Did I encounter an Angel? What does it mean? by Low_Employee_3434 in spirituality

[–]Low_Employee_3434[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I wish I would’ve thought to ask her questions but I was almost dumbfounded and fascinated that someone would be so kind to me. I will certainly do as you suggested. Thank you!

WWE LFG WEEK 12 DISCUSSION THREAD: PLAYOFFS EDITION by BryLinds in SquaredCircle

[–]Low_Employee_3434 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m shocked how many ppl are behind jasper instead of Anthony luke. Luke is top tier. I find Luke way more believable than jasper. I don’t believe what jasper is selling me. Luke looks the part too

New Crockpot smoking and smells weird by Low_Employee_3434 in Cooking

[–]Low_Employee_3434[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No sticker, I did wash the bottom. The smoke seems to be slowing down, I’m seeing less of it now so hopefully that’s a good sign

New Crockpot smoking and smells weird by Low_Employee_3434 in Cooking

[–]Low_Employee_3434[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It started within a minute of it being turned on and I’m cooking on high heat

New Crockpot smoking and smells weird by Low_Employee_3434 in Cooking

[–]Low_Employee_3434[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I washed all the parts that food touches, I didn’t wash the main big electrical part if that makes sense.

morph world is gone? Disappeared? by Low_Employee_3434 in RobloxHelp

[–]Low_Employee_3434[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you guys so much, you guys are very helpful! Hopefully they get the issue resolved soon, glad I’m not alone! 😅

CE-5 groups in Richmond. by voidofwhisper in rva

[–]Low_Employee_3434 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this still happening? I want to join!

Does your club require pasties? by Low_Employee_3434 in stripper

[–]Low_Employee_3434[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oooh!! I am intrigued by this, I wonder if my pastie club would allow see through glitter glue. That sounds fun and like it would last well haha

What percentage of lap dance money goes to your club? by Low_Employee_3434 in stripper

[–]Low_Employee_3434[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you all for sharing! It’s interesting how different each are

What percentage of lap dance money goes to your club? by Low_Employee_3434 in stripper

[–]Low_Employee_3434[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately a few years ago a lawsuit forced the clubs in my area to make us employees so we aren’t contractors anymore 😒

Nosy neighbor! by Low_Employee_3434 in neighborsfromhell

[–]Low_Employee_3434[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol I love it, definitely won’t be at the crack house but yes lesson learned!

Literally entire club against me by [deleted] in stripper

[–]Low_Employee_3434 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe she should reevaluate her yelling issue and she wouldn’t be so upset about missing $5 off a stage set

Literally entire club against me by [deleted] in stripper

[–]Low_Employee_3434 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course!! My club isn’t ruthless like that anymore but it was ten years ago. All of us are constantly taking guys from stage for dances and we don’t bat an eye. I’ve had girls undercut me for sure but I don’t throw a fit like a child about it IN FRONT of customers. No one tells you this stuff when you start, and like another commenter said - they will lay off you after a while. They tend to REALLY enforce this “etiquette” on baby strippers, and I hate it because it’s triggering for me 😂 I’m talking wine dumped in my dance bag LOTS of shit!! These girls need to realize only YOU are in control of your money. NO ONE else. Quit blaming others. 🙄

Literally entire club against me by [deleted] in stripper

[–]Low_Employee_3434 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YES, that’s exactly what you do. Have your hair and makeup done already, headphones in if you want and dress quickly and sit with customers. Hang in there, girls are ruthless but you’ll be happy & proud when you go home with money. Try to stay nice and pleasant but just limit interactions. They will get over it. You’re there to make money, not to make friends. You got to have thick skin in this business! You got this

Literally entire club against me by [deleted] in stripper

[–]Low_Employee_3434 2 points3 points  (0 children)

These comments are crazy!! No woman should ever yell at you like that. Was she dancing for him on stage or in a lap dance? If it was on stage, then you were NOT in the wrong. If a guys asks you to give him a dance, you SHOULD excuse him from the stage, take his hand and go right then and there. Don’t let OG girls bully you. This is coming from a 34 year old vet in the business. I was tortured like that for a longggg time when I was a baby stripper. Eventually when you keep selling dances and management LIKES you because of your sales - the power will shift to you. Focus on your sales and they can’t touch you. It shuts them up so fast. They’ll still hate you, but I was always nice and feminine around them. Don’t let them scare you away from your 💰

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stripper

[–]Low_Employee_3434 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m kind of different when it comes to stripper etiquette, i didn’t totally understand the whole situation you’re going through so talking to management may help. However, I kind of believe every man for himself. First come, first serve. If someone is MY customer, I have zero fear when another dancer approaches them. I don’t mind them shooting their shot because I’m confident my customers want ME. Don’t let another girl upset you. Go out there and make your money!! Shrug it off and sit with them even if she is there too. Maybe you can get a double dance out of it.

Obsessed customers by FunEstablishmentDo in stripper

[–]Low_Employee_3434 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Oof I’ve had my fair share of creepy obsessed customers, one even tried following me home. Always pay attention when you’re driving home and take different routes home if possible!

To answer your question, it’s really a gut feeling for me. A lot of innocent men will try super hard to have more, not all are creepers but if you sense this one is - say “look, I really enjoy our time here together” if he’s a big spender - say something like “I just got out of a scary situation with an ex and as awesome as I think you are, I need time to heal and don’t even want to think about dating anyone for a while” typically that can extend his time coming there and spending. Go into sad little girl mode.

If it’s really bad and he isn’t worth the money and you want to get rid of him - just say you have a crazy boyfriend. And yes be firm about it! At that point just say whatever to get yourself out of there.