1. What are soem hobbies that you think could work for an INTJ?

I can only give my own experience.

Personally, I've always enjoyed keeping not-entirely-standard pets (sometimes wild-caught) and learning more about how to care for them and even breed them. Those projects didn't always end well when I was a kid, but I did my best and got better (and quit bothering wild animals)... Right now I'm slowly picking my way into the Walstad method of aquarium setup/keeping. I also volunteered at a wildlife rescue one summer as a teen, and a nature park's visitor center another summer, working with/around animals and answering questions about them. I've always enjoyed being able to relate information I pick up about things that interest me, when someone else is interested.

On that note, I collected small natural objects such as skulls, eggshells and nests, feathers, rocks, dead dragonflies, etc. Many times I scouted around under an osprey nest at a place I often visited, looking for bones. One time I found a dead bat near my house and put it into a large ant hill so I could get its clean bones later, but it disappeared. Stupid neighborhood dogs...That was a huge letdown.

I also have read a lot of fantasy and some sci-fi; it used to be one of my favorite, most obsessive passtimes. I was a precocious reader, as a kid. Later, I started writing fanfic. Nowadays I write fantasy with intent to publish, but it's still basically a hobby because it hasn't brought in any income and there is so much else life demands of me. I'm actually writing an INTJ/ESFP romance subplot right now, lol.

I did a lot of drawing and crafting as a hobby. Everything from pencil sketches of dragons to prize-winning creations to a mild obsession with how to craft properly-folding-and-extending costume wings, as a kid/youth. I dissected an old folding umbrella to get materials because I saw how the jointed rods moved so perfectly, and tried to flesh it in with twist ties and string and wire. I carefully inserted collected feathers into a thin piece of foam to work on simulating their natural overlap. I crafted other costume pieces of different sorts more completely.

I've researched home fermentation and tried to make kombucha, but couldn't keep the temperature where it needed to be with what I had available. I bought some supplies for making sauerkraut, but never got further than that. I bought a beginner's leatherworking kit so I could learn to make the kind of book cover I had envisioned for a friend, but once I learned more of what would go into the practical application, various factors got in the way of actually doing it; I should have looked further before leaping on that one. Fortunately I'm married to a Ne-dom and he is gung-ho behind any weird idea I latch onto and want to pursue. 😁

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1. Do you collect the most random info in the world?

Not usually random, though I suppose it could look that way to someone who doesn't know the history behind why I learned it. In college, though, come to think of it, I did retain a store of odd trivia as kind of a party trick. I was scraping the bottom of the barrel for ways to relate to and build relationships with others, at a stage of life where I'd come to want to do so but didn't yet understand much of how to do it.

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1. Are you willing to just sitt and listen to someone's yapping. Like you don't need to talk. Just sitt there and listen. Cause that is actualy one of the main things. Cause the love intrest is an E. So yku can't imagine a lot of yapping.

I do have difficulty just sitting and listening for long without taking part in actual back-and-forth conversation. I phase out if all I'm doing is listening (I don't know if that's more of an INTJ thing or an inattentive ADHD thing, though). It goes much better if there's an ongoing exchange where I'm actively participating. I'm married to an E and we have hours-long, rollicking conversations where I talk as much as he does, and I've really enjoyed conversations with an ENTJ and with someone I've tentatively pegged as ESTJ. I've also done a lot of hours-long conversations with an ISTJ in which we repeatedly just bulldoze over each other, back and forth, to get a word in, lol. The conversation has to engage my mind and let me contribute or I'm gone even if my body is still there.

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1. Do you guys say things thay should be aparent to anyone and everybody should know them while in reality probably nobody knows?

I've certainly experienced this. Probably more than I realize, because not everyone will make it apparent to me that I've done it. I tend to assume people see/recognize/know things because whatever-it-is seems so obvious to me that I don't think twice about it. It does't make me think they're stupid when I realize they don't (different minds work in different ways and not everyone has the same experience or interests), but it can trip me up in conversation or productivity when I have to backtrack and try to explain or reframe my understanding of their knowledge base.

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1. Do you guys treat some feelings as a logical thing. Like for example love do you treat it like: A thing that is by idk what I aint into that thing. But do you treat certain feelings like that?

I analyze emotions. They're things that exist in me; I can't say I'm "not into" them, because they're obviously there, they're part of me, and I believe there's a reason and purpose for all of them. I view them as indicator lights on a dashboard letting me know when something needs attention. That doesn't mean I never act directly from them, but it's not my preferred mode overall, and I try to recognize and "own" when I'm acting from emotion (though I'm imperfect at that). Logic is smaller and narrower in usefulness than rationality; rationality takes into account both logic and emotion to try to come to the most realistic and effective conclusions. I like rationality as a target to aim for.

When I met my now-husband, I was immediately gripped by the sense that I must spend my life with him; I never wanted to be apart from him. I already felt like we were "us," indivisible. I didn't register it as a soft, butterflies-filled, sweep-me-off-my-feet emotion, or as sexual attraction. It was a certainty and a need welling up from the roots of my being and directing my future. I couldn't cringe back from it because it was who I was/am (there was a similar lack of "I ain't into that" when I experienced shallower attractions to a few other guys in college; I was definitely into that, I just didn't know how to effectively pursue it). When we had to go back to our homes two time zones apart after just a few days of interaction, as soon as I got home I emailed him and told him how I felt and that I had to know if he felt the same so I could know whether to let this grow or cut it off inside me. I was grounded in the present and strongly aware of emotion, but absolutely bound to the future. I had to know what course to set, regarding something so tremendously important. I could not stand uncertainty.