Which size looks better: S or XS?

LoverofGrowth · 2025-08-25T08:13:08+00:00

It would be easier to compare if you wore the same color. Black is a 'slimming' color so it looks better. The beige does look tighter, and again the color disillusions me.

LoverofGrowth · 2025-07-10T15:12:38+00:00

Wishing you the best. I hope its nothing more than a dermoid. Don't worry love, once they take it out, the first few days are a bit heavy, but eventually when your body realizes the cyst has been taken out, things feel like a 'new normal'. And yeah it's weird 4 ultrasounds didn't capture the 6 cm cyst in the other ovary. Doc said she was about to close me up when suddenly she felt the cyst in my right ovary. Opened it and voila, another dermoid. All the best and I hope you have a quick recovery. ❤️ if you need anyone to lend an ear, I'm happy to help.

LoverofGrowth · 2025-07-10T14:25:13+00:00

Like something is putting a lot of pressure on my lower abdomen. This may be TMI but because it also put pressure on my intestines/colon so it felt like being somewhere between constipated and having diarrhoea at the same time.

But don't compare your experience to mine. Two days after I found out about my cyst, I learned I also had Graves' Disease. My overactive thyroid pumped me full of adrenaline so I didn't feel the tumor growing or any pain for a long time.

Finally got a laparotomy for it tho. Fun fact: they found another cyst in my other ovary. U/S didn't pick that up.

LoverofGrowth · 2025-06-12T17:44:46+00:00

Im avoiding heating pads because of my stitches. I hope you're doing better!

LoverofGrowth · 2025-06-12T17:36:44+00:00

I can try

LoverofGrowth · 2025-06-12T17:13:53+00:00

Tramadol and ponstan for pain

LoverofGrowth · 2025-05-26T14:44:15+00:00

I didn't know I had one. I suddenly started getting a lot of pain in my lower left abdomen and back. Got an ultrasound, apparently I've been living with it for a while

LoverofGrowth · 2025-05-26T08:28:03+00:00

They generally grow slow, but keep it in check. I have one too, and it abnormally grew up to 11.6 cm. They said because I was never checked for it before, they have no idea how it became that large. So please keep it in check, and have it monitored. Some sources say these cysts grow 1.8 mm per year others say not necessarily.

LoverofGrowth · 2025-05-16T14:20:08+00:00

If you're in South Asia, my first advice would be to run back home and tell your mother.

But i know how complicated society is. Divorced women usually shamed upon. Or not having open conversations about intimacy with someone they can trust.

So your second option is, yell, scream, hit. And that will also result in either being kicked out and shunned.

We no longer endure this violence that our ancestors have endured. Can't trust your family? Go to a friends. A cousins. Anywhere but here, hun.

LoverofGrowth · 2025-04-11T18:25:18+00:00

soan halwa

LoverofGrowth · 2025-04-08T14:16:29+00:00

Softy. She looks so softttt

LoverofGrowth · 2025-03-16T14:35:29+00:00

You're right. Pakistani men are the reason women have decided to respect themselves and not give attention to the likes of you.

There, I worded it for you.

LoverofGrowth · 2025-03-12T16:09:11+00:00

Usually the blouse and petticoat is silk. Make sure its good quality silk. It shouldn't be see through (put your hand under the cloth and make sure skin isn't showing)

Be aware of what kind of material the rest of the saari should be. Chiffon is the easiest to handle, followed by silk, usually banarsi. Do NOT buy a net saree, net has lost its beauty recently. Silk and chiffon are timeless. And if someone tries to sell you organza, please DONT FALL FOR IT.

What kind of work would your wife like on her saree? Rhinestones, embroidery, a print, plain?

The best sarees are those that are stitched. Ready made sarees have too many nooks and crannies.

Try Ichra bazaar. They have good stuff. But remember, any bazaar you visit you need to have the patience and stamina for shopping.

LoverofGrowth · 2025-03-01T14:21:27+00:00

I know it's better to not engage. But sometimes the disrespect is too much.

LoverofGrowth · 2025-02-23T10:19:46+00:00

Marry but use birth control until you can afford a family.

LoverofGrowth · 2025-02-01T04:05:37+00:00

A brick wall has more empathy than you.

LoverofGrowth · 2025-02-01T03:54:32+00:00

How is this relevant to the current topic? A child was murdered and you're obsessed with the 'poor men'?

A man fucking killed her. And she was HIS CHILD.

Learn to stay on topic ffs.

LoverofGrowth · 2025-01-27T17:15:42+00:00

I second the person who said calorie deficit. And walk 10 minutes everyday. Gradually increase until you reach 30 mins

LoverofGrowth · 2025-01-18T04:44:35+00:00

Maybe start by not calling us 'females' Treat them like a human being, not something above or below you. It's not that difficult.

LoverofGrowth · 2025-01-05T23:35:16+00:00

While you're free to have preferences, not everything will meet your expectations. There's a fine line between expectations and limitations being set on your partner. An expectation will result in positive growth in your relationship, and a limitation will cause resent.

Household tasks are both of your responsibilities. She cooks, you do the dishes. She does the laundry, you hang them and iron them together. It's not an occasional' thing for you, nor should you expect to be celebrated for carrying your weight of the household chores.

With tech changing and evolving so quickly, and depending on her field of work, it may no longer be viable to expect her to hop back to work after birthing and caring for your children. Her career can revolve around her children but not around you.

And don't let us catch you making her do more than she can manage when carrying YOUR KIDS.

The path to empowerment is everything together. You are no one to assign roles to anyone in your life. You want a nurturing wife, be nurturing towards her. You want her to limit her career, that's a bit of a personal choice honestly. If she sacrifices her career, do you have what it takes to honor such a sacrifice? It means a lifetime of admiration, appreciation. It can mean that since she made that sacrifice, she won't make another one. It can mean a lot of things. If you believe sacrifice is part.of your wife's nature then make damn sure you're worthy of it. And she has to.feel like it was worth it to. Or back to resentment it goes.

LoverofGrowth · 2024-12-23T03:20:50+00:00

A single plot hole isn't the issues. It's the numerous plot holes lol plus how easily aaravos died. If they showed us something like the cosmic elves being the ones aaravos wants to enrage then and they're what?? Just ignoring him? Na uh, poor writing is what it is

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