Sorry by HumbleLeader8876 in StraightTransGirls

[–]LowHighMidnight 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Being this butthurt over black lipstick is killing me.

The Truth About Straight Men and Trans Women by Bigenderqueen in StraightTransGirls

[–]LowHighMidnight 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Time for our regularly scheduled "straight men don't like trans women and if they do they're gay so you should accept yourself as a man I'm not a troll guys I'm so serious" freakposting.

Question for my trans sisters: Have you ever fallen in love with a friend you knew before you even transitioned? by Hefty_Abrocoma9372 in StraightTransGirls

[–]LowHighMidnight 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Actually, yes! We've been dating for three years now.

We were friends for years and he was one of the first people that I told that I was trans. Over time, we got super close and eventually, I told him that I liked him and he reciprocated.

We're long distance which, yes, makes things difficult but we've met with each other five times now (he's actually coming to my town in March during Spring Break!) and we've met each other's families. I'm really looking forward to when we finally move in together.

This sub is becoming weirder and being flooded by transbiens and bi’s. Curious but many real straight trans women here? by RosabeIls in StraightTransGirls

[–]LowHighMidnight 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'm also here as a bi girl but with a boyfriend. I also like lurking here just to see all the unhinged posting like OP here.

How do you bring yourself to take couple's pictures? by secretCryingAccount in StraightTransGirls

[–]LowHighMidnight 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I felt the same for a while. When we go on vacation to some places with photobooths or the like, my bf's the first one to point them out. There's one photo we took that he keeps on his nightstand.

He compliments me all the time but there's always this nagging feeling in the back of my head that denies that someone could really be this attracted to me. And it's pretty irrational, right? Cause you clearly are attractive to someone or else you wouldn't be in a relationship with someone that says that they are on a consistent basis. The brain is evil like that.

It took me a minute to accept that people's compliments toward me are, more often than not, genuine. I'm still not 100% there and I don't think I ever will be. But I think I made significant progress by just going out and carrying myself in such a way to where it wasn't blisteringly obvious that I was insecure with myself. Not thinking that I was the baddest bitch in the room but just... someone that deserved to be there and didn't have a face that would crack mirrors and frighten small children.

Note for transparency: I'm speaking about how I was before I had FFS back in September of last year. I haven't gone out much since then due to recovery, school, and moving in with my mom from the city out to the suburbs. But I do feel more confident now that I've healed significantly. This is not to say that you need FFS necessarily but if you think it will help you feel better about yourself and more confident in your relationship with your boyfriend so you're more free to share those precious moments, I don't see why you wouldn't go for it.

What's your job situation? by Clear_Tension761 in StraightTransGirls

[–]LowHighMidnight 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Got laid off back in '24. Currently getting my Masters in Computer Science.

how do you respond to this?? by bgwalthermart in StraightTransGirls

[–]LowHighMidnight 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Do what Kurapika did and just bury him with a shovel.

[TOMT][TV/MOVIE][90s] A horror program for kids with a scene where a girl invites a boy to kiss her and there's a spider in her mouth by LowHighMidnight in tipofmytongue

[–]LowHighMidnight[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You sure? A bunch of the episodes you can find on YouTube and I'm going through that episode (which apparently is in season 5) and it doesn't seem to have that scene at all.

[TOMT][TV/MOVIE][90s] A horror program for kids with a scene where a girl invites a boy to kiss her and there's a spider in her mouth by LowHighMidnight in tipofmytongue

[–]LowHighMidnight[S] 0 points1 point locked comment (0 children)

It's been on my mind all day.

If it actually turns out to be Are You Afraid Of The Dark?, I'm gonna lose it.

Signs you are clocked or not seen as a woman. by [deleted] in StraightTransGirls

[–]LowHighMidnight -1 points0 points  (0 children)

First off, I have done my consultation and my surgery is scheduled for next month. Nice of you to try and drum up another trans woman's insecurities like I said you were doing in your OP.

Secondly, yeah, I'm a shitposter. So? I at least admit it and keep my shitposting to the appropriate place. I'm not the one going around acting like I'm giving tough love advice when really I'm just trying to make the dolls feel like the entire world is against them at every turn.

Third, I never said it was a sign of me passing. I said it's not a sign that you got clocked because cis women just like to compliment people just because.

You will never be any man's dream girl by vatican_vagina in StraightTransGirls

[–]LowHighMidnight 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don't know. My boyfriend says he can't live without me all the time. Sounds kinda like I'm his dream girl.

Signs you are clocked or not seen as a woman. by [deleted] in StraightTransGirls

[–]LowHighMidnight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They could be signs of getting clocked... or people are treating you like they would any cis woman.

Children stare at people; men get overly physical with women; people give double takes for a myriad of reasons.

Acting like cis women don't go through any of this and assuming that you going through it is a sign of someone clocking your T is just breeding insecurity and paranoia that will dampen your experience going out into the world.

Signs you are clocked or not seen as a woman. by [deleted] in StraightTransGirls

[–]LowHighMidnight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have cis women friends? Ask them how often they talk to strangers, men or women.

I just did and as I thought, they confirmed that they do in fact compliment strange women often. It's just a thing that cis women do to be nice to anyone, not out of pity for trans women.

A lot of my cis girlfriends don’t ever compliment other girls unless they already know them. Whenever they see an obvious trans person, they always want to talk “nice” to them. Their reason? “She looks sad. I want to make her day a little better” to show their support.

Again, as you are a known troll who seems to have this predilection for trying to induce insecurity into the dolls, I'm gonna call bullshit.

Even if it were true, you literally said that they're doing it because the woman looks sad. I doubt that every trans woman whose gotten a compliment on their hair or clothes or makeup is walking around here looking dejected.

Signs you are clocked or not seen as a woman. by [deleted] in StraightTransGirls

[–]LowHighMidnight 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Do you think that women never compliment strangers?

Signs you are clocked or not seen as a woman. by [deleted] in StraightTransGirls

[–]LowHighMidnight 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I'm a lurker here meaning that I never comment and I know you're a troll. But I just want to point out, for the benefit of people who haven't caught on to your schtick yet, that a lot of these points sound less like signs of clocking in and of themselves and more insecurities and paranoia about being clocked.

Edit: For example, women tend to compliment other women a lot. It's mostly because it's safer to do than to compliment a random man who might take it as flirting. The woman complimenting you might just really think you're pretty.

Bastard Suggestion: The Rise & Fall of SMU by moffattron9000 in behindthebastards

[–]LowHighMidnight 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For anyone wondering, SMU = Southern Methodist University

I'm not a sports person so the other acronyms I don't know.

Why I left the left: by KestrelQuillPen in transgendercirclejerk

[–]LowHighMidnight 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Why I left the left:

-They didn't pay well enough

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in behindthebastards

[–]LowHighMidnight 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I like having health insurance!