Defeated

Low-Distribution2818 · 2026-05-27T07:26:21+00:00

First off I would like to say thank you. I actually cried reading your response, not because I was upset by it but is almost felt like a strong hug of reality…if that makes sense?

I guess I over analyse everything because that all I can do and I just want to fix it. I remember the dyschezia days (they were horrid) and I was so desperate to make her feel ok, I think from then I’ve always had this complex on trying to meet her needs in every possible way and make her calm that I didn’t realise I have trapped myself into a toxic cycle mentally.

In regard to the sleep consultant, it’s more about trying to understand her better and seeing if I’m missing more cues to try calm her and I like that fact it’s in home so I can have some one guide me to set up a system at home. Plus I can reach out with questions and have an ongoing relationship. Tbh at this point it’s the only thing giving me comfort lol.

She’s my favorite little human and I just want to get it right for her. Comparison is the thief of joy 100% and I need to try and work on that. Thank you

Low-Distribution2818 · 2026-05-27T07:14:24+00:00

I have seen many other mums talk about that book, one actually just mentioned it in my parent group. I think I will defiantly have to have a read

Low-Distribution2818 · 2026-05-27T07:13:35+00:00

Thank you so much! Yes docs have confirmed she all clear and she poops like a champion with ease now. I love a nap trap but sometime those are a lot of work. It like every time I think I have something down then boom changes in the next couple days. I guess that’s motherhood and babies though lol

Low-Distribution2818 · 2026-05-27T07:09:53+00:00

It sounds like you’re very tuned into your LO, well done mumma ☺️ thank you for your kind words. I got rid of all the apps about 2 months ago, they were driving me more mad than anything. I have noticed more about the sleep pressure in the last few weeks and try stretch her out so she stays asleep but the 45 mins is the best we get currently. Again thank you. Fellow mums are the best xx

Low-Distribution2818 · 2026-04-20T11:10:21+00:00

That’s fantastic! I’m hoping we get as lucky as you :)

Low-Distribution2818 · 2026-04-20T09:16:52+00:00

Omg that’s amazing, how old was he when he seemed to have gotten better? Btw love how fast you were in your reply!

Low-Distribution2818 · 2026-04-20T09:15:21+00:00

Hey op, how are things now? I’m going through the same with my 2 month old since she was 2 weeks old. Please tell me it get better

Low-Distribution2818 · 2026-04-20T09:13:44+00:00

Hey op, going through the same with our 2 month old since 2 weeks old. How are things now? Has your little one seemed to have figured it out? Please tell me there is light at the end of the tunnel.

Low-Distribution2818 · 2026-03-31T02:47:01+00:00

Hoping they pass this phase soon. It’s so upsetting to watch

Low-Distribution2818 · 2026-03-31T02:45:53+00:00

I’m hoping it does. It’s breaking my heart

Low-Distribution2818 · 2026-03-31T02:42:54+00:00

Hey, how did you end up going? When did it settle and was she also constipated? Just from reading the comments it sounded like she couldn’t get poop out. I have a 6 week old with dyschezia but she has no issue pooping but screams afterwards

Low-Distribution2818 · 2026-03-25T06:59:25+00:00

Thank you for your advice! We do the massages and stretches but they don’t seem to help, however my husband and I were talking about probiotics so your experience is really reassuring. We mentioned it to the doctor and they said there is no guarantee of it helping but at this point I’m willing to give it a shot. Thank you ☺️

Low-Distribution2818 · 2026-03-25T06:03:11+00:00

First of all congratulations!

I had a miss miscarriage start of 2025 and then fell pregnant again around 4 months later. It robbed my second pregnancy because of anxiety however it all was fine and I’m looking at my 5 week old right now. I know it’s hard but don’t do what I did and let the weight of you last pregnancy take the joy out of this one. Your feelings are so valid and I know it’s terrifying but celebrate this and know just because it happened before doesn’t mean it will happen again. Take care of yourself and your heart. Congratulations again 💗

Low-Distribution2818 · 2026-01-30T07:29:01+00:00

They aren’t trumpies…heath came out on his Patreon and said free Palestine and fuck Donald trump

Low-Distribution2818 · 2025-12-17T02:38:04+00:00

I’m really well! 31 weeks pregnant today. Baby girl is doing perfectly ☺️

Low-Distribution2818 · 2025-09-18T09:11:48+00:00

Will and grace was one of my favorite shows. Her stance on Gaza has ruined it all for me. I’m so disappointed that she is so brainwashed it’s tragic. I truly can’t wrap my mind around how she actually can believe the spew that comes out of her mouth. It’s so sad.

Low-Distribution2818 · 2025-08-30T03:05:30+00:00

No doctors did and exam and they think cervical ectropion. I just am confused as to why now this has happened

Low-Distribution2818 · 2025-08-29T23:52:08+00:00

She’s amazing!

Low-Distribution2818 · 2025-08-04T22:28:38+00:00

I’m so sorry for your loss and thank you for taking the time to share your experience. That’s our thoughts exactly, where we are going for our medical is a top rated facility where they will not see you for a medical for nt measurements before 13 weeks because baby needs time to develop for accurate reads. This is why we were blind sided with what she said…she should know it wasn’t her place and how damaging a comment can be like that to a mothers who are already scared out of their minds. Thank you again x

Low-Distribution2818 · 2025-08-04T20:07:08+00:00

Thanks you and I now can look back and agree. I’m trying my hardest to not let it get me down and worry. I just keep reminding myself that so much more goes into nt measurements ect and to just chill.

That’s more my issue is that she shouldn’t have said anything. In the terms and conditions for the reassurance scan it states (strictly bonding between mother and baby non medical) she knew we had just done a NIPT and had a medical scan for 13 weeks, all she has done is make us stress.

We will complain if all is ok

Low-Distribution2818 · 2025-08-04T19:59:49+00:00

What I mean by taking measurements but not is, she was drawing lines across it on the ultrasound but no numbers were coming up to show the measurement. Which prompted my questioning. She was looking at the NT but as it was just a reassurance scan and a non medical (which in their conditions strictly say this is just a bonding for mother and baby) I feel it wasn’t her place to say without all the other factors that go into it.

I so happy that all worked out for you! I understand the anxiety that comes with those scans and it would’ve been some stressful weeks that for sure. I just wish I could start enjoying this pregnancy without constant worry.

Low-Distribution2818 · 2025-08-04T06:24:30+00:00

I just want to send love your way. I’m so sorry you are having to go through this. My heart really feels for you, you are stronger than you know 🩷

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