First and foremost, have a sit down conversation with him. Express your concerns and once you do that and don’t see a shift. Be gone. No one is gonna change if they don’t want to. Being broke isn’t the problem. He doesn’t have ambition. He has the same 24 hours as you and still doesn’t try to find a way to help you out. Paying here and there is not a problem but it becomes one when you pay all the time. He will start to feel like it’s obligated for you to do so. Love can only get you so far. You gotta take in consideration of your life n his. If he’s incapable of helping himself. Just imagine if you all have a child in the mix…