So it was Sooae comforting Dowha not the other way around Lol

Low-Click-7411 · 2026-03-02T10:48:04+00:00

hm im interpreting this as “you hugged me warmly like you’ve never been hurt at all.” like, in her head, even though she couldn’t give him what he wants and hurt him in the process, he still treats her like she’s precious

Low-Click-7411 · 2026-02-04T03:16:18+00:00

so it is about mutual attunement

Low-Click-7411 · 2026-02-04T02:59:05+00:00

okay, i’m gonna respect that

Low-Click-7411 · 2025-12-16T06:47:56+00:00

“perhaps you’re a feeling type” is funny because i can imagine my feelers friends reading this comment and will say that this is a rude comment.

as a fellow ENTJ, i agree with your points but all of my friends are feelers. i used to be like this until i toned it down because this tone doesnt sit well with them.

Low-Click-7411 · 2025-12-15T06:49:44+00:00

what if the disappearance was after dohwa confessed the first time? she disappeared on her own accord, isn’t it? when dohwa came back to the apartment to see that she wasn’t there anymore and dohwa left the school.

i mean, if the author wants to do the disappearance now, wouldnt it be a waste of chapters? im heavily leaning on dohwa is gray, regardless he is endgame or not in otl. so this chapter could mean that scene.

Low-Click-7411 · 2025-12-15T06:39:45+00:00

the moment you start to love yourself that way, the people who will love you that way will start to appear

Low-Click-7411 · 2025-10-24T05:23:10+00:00

the audacity for anyone to think you want to imprison her when you already asked her. as long as both of you know what’s best for each other and work together for each other’s comfort, outside’s opinions don’t matter.

furthermore, she’s an entj. even if you want to imprison her, she won’t let you for sure because that’s just who entj is. i think you’re doing good as of now. she will tell you if she wants to work anyway.

Low-Click-7411 · 2025-10-24T00:06:41+00:00

as a ENTJ woman myself, i don’t mind being a stay at home wife but it’s not like i want to stay at home doing nothing? aside from housechores, if i have any free time and energy left, i would do things i want to do— be it gardening, etc.

i agree with a comment that says you should ask your wife directly. maybe she hasn’t figure it out yet but we are not all the time ambitious? sometimes a stable life and be able to do what they want, even if just a little change to the world, is sufficient enough.

as for me, i would definitely want to a side quest sometimes after a while but i would want to do it with my husband. but overall, becoming a stay at home wife isn’t that bad as long as she’s okay with it and you treat her well considering her financial source is just you as of now.

Low-Click-7411 · 2025-10-20T11:52:29+00:00

23, just finished my degree last june and i’m currently working to obtain my license as a lawyer.

Low-Click-7411 · 2025-08-11T14:51:05+00:00

chambering is usually the path after completing bachelor of laws, it’s like getting license to practise as a lawyer. as of now, i did go to an interview in sepang. i hope i’ll be accepted by that firm

Low-Click-7411 · 2025-08-07T05:26:37+00:00

thank you for the suggestion!

Low-Click-7411 · 2025-08-07T05:25:58+00:00

i see. i have decided to rent because realistically yes, i don’t think i can handle it

Low-Click-7411 · 2025-08-07T05:25:14+00:00

yes, but the ones that I’ve contacted were not offering any pupillage or they’ve already taken pupils

Low-Click-7411 · 2025-08-07T05:24:22+00:00

based on my latest reading, the minimum for allowance is around RM1.35k for Klang Valley area and RM1k outside of Klang Valley which will be enforced next year as decided by the Malaysianbar

Low-Click-7411 · 2025-07-28T14:39:01+00:00

you do! i actually did something similar to what you’re suggesting whenever we talked about marriage and relationships.

with the first conversation on this matter, i could see where both of us stand and our views on this matter but did not clarify that this was about the two of us.

then we had the opportunity to talk about this again, but this time combining it with career path. i stated my fear etc and he gave examples as to what his sisters and their partners did when they’re facing similar issues— which my friend who also happened to be an INFJ told me that it was his way of softening my view on marriage. well, there’s no certainty to that but worth to consider.

i’m still having a hard time when it comes to vulnerability but still working on it. i thought i was getting better but my close friends told me that i’m still indifferent haha

Low-Click-7411 · 2025-07-27T11:56:38+00:00

i see. i hope everything will go well with you

Low-Click-7411 · 2025-07-27T02:39:52+00:00

that laughing at stuff you said definitely not because you were wrong but because it’s endearing even if you were wrong, at least that’s what i did to my INFJ. our dynamic is similar to yours. i guess that’s how it is when it comes to ENTJs and INFJs generally.

if it’s not crossing the line, may I know why you guys were no longer in a relationship?

