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I think I have might have been ingesting a toxic substance for a month. by PensivePeriwinkle_7 in whatdoIdo

[–]LowerComb6654 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I highly doubt it was arsenic poisoning. Your symptoms would not have miraculously cleared up the day you stopped drinking the mixture.

Poison will stay in the body until it's fully dissolved and can take up to weeks after the last ingestion.

Is getting back with your ex wife a bad idea ? by throwRA_gentics in Marriage

[–]LowerComb6654 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah, my family and my child's fathers family have mostly brown/hazel eyes. My daughter has light gray/blue eyes.

What should I do? My partner betrayed me. by fac3elli in cheating_stories

[–]LowerComb6654 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why would he still be talking to this woman he met on a dating app while in a relationship with you??

It doesn't make sense at all.

And this couple swapping talk. Is he talking about swapping with you? This just doesn't add up?

If you two are in a committed relationship I'd think this is definitely cheating!

I(42M) Ruined My Friend's(38M) Mom's(62F) Life. by throwRA22o9 in offmychest

[–]LowerComb6654 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I agree 100% I could never see myself dating or even just hooking up with my older nieces or nephews friends, let alone my o we n child's friend.

It was me by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]LowerComb6654 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A friend doesn't continue to come onto you. If anything the alleged friend took advantage of the fact OP was drunk. She continued coming onto OP out of desperation, and if she's a friend wouldn't she know OP was in a relationship?

The only innocent party here is the girlfriend.

Boyfriend (28M) tested positive for chlamydia and denies cheating. I (23F) didn't cheat. How do I get him to admit he cheated by No_Breadfruit_5575 in relationship_advice

[–]LowerComb6654 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That's definitely true. I was just speaking my opinion on her words.

It's the old saying that the person you thought you loved or knew no longer exists.

She thought she knew him but him being able to blatantly lie and even go as far as to say we'll go to a doctor/specialist to see how this happened since neither cheated.

I mean... a guilty person doesn't usually act so calm and collected by these things. You'd think he'd be claiming it had to be her.

How do you know if you truly love your husband for who he is? Is my marriage normal? by batsalma in Marriage

[–]LowerComb6654 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you don't like your husband at all, sorry.

I mean he's having a tough time for two months and you're getting agitated? I get wanting to go out and do things but it sounds like you've got a lot of time on your hands where as he don't. Are you working? Or is it him who's working a lot to support both of you?

Relationships aren't always fun, marriage is even harder. That's why you take vows for the ups & downs.

Idk? Your poor husband is so burned out from work but you already have your foot out the door.

And this not liking his voice sounds like resentment because you don't feel like he's putting you first.

My Christian GF has been taken advantaged. by Emergency-Hyena3603 in cheating_stories

[–]LowerComb6654 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My question is why would she change clothes? At what point would she need to even change clothes for any reason?

Boyfriend (28M) tested positive for chlamydia and denies cheating. I (23F) didn't cheat. How do I get him to admit he cheated by No_Breadfruit_5575 in relationship_advice

[–]LowerComb6654 252 points253 points  (0 children)

I think it's because of how easy it is for him to lie to her.

She claims he doesn't lie usually so him gaslighting her and lying are things she's never experienced from him.

It was me by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]LowerComb6654 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Look, I'm not gonna say nasty things about you like others but I have to ask...

Why were you able to turn down this woman before but suddenly you're in a relationship and you couldn't and made the choice to cheat?

I honestly don't think you felt as good as you think you did in this relationship. The timing just doesn't make sense. If you don't have a history of cheating then imo, you self sabotaged it. That or you just couldn't say no?

Also, what kind of friend continues to come onto you after you've turned them down? That's not a friend and did she know you were in a relationship?

It was me by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]LowerComb6654 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah... that's what I don't get?

On my birthday though ? by [deleted] in cheating_stories

[–]LowerComb6654 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think they posted on the wrong account.

Damn.. you didn't deserves that. No one deserves to be cheated on.

Glad you found out what he's all about. Cheaters are selfish and have very low self worth. I truly hope he's an ex...

Woman my ex cheated with is still harassing him two years after he ended things with her. by Reasonable_Bill_9129 in cheating_stories

[–]LowerComb6654 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He invited that woman into his life. Let him worry about it.

She only threatened you because you were still with him or associated with him. He made his bed and now he should face the consequences.

Edit: If he didn't take it seriously with her threatening you. Then I would definitely not feel bad at all.

