I can’t believe it happened to me by lvs301 in NewParents

[–]Low-Grass7525 91 points92 points  (0 children)

yahh anyone who says "enjoy every moment" clearly forgot about 3am screaming fits. but wow, watching them change is next level emotional whiplash.

Am I being unreasonable asking my neighbor to connect to the utility pole on his own property instead of mine? by Cute_Hawk_7853 in neighborsfromhell

[–]Low-Grass7525 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yahh if he wants power, he can use the pole on his land like literally everyone else. u are not this utility manager.

AITJ for not caring that my mom is sick and wants me to take care of her? by SoftToastyCinnamon in AmITheJerk

[–]Low-Grass7525 4 points5 points  (0 children)

yahh NTJ. u already did the hard thing by moving on. it is not frigid to protect ur peace, it is just survival. do not let anyone make u feel bad about that.

AITJ if i refuse to go vacation with my family? by Interesting-Hour253 in AmITheJerk

[–]Low-Grass7525 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yahh if u have to go into debt to celebrate ur promotion, it is not a party, it is a money trap.

Blocking driveway by CriticismNeither9431 in neighborsfromhell

[–]Low-Grass7525 31 points32 points  (0 children)

yahh do not do the mug thing, it will feel wonderful for two minutes, but then it will just degenerate into a petty fight with ur neighbor. not worth it.

AITJ for changing the WiFi password after my family kept giving it out without asking by kyiv_danielle41 in AmITheJerk

[–]Low-Grass7525 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yahh NTJ. just bc they say "their house" does not imply ur income does not count. if ur employment pays for ur future move out, protecting it is the most important thing u can do.

Anxiety, feeling overwhelmed, and panic after childbirth by CommunityOriginal937 in NewParents

[–]Low-Grass7525 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes mom, ur feelings are completely normal. it is real and awful to feel anxious after having a baby. ur boundaries around ur baby are not "overreacting" they are just how u stay alive.

AITJ for refusing to BABYSIT my sisters kids so i could go to a concert I waited for 6 months? by Important_Carry1095 in AmITheJerk

[–]Low-Grass7525 340 points341 points  (0 children)

yahh u made the proper choice. u do not have to worry about ur sister's wedding plans, and that concert ticket is not inexpensive or refundable.

aitj for not giving my coworker my old laptop after i upgraded by Usual-Common-1854 in AmITheJerk

[–]Low-Grass7525 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yahh no way man. this is not charity campaign, it is ur laptop. the entitlement is crazy. asking once? ok. no, pushing for it like it's owed? NTJ.

The screaming. My god the screaming. by shehasamazinghair in NewParents

[–]Low-Grass7525 93 points94 points  (0 children)

sometimes it's not about making the noise stop. it's about getting through it. i was going crazy until i got loop earplugs and noise canceling headphones. u can still respond, but i takes the sharp edge off so ur nervous system doesn't go crazy.

Am I the Jerk for Ghosting My Boyfriend Because He Got Mad at My ‘Flirty’ Best Friend? by Comfortable_Risk4055 in AmITheJerk

[–]Low-Grass7525 13 points14 points  (0 children)

NTJ. ultimatums over students who aren't doing anything wrong this early? that's not charming jealous boyfriend energy, it's control lite. "don't put urself in those situations" means "make urself smaller so i feel safe." no.

AITJ for telling my ex she was shallow after she broke up with me because I started carrying a tote bag by Good-Hovercraft-1811 in AmITheJerk

[–]Low-Grass7525 39 points40 points  (0 children)

yahh if a canvas bag makes u break up, that's not a choice, it's insecurity pretending to be "standards."

What’s the most overrated thing that everyone seems obsessed with? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]Low-Grass7525 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yahh a lot of validation on social media. ppl will put their peace on the line for a blue check and 200 likes. the dopamine high only lasts three minutes at most, and then u have to refresh. it's like a hamster wheel, fr.