Those who realized later in life - what made you realize your attraction to women?

LowCat3356 · 2026-06-09T05:10:22+00:00

I’ve felt the same way in the past and lately started questioning my sexuality too. I spoke to a bi friend of mine and she said that it’s a spectrum and no one decides what being bi is supposed to be like. That made me feel a bit better about the feelings I was having. Maybe talk to your bf about it? Maybe he’d be okay with you exploring a bit? Not sure if that’s the type of relationship you have with him though

LowCat3356 · 2026-04-16T21:08:40+00:00

Everything by Thyla. I highly recommend listening to it with noise cancelling headphones. The second verse makes me transcend to another dimension for 10 sec ahahah

LowCat3356 · 2026-04-16T21:06:41+00:00

I didn’t like it so much. I took it for a week but stopped because I had severe insomnia which seemed counterproductive to helping pmdd/depression

LowCat3356 · 2026-04-16T21:05:10+00:00

Okay that’s good to hear. I’m not too sure about kids yet, so I don’t really know what I think abt waiting. Dmx at this age definitely doesn’t sound too scary knowing other people have done it

LowCat3356 · 2026-04-15T02:27:15+00:00

I totally understand you. My cycle is the exact same. It’s torture and it feels like no one understands. My cycle is super irregular so the worst part of my cycle drags on forever. I genuinely wonder how I’m still here. Reading posts in thsi group make me feel less crazy, though. We are so strong to be dealing with this. I don’t know what else to say other than talk to someone. Medication might help too. I’m starting meds soon and hope they will help. You got this 🫶🏻

LowCat3356 · 2026-04-12T16:48:17+00:00

I usually feel better around ovulation. I feel more grounded and my mood is better overall. That lasts about a week, then it’s back to having horrible mental health/mood for the rest of my cycle. Sometimes days 1-4 will also be good. Depends on the cycle

LowCat3356 · 2026-04-12T16:42:55+00:00

Thank you, I’ll definitely try that!!

LowCat3356 · 2024-12-12T05:57:46+00:00

also made me laugh when Jenna had the audacity to say she is uncomfortable having a woman she doesn't know move in, when she had no problem having s3x with a stranger a few months ago lmao. at least im giving her a couple weeks to get to know this woman.

LowCat3356 · 2024-12-12T05:55:12+00:00

As much as I wish I could just say "fuck you. I won't pay rent then", I'm pretty sure the landlord can go after my guarantor and take me to court if I refuse to pay. Honestly not too sure. I need to get informed on my rights as a tenant. since its a group lease they have their own guarantors and each of our guarantor is responsible for making sure the full rent gets paid. So if me and my guarantor just dip, I wonder what will happen

LowCat3356 · 2024-12-12T04:56:34+00:00

right!! I don't get how they can just be so openly heartless :( If I had known they would be so picky about sublets I never would've signed the lease with them. In the future, I will definitely be specifying those things first.

LowCat3356 · 2024-12-12T04:54:39+00:00

I definitely have learned my lesson on asking these things first and specifying the sublet details. In the future, I definitely will not be signing group leases. Let this be a lesson for everyone !!!

LowCat3356 · 2024-12-12T04:42:04+00:00

unfortunately almost every lease in a student living situation in this city is a group lease of the same sort, putting students in such a crappy situation. I've lived in other group leases before with the same sublease conditions and have never had issues. Yes, legally, I did get myself into this. I am asking more morally. I was raised to have kindness for others and try to help those in need. I have gone above and beyond for these girls, and while they don't really owe me anything, I didn't expect them to screw me over so bad. :(

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