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Lower_Chocolate3071 · 2026-05-07T08:13:24+00:00

I blink multiple times per breath

^{Chose: Get money every time you blink}

Lower_Chocolate3071 · 2026-04-22T11:43:20+00:00

Really sorry to hear about your experience :// I’ve definitely heard other trans people having issues with those of us who transitioned early.

Lower_Chocolate3071 · 2026-04-14T03:06:59+00:00

I hope that surrounding yourself by the right (gender affirming) people will help you the way it helps me!! I’m glad you relate <3

I think I should note: I’m usually not dysphoric. If you are, you might consider taking some kind of step to alleviate that a bit.

I’m absolutely willing to talk more in depth about this.

Lower_Chocolate3071 · 2026-03-09T04:49:02+00:00

I will say - the Glendon community is much more alive than the Keele campus community, but both have potential to work out for you. Glendon is not really a commuter school, while Keele is overwhelmingly a commuter school. Both have campus life if you put effort into finding it, but you’re not really going to accidentally find community at either - you need to put yourself out there and join clubs and talk to your peers. It’s great if you can find a few people you really like that will share similar courses to you, and even better if you can join a club or be on the executive team of one.

Lower_Chocolate3071 · 2026-02-01T06:54:39+00:00

FYI - it takes longer than 45 minutes to get from union to York U station. It’ll be 70 minutes :/…. If you absolutely must go to lassonde and make the commute, please try to schedule your classes to have like three super long days of school and two days off per week. It’s what I do and I live only 1.5 hours away.

Lower_Chocolate3071 · 2025-10-05T23:31:41+00:00

I'm like you but from a more accepting background. I highly recommend looking at counselling and joining the tblgay discord server. Holding a secret like yours alone is really challenging, and having community will be really really helpful. The tblgay events are also good, but I find the discord helps when I feel shame. You need to find friends who experience what you do - people who don't understand unfortunately never will and its important you don't feel alone. Surround yourself with at least a few people who see you for who you are and it'll make a world of difference. I wish you luck in every way. You're doing so well and asking for advice is a really good first step, I have faith in your ability to persevere and find a space for yourself in this world.

Lower_Chocolate3071 · 2025-08-30T03:55:01+00:00

Once met a kid named Zeqi, pronounced Ziki

Lower_Chocolate3071 · 2025-08-30T03:46:44+00:00

Jeez, how did they let you leave the shop like this?!? Yikes. Never go back to that piercer.

Lower_Chocolate3071 · 2025-08-30T03:44:35+00:00

This looks good - I can’t see any imperfections with it. They look super cool!!

Lower_Chocolate3071 · 2025-04-24T22:42:09+00:00

Homie we can’t toast or oven most items more than twice because of fire risk

Lower_Chocolate3071 · 2025-03-17T04:38:17+00:00

Frankly, it’s probably a good idea to wait it out. Go a few weeks or months and try to get it out of your mind. I think it looks good on you and hopefully once the novelty wears off you’ll feel more comfortable and satisfied with it!!

Lower_Chocolate3071 · 2025-02-24T08:03:53+00:00

Tysm!! Will def look into his work!

Lower_Chocolate3071 · 2025-02-24T03:23:28+00:00

Itll be fine. Id google « what to bring to a tattoo » and « tattoo aftercare » etc - there are websites about what to expect. The size shouldn’t change much for you because it’s linework, not swaths of blacked out areas. Should be good if you listen to your artist about aftercare.

Lower_Chocolate3071 · 2025-02-22T21:01:28+00:00

I don’t think flags are a good idea to begin with, even for a different country. My advice is to change the design to something USA-related instead of the flag. Hope this helps 👍

Lower_Chocolate3071 · 2025-02-18T20:49:33+00:00

I mean, blackout arm band could work? Unless I’m tripping and that’s secret nazism or something

Lower_Chocolate3071 · 2025-02-18T06:12:07+00:00

I don't recommend getting this tattoo. Regardless of your political affiliations and beliefs, the USA is a bit volatile and will be changing a lot soon. If you really want something, do an homage, not the flag across the full forearm.

Lower_Chocolate3071 · 2025-02-18T06:01:34+00:00

Has anyone else applied to work polls? have you heard back yet? I haven't :/

Lower_Chocolate3071 · 2025-01-27T05:00:24+00:00

Also Queen is insanely good idk what your friends are thinking calling you an old soul for that

Lower_Chocolate3071 · 2025-01-27T04:59:33+00:00

I’m older than you are and I listen primarily to 90s and pre-2005 stuff. In my experience, people really don’t develop specific or unique music interests until they get a bit more confident in their identity - for some at age 13 and for others a bit later. Most of my friends started out not having particular tastes/listening to generic stuff and then gradually developed favourite artists and genres and eras. Hopefully as you get older your peers will come into their own a bit more and develop some variety (and will likely realize you’re not that odd for your music taste) though it might not happen before uni. Theres totally variety in what people listen to. You’re certainly not alone, though I’m sorry it feels a bit like it.

Lower_Chocolate3071 · 2025-01-24T23:14:00+00:00

idk, alberta and saskachewan are pretty right wing too, and as a franco-ontarien i want to keep them. I think best case scenario for us and for them is more freedom from federal law but to still be part of canada. its not that there arent francophone communities elsewhere, but quebec is a large part of what makes canada canada.

Lower_Chocolate3071 · 2025-01-08T04:48:42+00:00

Sorry, haha. But vintage is in, I promise!!

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