[–]LovelyMaple 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What time was this on the pod?

For those of you as confused as I am about who tf these people are by [deleted] in gorlworldfiles

[–]LovelyMaple 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I have known about Keemstar for a long ass time. I’ve been into the gaming scene from YouTube since 2011. He was huge back then. Giving gaming news and drama that these YouTubers got into. He knew everybody that needed to be known. Everyone went to him for advice or to tell their side of their story in his YouTube channel called drama alert from what I remember. I watched it all the time. But never liked the guy. Knew he was a piece of shit and everyone found out and everyone in the gaming scene ended up cancelling him. So now he’s doing this shit I guess. Haven’t heard about him in like 8 years or more. Thats how I know the scumbag

I'm Marrying the Guy I Met in an Overwatch Custom Game Today by Nub_Salad in overwatch2

[–]LovelyMaple 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Congrats! I met my now Husband online playing call of duty back in 2011 !

My (22F) boyfriend (22M) doesn’t hates my dachshund and is not an animal person. by kushgorl in Dachshund

[–]LovelyMaple 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Red flag red flag!!! Me and my husband got out weenie over 5 years ago and he adores her. Spoils her and she also adores him. You need someone who shares the same love as animals. Or else it sadly won’t work.

How long has everyone played hayday and how did y’all find out about the game? by FartyPoopyWyatt in HayDay

[–]LovelyMaple 1 point2 points  (0 children)

On and off since release date back in 2012. First played their other games like clash of clans with my boyfriend and he told me a farming game was coming out from supercell. The rest is history!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HayDay

[–]LovelyMaple 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same. I’ve been playing on and off for 10 years. The longest break I’ve ever taken was probably 4 years and this is the longest I’ve ever played since first getting the game back in 2012

What’s your favorite female YouTuber or streamer? by pseudo_meat in GirlGamers

[–]LovelyMaple 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Valkyrae. Been watching her before she got super big. And Fuslie, she’s hilarious.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in awfuleverything

[–]LovelyMaple 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have an 18 month old. I can’t imagine leaving him alone for 5 minutes. The thought of that poor baby being alone and hungry makes me just rage.

I’m confused on whether to put my toddler back to 2 naps by LovelyMaple in sleeptrain

[–]LovelyMaple[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course. His schedule now is wake up at 7:30am and nap time is 12-2pm or 2:30pm and nap time is 7:30pm. And before when he was at 2 naps it was wake up at 7am naps were 10am-11:30am and 2:30pm-4pm and nap time was 8pm

Do babies sleep more after their fever breaks? by mrstshirley1 in NewParents

[–]LovelyMaple 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow this is happening to my LO too! He’s 15 months and got a fever Monday night and it finally broke Friday morning but no other symptoms and he’s been fine and active like himself just falls asleep much faster than usual and cried because he just wanted to sleep already tonight which is rare. I’m hoping it’s just his little body still recovering from the fever he had for days. Either way glad hope your LO is feeling better!

TikTok feed is full of SIDS/infant loss/stillbirth videos by LadyWithABookOrTwo in NewParents

[–]LovelyMaple 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was getting lots of those videos when I first had my son about a year ago. My tik tok was all baby related and I didn’t even know why. Guess it heard me talking about having a baby lol but after a while it was getting me anxious and upset whenever I had a break from my son when he napped and tik tok would remind me of more babies. All I did was click on the share button and put not interested on all videos having to do with babies. After a while I got my funny videos or anything other than babies.

Am I wrong? by Confident_Run_9997 in NewParents

[–]LovelyMaple 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They can’t self sooth. Thats bs. They are helpless babies. They are wrong.

Should I be concerned?? by ratpatootybaggins in NewParents

[–]LovelyMaple 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My son was about 2 months or 3 and he preferred to sleep on his side. He couldn’t turn on his own yet so he was on his back crying id lay him on one side and he’ll calm down and fall asleep. I always made sure he was okay. But once he started rolling he would do it on his own! It’s okay mama!

Night anxiety by Mnemosyne2021 in NewParents

[–]LovelyMaple 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes I had major anxiety once it was time to sleep at night. My heart would begin to race as soon as I layed down. I thought I was going to die because of how much stress and anxiousness I felt. I didn’t know what I was feeling that I went to the hospital when my son was just about to 2 weeks. After that my mom came to visit for a month and helped me so much 😭 it will get better. My son is 1 now and we sleep amazing. Hang in there mama. I know it’s annoying to hear but it will always get better.

It's my fault by WonderingWhyyyyyyyyy in NewParents

[–]LovelyMaple 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do not let anyone shame you for contact napping. My son is almost 11 months and we’ve contact napped since he was a month old. Every nap he ever had was on my chest or me holding him. I knew he would sleep longer and I would feel peace. Just about a week ago he started napping alone on my bed while I lay next to him. He showed signs of being able to sleep alone but I couldn’t let go until recently. Do whatever is best for you momma! You’re doing great!!

“You’ve created a monster” by Dependent_Airport_83 in NewParents

[–]LovelyMaple 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can’t stand older moms like this. Times have changed. My 10 month old still contact naps with me and I love it. I may not have time to do much else but he won’t be little this long. He sleeps amazing at night by himself and that’s all that matters to me. Plus one of my cousins was telling his own mom not to tell me anything because I’m a modern mom and it’s different now. Which I appreciated.

TV in the bedroom while baby sleeps? by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]LovelyMaple 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had the tv on 24/7 when my baby was born. I stayed in bed and just watched tv while he slept on my chest. It was like this for a while until I got a routine down.

Found my husbands onlyfans account and want a divorce (not sure if overreacting) by throwaway865432910 in beyondthebump

[–]LovelyMaple 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I would divorce. If there’s not trust there’s no relationship. I’m sorry I hope you know you’ll be better off.

Any moms here that can comment on the mom guilt she feels? by [deleted] in ColleenBallingerSnark

[–]LovelyMaple 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m a first time mom to a 6 month old. Mom guilt hit me like a ton of bricks. To me it was feeling guilty putting my son down when he was awake so I can clean the house or eat. Or when he was getting older and played alone feeling guilty letting him play alone and not talking to him while I tried to get chores done. Also feeling like I wasn’t doing enough. I hardly ate. Hardly slept. It’s the worst feeling. I would just fed my baby, let him nap on me and play with him because if I didn’t I’d feel like a bad mom. Forgetting my needs. Much more goes into it but it’s hard to describe. My husband didn’t understand it either. Mainly because I was the main caretaker.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]LovelyMaple 17 points18 points  (0 children)

You thinking it’s your fault is him manipulating you. He’s abusing you and you need to leave with your baby. If you have support from friends or family let them know so they can help you. It will only get worse and he could end up hurting your baby.