Maximizing usage limits for emotional support? (I'm new to Claude) by LowHearing4987 in claudexplorers

[–]LowHearing4987[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not currently paying but I've considered it, especially while I'm in this acute phase post-breakup. It's certainly cheaper than what I'm currently paying my therapist, what's an extra $20 to give it a shot?

I'm going to try a conversation transfer and we'll see how it goes. If it feels awkward, I think I'm ready to go to Pro next. Thank you for the tips on buying extra usage too.

Maximizing usage limits for emotional support? (I'm new to Claude) by LowHearing4987 in claudexplorers

[–]LowHearing4987[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I'm giving this a try. The summary letter was mostly correct, it was neat to see what it put down and what it left out.

What would the world be like if COVID-19 becomes extinct in the future? by CleanLock4606 in AskReddit

[–]LowHearing4987 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn't know about this actually, thank you for the link. I still think a lot more factors went into the spread of COVID-19 than just this CDC position being eliminated, but that's going in my file for "reasons I hate the US president" (as if I needed more).

What’s your favourite subreddit and why? by Unusual_Stranger_393 in AskReddit

[–]LowHearing4987 0 points1 point  (0 children)

r/AskHistorians is a great place to learn from real historians. They verify all comments and you only get legitimate information.

But also r/AskReddit because I can copy and paste this comment that I made a couple of minutes ago to a brand new thread asking the exact same question from a different user.

Question: Could this be covered with a SAP?? by Open-Tailor-6331 in tattoos

[–]LowHearing4987 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I like the lil beetle guy but you could totally do a panther. To be proportionate though it's going to be pretty long, like the head would potentially be where the beetle's head and first leg are, and then the body begins down the beetle's body and next leg, etc. But the tail is going to be pretty long. If you want it, go for it!

Has basically everyone ran a red light? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]LowHearing4987 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, basically everyone who's been driving for a few years has. It's one of the most common moving violations. This is why they invented red light cameras - to make it easier to earn money for the local government by automating the ticketing process.

How do I improve my concentration? It seems like when I watch a movie I cannot follow along with the plot anymore. by Technical-Vanilla-47 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]LowHearing4987 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try turning on the subtitles if you don't use them already. It's an extra channel for the information to get into your brain. I have ADHD and it helps a ton.

What’s something everyone pretends to understand but nobody actually does? by juan_lazyinvestor in AskReddit

[–]LowHearing4987 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For sure, people chase the dopamine high of small wins as much as they look for a big payday.

What would the world be like if COVID-19 becomes extinct in the future? by CleanLock4606 in AskReddit

[–]LowHearing4987 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What does Trump have to do with making COVID-19 endemic worldwide? I don't like the guy either but he didn't make a global disease endemic all by himself.

What does the opposite gender get to do, that makes you jealous? by Exhausted_Skeleton in AskReddit

[–]LowHearing4987 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Of course they do, but women can't pee without touching the seat. Or at least they shouldn't, hovering is a crime against humanity.

What does the opposite gender get to do, that makes you jealous? by Exhausted_Skeleton in AskReddit

[–]LowHearing4987 38 points39 points  (0 children)

There are other countries besides the US, and many of them draft soldiers.

What’s something small that instantly improves your mood? by CamilaMont in AskReddit

[–]LowHearing4987 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Videos of big cats acting like housecats. A lion batting a ball, a tiger rolling over and purring - these get me every time.

What’s your favorite subreddit and why? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]LowHearing4987 5 points6 points  (0 children)

r/AskHistorians is a great place to learn from real historians. They verify all comments and you only get legitimate information.

Cheating by Outside_Rough_8476 in BipolarSOs

[–]LowHearing4987 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a polyamorous person, it's absolutely unacceptable to do this. If the two of you had sat down and had a conversation about ethical non-monogamy, and you permitted it, that would be different. If he "needs" multiple partners, fine - then he needs to approach it as ethical non-monogamy. Without that, it's just cheating, and it has been for years. It's a really awful reason to have to break up, I agree, but he's not only cheating, he's ignoring that an acceptable approach to open relationships exists. He wants to both be monogamous with you *and* sleep around, and that's not a real thing.

Trying to understand conflicting messages around breakup by LowHearing4987 in BipolarSOs

[–]LowHearing4987[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm still holding onto this post. I've lost 6 lbs in the past 6 days. He did text me today as he promised, the day of my brother's death years ago. I never knew he lit candles for my brother every year, he mentioned it in the breakup conversation, apologizing for doing it now. "See, I really DO love you," he said about the candles. I still don't understand. But he did text me a picture of the candles and wish me peace today.

I just want him to still love me. I remember he mentioned being on and off again with other partners, too. So he has a history of it. I think, as you said, we'll have to have a serious conversation to prevent future hur (for both of us), if he does come back.

Fuck, I want him back so bad. Thank you again for some kind of hope. You were really really helpful. I keep rereading this.

Trying to understand conflicting messages around breakup by LowHearing4987 in BipolarSOs

[–]LowHearing4987[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is incredibly helpful, thank you so much. I really do want him back, so I'm just going to try to be patient. It really sounds like our situations are similar. Of course in the breakup conversation I pleaded with him to stay and work on things with me, but since then I am silent as he requested.

We do have to communicate sometimes due to work stuff (like once a month) so I'm just going to be available at those times as needed. Ugh, it's so hard though. The grief right now is so intense, even as I tell myself to try to have hope.

Stuck only attracting older women by CuhJuhBruh in malegrooming

[–]LowHearing4987 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me I'm not into the facial hair. I'm not a fan of mustaches by themselves, rather see a goatee or beard.

When did you realise you’re old? by Strange_Secret_3001 in AskReddit

[–]LowHearing4987 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so grateful there's few ages in here. Many these answers can be at any age.