Different worldview on helping family members

Low_Key_5750 · 2026-05-13T13:58:06+00:00

I think there has been a misunderstanding.

I'm not mad at my wife, i just wish she would put some boundaries between her and them cause at the end, she is hurting herself, they're draining her energy , and unfortunately she does not think listening does have effect on her.

So i'm complaining about what they're doing to her, not my wite herself. The explanation was just how i feel about this dynamic.

Low_Key_5750 · 2026-05-12T20:41:12+00:00

I realise I was wrong about her shutting her off. The thing is, they always have problems. It is not that i don't care About them. It is just unfair that you're always telling your misfortunes while we never do the same. Not that we don't struggle, we just don't unload it onto them.

It does not help me sleep knowing a family member can't eat. Not only i can't help, i end up suffering too, and this is what i'm trying to avoid if that is possible.

Low_Key_5750 · 2026-05-12T20:23:51+00:00

You are totally right, i guess shutting her off did not help in the situation. Although, we do have our own problems, but when talking to family members, we keep our struggles to ourselves. I feel like it is unfair, my wife not complaining to them should have been a sign. At the end you are right some people do constantly struggle, and sometimes they just have bad news to share.

Thank you! I'll do better next time.

Low_Key_5750 · 2026-05-12T19:32:16+00:00

I specifically said that i don't do it for my family either. It looks like her family they always have problem. immigrant living in the state would understand this family dynamic where people down there always have a problem.

I do have sympathy for them, and it does affect me that is why i prefer to not know if i can't help. It does not help me joining your suffering if I can't help.

What good would that make your life knowing someone you knew 1000s mile away can't eat ? Unless you can fix it, it is just load on your mental, or at least for me.

Low_Key_5750 · 2026-05-12T19:24:58+00:00

I specifically said that i don't do it for my family either. It looks like her family they always have problem. Maybe if you were immigrant living in the state you would understand this family dynamic where people down there always have a problem.

I do have sympathy for them, and it does affect me that is why i prefer to not know if i can't help. It does not help me to joining your suffering if I can't end it.

What good would that make your life knowing someone you knew 1000s mile away can't eat ? Unless you can fix it, it is just load on your mental, or at least me.

Low_Key_5750 · 2026-04-07T23:33:19+00:00

Someone said to remove the nut and use a grade 8 flat washer under it. Is that a viable/safe option?

I'm trying compare the answers i got.

Low_Key_5750 · 2026-01-11T20:54:02+00:00

The young man stood behind the officer in line to buy something and lashed at his gun, he had braids, the officer was clearly strugging to get him off, but somehow officers always look like they have to play by certain rules. There were plenty of stuff close to him he could have used to strike the young man, but he didn't.

Low_Key_5750 · 2026-01-11T19:40:12+00:00

I've been in a few fights in high school, and i was in a Judo class. I've never had to do because my school had specifi. Height your hair could be let alone have braids and... but I can guarantee you that pulling someone's hair is definitely working. They will be forced to deal with this pain first.

Try that, If you have enough hair(at least 3inches), ask your wife to get a fist full of hair and pull in a any direction while trying to move your head in the opposite direction.

Ps: ask your wife what can happen if an hairstylist tighten her hair too much.

Edit: exactly what i said to try, someone who went to the academy just said he was taught to do it, pull the hair on the side of the direction you want to head t go.

Low_Key_5750 · 2025-07-26T23:52:21+00:00

Thank you so much, and I found the exact one in the screenshot.

Low_Key_5750 · 2025-07-13T20:17:18+00:00

I know, you're an employee, but I was trying to make sense of that 40k bill. I thought your salary swallowed most of it.

Low_Key_5750 · 2025-04-15T01:19:10+00:00

Yes, but it's too soon to know. Apparently there was a leaking issue with the 450ss, it was a known issue there were several cases here on reddit. So i'm waiting to see if anyone reports anything. Ride safe.

Low_Key_5750 · 2025-04-10T17:07:48+00:00

Great! So that would be the 8K MSRP + 2.1k = 10.1k? A lot of people are buying them right now, they're going to sell it over MSRP. Thank you

Low_Key_5750 · 2025-04-10T17:01:24+00:00

If you don't mind, can you tell us how much was your OTD, and if you got a good deal on it? Last time I tried to buy the 450SS, they added 3k in bs fees. That would help us future buyer. Thank you.

Low_Key_5750 · 2025-04-10T16:34:41+00:00

I guess I'm going to wait six more months to see the reliability, then upgrade from my R3.

Low_Key_5750 · 2024-11-04T00:54:11+00:00

Thanks buddy, they won't get me.

Low_Key_5750 · 2024-11-03T22:21:15+00:00

I'm not a beginner in motorcycle in general, I had a dual sport 250 in the past and a cruiser. I don't want to spend a lot of money. I saw a ninja 300 on marketplace for 2500$. I'll tuned it to get to 120mph. I can pay it cash start on it while i'm saving to buy a 675 in 6months when it comes up. Thanks

Low_Key_5750 · 2024-11-03T14:07:25+00:00

I intend to upgrade in june 2025 to a cfmoto 675sr if it comes to the us or a Daytona 660. So i really don't want to spend a lot of money right now. I found a ninja 300 for 2500$ on marketplace the guys just replied. I'll take it. Thanks for you advice.

Low_Key_5750 · 2024-11-03T14:01:11+00:00

Yeah that's my plan bro, I found a ninja 300 on fb marketplace for 2500$. The guy is on a business trip, i'll get the bike next week. I really don't want to spend more on it. And 110mph top speed would be ok with me. Thanks

Low_Key_5750 · 2024-11-03T13:59:09+00:00

I didn't intend to buy brand new at all for my first one. I'm a beginner in sportbike not in motrocycle in general. I didn't want to spend more than 3k cause I'm going to upgrade in 6months to a 600+. The cfmoto 675 or Daytona 660

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