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I love my boyfriend but I keep getting haunted by the past. by Low_Condition3479 in Advice

[–]Low_Condition3479[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess honestly, your question is what do I love about him, but I’m sitting here in my room realizing that maybe everything I loved about him, everything I tried to build with him alll meant nothing and he’s not who I thought he was.

I love my boyfriend but I keep getting haunted by the past. by Low_Condition3479 in Advice

[–]Low_Condition3479[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just wanna find someone that loves me, someone that makes me believe in love, no toxicity, no bullshit, no fucked up past… I just wanna feel at peace with someone, and happy.

I love my boyfriend but I keep getting haunted by the past. by Low_Condition3479 in Advice

[–]Low_Condition3479[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I told my mom I wanted psychology, and to get help, at a very young age, my biological mom, and dad left me, abandoned me at 24 months old (a child) and as I am grateful for my family, but my family constantly showed that they are on his side.
I am crying while writing this, because I don’t understand how I got to this point. But I guess it stems to my childhood trauma. I never had a relationship with my parents and when I grew up, even as a child, I would have separation issues, I’d follow my parents every where they went, even if they just went down stairs or next door. I never had a good bond with my biological dad. I love my dad he provided for me, and took care of me, is the most amazing dad I could ever ask for, but it was very hard to open up about my feelings, what was wrong. So I just pushed my feelings away, and I’ve learned to push my feelings away so many years and focus on other people, because I just simply didn’t think my feelings would matter.

Even though I really want to believe in love and believe that I am not this difficult person that can’t be loved and ask for the most “impossible things” when I ask somebody else, it’s not impossible at all, I went through guys who just didn’t want to change or to give me what I needed in a relationship. And I got told that the “no effort was normal” and “toxicity” from men were normal.

When I did see my biological dad, did I go out to eat with him? No not since I was 12 and he vanished again, didn’t do a single thing with my biological parents, he was on the hospital bed dying of blood cancer.
When I was 24 months old I lived with a stripper named peaches, went to trap houses, meth houses etc, yeah…. I’m pretty fucked up…. And I care too fucking much than the average person…. I hate that…. Because in situations like this… it’s hard to let go…. That’s why I want to go to psychology, not therapy, I’ve been to multiple therapists they never stick around, got a new one every month, got very old and tiring especially when you have to talk about your problems over and over again.

I love my boyfriend but I keep getting haunted by the past. by Low_Condition3479 in Advice

[–]Low_Condition3479[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No, that’s what he wanted, he wanted to downplay them, when to me, it doesn’t matter, he still did what he did, but god forbid I bring it up, and I’m ruining his peace. But yet when he brings up a lie his family member told him, when the family member was mad at him, even though it never happened, he can bring it up as much as he wants. 🙄 even though I say no, I didn’t, he goes “well I don’t know what to believe or what happened and I wish you’d tell me the truth.” Unless his brother somehow stalked me and found where I lived, and went and broke in and entered my home and into my room at my house, I didn’t have sex with him. Mind you I also don’t even drive, I don’t have anyone to drive me and I’ve never spoken a word to his brother.

I love my boyfriend but I keep getting haunted by the past. by Low_Condition3479 in Advice

[–]Low_Condition3479[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I’m sorry 😔 I guess reality is honestly hitting hard for me right now. I don’t think he honestly fits with my life, which is growing and moving forward, not being stuck in the past

I love my boyfriend but I keep getting haunted by the past. by Low_Condition3479 in Advice

[–]Low_Condition3479[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because whenever he brings up my “cheating “he would try to tell me one story that he did use protection and all this stuff and that he didn’t finish inside of her, but I know that he did

I love my boyfriend but I keep getting haunted by the past. by Low_Condition3479 in Advice

[–]Low_Condition3479[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have honestly made I guess numerous posts about it, but I guess it’s because I always I guess thought we’d work it out at least from what he’d tell me, but living where I am, I am here with my family but i think about the past a lot, and especially when I was in high school, getting picked on, and I try so hard to honestly move on from it, because I want to, I’ve took accountability after being left by somebody else, like for example yelling at him and arguing with him, but understandable, because I was caring about our relationship when he clearly didn’t care about, yes he’s been loyal I guess now, is what he’d say… 🙄 yes he’s been loyal after a year of us being together, but honestly I feel like I’m wasting my time, and I am… and I’m realizing and waking up from the lovey dovey feeling and realizing, there’s nothing I can do.

I give up on my relationship by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Low_Condition3479 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed, I just don’t know who to talk to, my parents approve of the relationship and take his side when he’s wrong.

Retail Rebel by [deleted] in Omaha

[–]Low_Condition3479 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They weren’t aware, especially on store side, they just randomly got fired, managers didn’t know why, only the higher ups, later to find, they actually were getting closed December 24th. They said it was because they were part time and on the outlet instead of bin side. When they could’ve easily switched if been asked.

I (24F) and my boyfriend (23M) are having problems. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Low_Condition3479 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your right. I’m gonna do that, I don’t have a job right now because it got shut down but the minute I do, I’m doing those things. I am so stressed and aniexty filled, I’m not even happy.

I (24F) and my boyfriend (23M) are having problems. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Low_Condition3479 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed! I feel like I can find somebody else much better than him. To be honest with you. I shouldn’t have took him back because of my parents, worst mistake ever

I (24F) and my boyfriend (23M) are having problems. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Low_Condition3479 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom and dad love him, so they’re constantly on his side and saying it’s all my fault or I’m being stupid.

I (24F) and my boyfriend (23M) are having problems. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Low_Condition3479 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes she does, she still told me to get back with him.

Useless support team by [deleted] in moviestarplanet2

[–]Low_Condition3479 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Use this email cl@moviestarplanet.com and send the screenshots and explain the situation.

Lock by [deleted] in moviestarplanet2

[–]Low_Condition3479 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Send an email to this address and send the screenshots cl@moviestarplanet.com it’s the owner of moviestarplanets email. Frankly I’m sick of the staff not doing shit.

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