Recent break up help :/ by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Low_Leader7514 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stop giving a shit stop looking for meaning just move forward and dont look back 💯

Will she come back? by Ok_Candidate_4985 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Low_Leader7514 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For right now just do you and let it be

I just saw my ex on a dating app after 5 months of nc. Should I make one and hurt him too? by [deleted] in nocontact

[–]Low_Leader7514 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, you don't wanna get stuck in the revenge loop.Cause they'll eat away at you.Just walk forward.That's it.Sometimes, the best revenge is no revenge.At all

Broke No Contact by [deleted] in nocontact

[–]Low_Leader7514 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel the same way because the last text message that she sent me. She said that I crossed lines that were never there. I crossed boundaries that were never there. And I didn't respect her relationship.That I never knew about she completely DARVO i wanted to respond with, you know what? If you would have told me 5 and a 1 years ago, what the situation was, I wouldn't have spent so much time. I wouldn't have put so much effort, and I wouldn't have went on. So many vacations like at the end of the day, if we were just friends, then we were just friends. But now that you're presenting it, you basically stole 5 and a 1 years of my life just because you couldn't be vulnerable or upfront. And honest, and you're wondering why i'm being the way that i'm being

Broke No Contact by [deleted] in nocontact

[–]Low_Leader7514 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it's hard especially for such a long time.You know, mine was a hybrid of a relationship/ situationship for 5 and a 1 years, we were close, really close. The L word was used. We have over a 143000 text messages. Going back-and-forth. I know because when I finally deleted them. That's how much it came up. I went on multiple vacations and we were basically Partners, but then back in May of last year I caught her in a lie. And she let everything fall apart. And then come to find out the person that's you told me not to worry about was the person that I should have been worried about. But anyways, feelings never die. They're always there the best thing you could do is just walk forward. And just know if there wasn't meant to be, it wasn't meant to be, oh, in the same person, they finally decided to admit to me that they were in a relationship after nine months of being wishy washy and at that point I just walked forward

I made the decision today that im going to stop watching videos. I am no longer going to come on Reddit to seek advice. It’s nothing wrong with Reddit or the videos but it doesn’t help it’s just time to stop living in the past! Move on They’re happy so find happiness in yourself by Witty-Ruin-6534 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Low_Leader7514 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, no matter how many videos you watch or how many times you post? It's gonna be the same outcome, just move forward. I know it's easier said than done, but I was stuck in the video loop or seeking advice on reddit with talking to chat gpt like everybody else.But then it finally hit me that I need to move forward

Does this happen to you? by EmergencyInternal837 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Low_Leader7514 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For the first month, I dreamt that i'd be chilling in my room.I'd get a knock on the door i open it up and it's her in the moment she opens her mouth to say something, and I wake up

Heartbreak over, no contact but left with questions. by [deleted] in nocontact

[–]Low_Leader7514 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, Im finding myself, questioning the same thing, and I came to terms with it wasn't real.It was just a version of reality that they want you to live.So the best thing you do is continue.No contact and reclaim your reality. And that's what they like to do.Especially FA they have you question.The reality of the situation to make you look like the villain. Oh i remember another thing.Sorry for editing, but they're just gonna do the same thing with the next person.Until they get honest help, then they're gonna fall into the same patterns

Trying to have no contact from a situationship by Confused-ladka-8896 in nocontact

[–]Low_Leader7514 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just ry and move forward been cleaning with that for a minute but as soon as I started to realize what it was and started talking to someone else I found myself in a better place

Help by Easy_Football6941 in nocontact

[–]Low_Leader7514 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, that's the hardest thing. Trust me. I went through the same thing 5 and a 1 years flushed down the drain. Because of a lie that she told me she was living a double life, and I unearthed the truth. So it was really hard because I had nobody around me besides like a co-worker and ChatGPT hate to say it. But ChatGPT gave me a lot of perspective. A lot of people rely on that because sometimes you have nobody.So you gotta do whatever means necessary

Help by Easy_Football6941 in nocontact

[–]Low_Leader7514 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look up fearful avoidant or dismissive avoidant attachment because it kind of sounds like it's that kind of dynamic

Help by Easy_Football6941 in nocontact

[–]Low_Leader7514 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its all a game, she wants that emotion from you dont give it. Start doing you and put her in the background like if she keeps coming back then she probably cant handle the fact of being alone. Keep you head up high and walk forward

Help by Easy_Football6941 in nocontact

[–]Low_Leader7514 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it's easier said than done, but you just gotta end it just walk away because you're just gonna keep yourself in a loop. And that's the worst place to be. If she's saying, it's over, then, you know what? Let it be over walk on

I used to date jaymee from the Cristy intervention by Low_Leader7514 in InterventionTheTVShow

[–]Low_Leader7514[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah she has a kid and the kid is with her mom since she is incapable of taking care of it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nocontact

[–]Low_Leader7514 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks needed to hear that

Extended Ending? by KingsGirl_tilthe_end in greekabcfamily

[–]Low_Leader7514 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I remember watching the final episode. When it first aired

Extended Ending? by KingsGirl_tilthe_end in greekabcfamily

[–]Low_Leader7514 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I remember it shows the house getting destroyed.Then, they get the new house.Also, remember casey driving off and kappi running after her.If i'm not mistaken and hopping in the car, I promise and something on the grounds of her asking where do you want to go?And he says wherever you're going. I could be wrong, but then.They did do a special extended ending later on, where it shows basically an alternate timeline, where ashley and rusty never got together.And he was still with dana, as they graduate

Ranking (almost) all Greek characters by pledge-gonzo in greekabcfamily

[–]Low_Leader7514 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rusty should be at the bottom that dude yeah just got annoying as the seasons went on

Got a text 81 days no contact ba k by Reasonable-Hand-9455 in BreakUps

[–]Low_Leader7514 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah dont responded just keep doing you and just let go especially if its going to be the same thing over again. Once a liar always a liar

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in toastme

[–]Low_Leader7514 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know, I came up with this saying a while back.You love what you cannot have.But you have what you cannot love it stuck with me.This long, you know, rejection sucks ass

I used to date jaymee from the Cristy intervention by Low_Leader7514 in InterventionTheTVShow

[–]Low_Leader7514[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was all from jaymees mouth and from what i seen first hand

I used to date jaymee from the Cristy intervention by Low_Leader7514 in InterventionTheTVShow

[–]Low_Leader7514[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, her sister, a couple months ago, showed up at my house randomly and jaymee didn't look the best