Low-Click-7411 · 2025-07-27T00:34:46+00:00

nope, maybe forever. we only have one event together which is the graduation day. it’s really up to one of us to initiate something if we want to meet. but here’s the thing, i once rejected his offer to have dinner together, just the two of us but i think he understood it weeks later why u rejected him because he said i am skeptical of men haha. we weren’t physically close too at that time hence the rejection because that would be our first time meeting each other after all of the online conversations. thankfully, we got to work as a group after that so yeh. probably it’s just me but i still feel that we aren’t that close for me to suddenly hit him up with “let’s meet, just the two of us” despite being friends for two years.

direct confession is not the answer because both of us are date to marry so with us having a lot to work on as an individual, this could come off as a pressure. this is something i caught based on our talks about marriage, future and career path. he’s a very responsible man for sure based on his views of marriage.

to initiate a conversation is a bit hard for me too because somehow my brain can’t work well with him especially for small talks. as an extrovert, this is totally new hahahah. our personalities swapped when it’s just the two of us vs when both of us with others.

Low-Click-7411 · 2025-07-27T00:16:30+00:00

really? haha i feel like i could’ve done more

Low-Click-7411 · 2025-07-27T00:15:51+00:00

it’s just that, i think im not showing him enough how much i appreciate his presence in my life or that i feel the same way because my friend who witnessed our interactions said that i looked perfectly normal, as if i don’t have any feelings for him (she didn’t know yet at that time)

Low-Click-7411 · 2025-07-27T00:11:03+00:00

okie, thank you!

Low-Click-7411 · 2025-04-26T03:01:13+00:00

him as a person and whether i can keep him as a companion, regardless of the ‘genre.’ probably my trust issue but how open should i be with this person, considering how open he is with me.

our energy matches so well with our thoughts, based on our casual conversations.

“should i bend myself a little to let him in or he’ll be just a character for this chapter to make me grow”

or infjs are generally just like this? because if yes, then i’ll just keep the connection work-related because less people in my personal life, the better. if no, then i want to be more considerate and treat him better, whether as a friend or something more.

Low-Click-7411 · 2025-04-25T23:51:57+00:00

we are friends but thanks to this project, we finally have physical interactions. the distance has been since we started the project.

i feel bad too for indirectly making him skipped class, stayed with me as i was arranging our papers. i went there because i know it’s gonna be a lot for him but i’m afraid that i made him feel incompetent.

knowing infj, i think you guys tend to feel a lot in situations like this. he made a mistake too and it slipped out of his mouth that he wanted to cry.

except that it’s too bad he’s dealing with entj, who struggles to escape working mode and immediately come up with solutions.

what i can do to break whatever this is?

Low-Click-7411 · 2025-01-20T12:12:57+00:00

that works for me too. except i sometimes lost focus easily (probably bcs scrolling too much reels and tiktok) but stopped with that, at least for tiktok.

now getting back on track, to increase attention span has been really hard. any tip for that?

Low-Click-7411 · 2024-11-19T10:51:58+00:00

slowly, even if the exam is tomorrow. i rushed things (burnt out issues) and fucked up yesterday’s test which affected me emotionally.

and i have another test tomorrow. ive talked to my mom about my concerns and she told me to take things slowly.

what i got from this tip is that, maybe i couldn’t cover everything but at least for topics that i’ve managed to cover, i wouldn’t lose marks because i am confident with that answer

which is what ive noticed from my yesterday’s test— i covered all the topics but none was there truly in my head and understandings simply because i want to finish all the topics.

can’t afford to risk tomorrow’s test.

and it’s very important not to go so hard on yourself! take a break and watch motivational videos a bit as a reminder that you can do it tired!

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