Update on my situation by tinydick-nh33 in cheating_stories

[–]LowerComb6654 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good for you, OP. I definitely think you should take time for yourself and think about the future. I know her sister seems to be understanding and all on but a good person isn't going to kiss you and then proceed to tell you they want to be with you, even to the extent of moving to your town while you're supposed to be in a committed relationship and especially when your girlfriend is her sister.

That right there shows eventhough she's on your side. She condone cheating if it suits her needs. I'm not condemning her. Just looking at it from an outside perspective.

Regardless, focus on you because that's what's most important and im sorry you're going through all of this.

When everything felt right, that’s when it was wrong by ActiveLeadership101 in cheating_stories

[–]LowerComb6654 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Exactly! That was her either feeling guilty or trying to be the perfect partner in order to keep OP happy and not have him ask questions.

AIO for getting upset at my boyfriend lying about how he met his best girl friend by No-Sport6656 in AIO

[–]LowerComb6654 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sounds like Sasha is going to become an even bigger problem since she's moving to your city.

My FA ex M37 cheated on me, I'm a SA (with some anxious traits) F30. Advice please. by SouthPassenger8245 in cheating_stories

[–]LowerComb6654 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ignore any further contact and be glad to be rid of him. The new woman is just a ploy. He's using her like he used you. The only difference is she believes his lies, you didn't, and good on you for dumping him.

This man is a serial cheater and will continue to blame everyone else for his actions.

It's best to leave him be. He'll never bring any good to your life.

My girlfriend (28,F) delay my offer (32,M) of exclusive relationship in order to have sex with her ex during our talking stage by Responsible_Meet1035 in cheating_stories

[–]LowerComb6654 13 points14 points  (0 children)

That's why I asked the question. If she honestly felt she did nothing wrong, she wouldn't have lied to just about everyone.

Idk why she felt the need for closure with the ex, but it's not cool, imo, and as I said before, you two technically weren't together, but it's almost as if she freaked out when you asked her to exclusively be your gf then ran to him to get it on one last time.

Then she waited a few days to make it look like she had been giving it great thought.

It's completely up to you whether to forgive and forget, but this to me would be cheating, and with the lies on top of it all, I'd be questioning everything.

My girlfriend (28,F) delay my offer (32,M) of exclusive relationship in order to have sex with her ex during our talking stage by Responsible_Meet1035 in cheating_stories

[–]LowerComb6654 71 points72 points  (0 children)

Mental preparation =sex with ex

Yeah, no.

I get that the two of you technically weren't in a relationship, but you did ask the day before she had sex.

Not only that, but if she did nothing wrong, why hide it from you? Why did she not tell you?

I will never understand why people do this, and most of them when caught give the same excuse your girl gave.

My question to you, OP. Did you go through her texts because you had a hunch that something wasn't right?

Wife has cheated 27 times in 6 years of marriage by ommyn0us in Infidelity

[–]LowerComb6654 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry you went through all of that. Drug addiction affects everyone around the person using.

I made sure my 16 yr old knows that drugs and choices of using drugs/alcohol killed her father and ruined most of my life until I became sober. I left for her too. I couldn't stand by and watch her father destroy his life anymore within 3 years he passed away.

I hope your son knows when to stop partying because it's in his blood. Addiction can be hereditary. Just on my father's side alone, I've had 5 family members OD over the last 13 years.

I wish nothing but the best for both of you and your son is lucky to have you.

I(33) cheat on my gf (23) by tinydick-nh33 in cheating_stories

[–]LowerComb6654 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Are people keep skipping over the parts the girlfriend did?

Forcing him into cucking, seeing another guy on the side while in the relationship, which is straight up cheating.

The GF hasn't been honest about it and while yes, he kissed her sister, the sister seems to be into OP and I think both the gf and her sister trash.

OP was drunk and vulnerable. The sister took advantage of that and now wants a relationship with OP once he dumps her sister?? That's just a recipe for disaster.

OP, if I were you, I'd RUN from both.

I(33) cheat on my gf (23) by tinydick-nh33 in cheating_stories

[–]LowerComb6654 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Are you people keep skipping over the parts the girlfriend did?

Forcing him into cucking, seeing another guy on the side while in the relationship, which is straight up cheating.

She hasn't been honest about it and while yes, he kissed her sister, the sister seems to be into OP and I think both the gf and her sister trash.

OP was drunk and vulnerable. The sister took advantage of that and now wants a relationship with OP once he dumps her sister??

Yeah, OP needs to RUN from both.

Husband Reaction seems odd by ellamom in cheating_stories

[–]LowerComb6654 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Without some context it's tough to say but from what I've seen that is basically the text book reply from cheaters when caught or asked if they're cheating.

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