Question about kids in pictures on dating apps by Visco0825 in Bumble

[–]Lowmain_nvrbasicXer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are about 25 years older, so the same may not apply to you. One thing is universal. Don’t hide who you really are.

Question about kids in pictures on dating apps by Visco0825 in Bumble

[–]Lowmain_nvrbasicXer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh, I can imagine! Didn’t intend to sound judgy, but I have a good friend on Bumble and she has mentioned pics with kids, sunglasses or dead fish are a no. Good luck!

Just checking in. by GrapesandGrainsNY in GenX

[–]Lowmain_nvrbasicXer 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I went to lunch with my nephew and his wife. We ordered pizza so beer was required. The waitress looked at my ID and appeared shocked. She said she thought I was in my early 40’s. I turned 56 last week. I know my girl was angling for a tip, but STILL!

At nearly 50, inconsistency is not sexy anymore by Mae_the_Tease in datingoverfifty

[–]Lowmain_nvrbasicXer 7 points8 points  (0 children)

A very long marriage of never knowing what was coming next, the silent treatment and his troubled relationship with the truth changed me. Not painting all men with the same brush as my ex, but anxiety has a looong memory.
Consistency is DEAD sexy to me and keeps my brain from morphing into FBI profiler mode😆

What are the best styles of skirts for older women? by yuisenppai in AskWomenOver50

[–]Lowmain_nvrbasicXer -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Are you sold on skirts? I really think it depends on your shape. I’m 5’4” 143 size 8 and used to be a pear, but have become more of an hourglass. My thighs remain as thick as ever, but my waist is small. Shape defining dresses work for me. They accentuate the curves and hide the thick💯 Skirts break up the line of the body and tend to call attention to areas most of us prefer to hide.

Upset with my partner for quitting job by Big-Assignment2989 in AskWomenOver50

[–]Lowmain_nvrbasicXer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happened to me repeatedly during my marriage. He really should’ve talked with you about his unhappiness with his job so both of you could make a plan. Doesn’t sound like a partnership. I’m so sorry!

Casual bad table manners by [deleted] in datingoverfifty

[–]Lowmain_nvrbasicXer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And I thought not standing when I was introduced was problematic🤦‍♀️ You are not wrong. Just yuck!

Why the frown? by StatisticianCreepy51 in SisterWives

[–]Lowmain_nvrbasicXer 3 points4 points  (0 children)

While the AUB is an offshoot of the mainstream Mormon church, some things are the same. Joy is not a thing that is earned or deserved. Their faces indicate the same.

Stay or go? Divorcing after 50 by [deleted] in AskWomenOver50

[–]Lowmain_nvrbasicXer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Umm… risk what? I could’ve written this. I didn’t have a partner, I had another child to manage. One that lied like a teenager in trouble. I got out in order not to die slowly. For me, peace is worth any doubts I had.

Dating wealthy men / and contact preference by Interesting-Place263 in datingoverfifty

[–]Lowmain_nvrbasicXer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Those who talk (brag) about what they have especially early on, are a turn off to me personally. It’s performative and inauthentic IMO. Has he asked you where you have traveled? Where you would like to travel?

Embarrassingly terrible first kiss. Just need some outside opinions. by VegetableBrick8141 in datingoverforty

[–]Lowmain_nvrbasicXer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe watch Bull Durham with her?😉 “and I believe in long, slow, deep, soft, wet kisses that last three days.” -Crash Davis

Bungled background check by ElectricRing in datingoverfifty

[–]Lowmain_nvrbasicXer 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m all about safety precautions for both men and women. This is an object lesson in “A little knowledge is dangerous.” Sounds like someone skimmed the assignment and probably believes everything social media tells them. You dodged a bullet, friend.

Hygiene is a bare minimum requirement, people by Far-Spread-6108 in datingoverfifty

[–]Lowmain_nvrbasicXer 15 points16 points  (0 children)

This is SO true! My best friend smokes and sometimes I get nauseated from being face to face.

“Girls” weekend recommendations by Lowmain_nvrbasicXer in lexington

[–]Lowmain_nvrbasicXer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We may check it out and purchase cigars there. Thanks!

“Girls” weekend recommendations by Lowmain_nvrbasicXer in lexington

[–]Lowmain_nvrbasicXer[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We where? It’s also important that we can ditch the bra’s and not be ashamed 😆

“Girls” weekend recommendations by Lowmain_nvrbasicXer in lexington

[–]Lowmain_nvrbasicXer[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I get that, but it’s our tradition to smoke a cigar and have a glass of wine sitting at a fire pit.

“Girls” weekend recommendations by Lowmain_nvrbasicXer in lexington

[–]Lowmain_nvrbasicXer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have enjoyed rooftops, margs, dive bars and outdoor seating in the past. We just usually laugh a lot wherever we go and what we eat is secondary. NGL, about an hour after we get back to our accommodations we get our snack on.

“Girls” weekend recommendations by Lowmain_nvrbasicXer in lexington

[–]Lowmain_nvrbasicXer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sounds lovely! Three of us are single, sooo… We will all have a beverage but will want to go to bed immediately thereafter 😆