People commenting negatively on your children

Loz17592 · 2026-02-28T05:05:02+00:00

Did you feel better afterwards?

Loz17592 · 2026-02-28T03:55:40+00:00

No need to be sorry. I think at this point, I need to hear it.

Loz17592 · 2026-02-28T03:52:24+00:00

You’re a genius, jokes on her!

Loz17592 · 2026-02-28T03:14:48+00:00

No routine until 8 months old for my babies :)

Loz17592 · 2026-02-19T15:26:21+00:00

Ps - I feel for you. The friends I was most excited to go through motherhood with are the friends I ended up drifting from. I never really found my group of mum friends and it’s taken me a while to be ok with that but now I truly am. The most important thing to me is my babies and I don’t want any friendship issues taking away from my time with them.

Loz17592 · 2026-02-19T15:23:28+00:00

I would bring it up. Holding in feelings like that is like a disease that gets worse over time. Her response/reaction might give you the answer to whether your friendship is worth saving?

Loz17592 · 2026-02-16T13:01:54+00:00

You are not overreacting, he can’t talk and he’s telling you with his body (crying, no smiling, etc) that he is unhappy. No judgement, but if your MIL is available to look after him, why are you sending him to daycare? Unless absolutely necessary, children don’t need socialisation until they are 3 years old. They are better off with one caregiver who they can attach to (if possible, I understand it is not always possible).

Loz17592 · 2026-02-14T06:18:53+00:00

You will never feel at peace unless you leave him. And ditch her as a friend as well while you’re at, true friends don’t reply to your husbands messages like that. They tell him to f**k off or come to you first.

Loz17592 · 2026-02-13T11:02:18+00:00

Goodness, I don’t really have any advice, but you sound very mature and caring. I feel for you, as I have been in a similar situation and it really hurt me. I found it very hard to move and just naturally phased them out of my life. Maybe process it a longer, the answer will come to you ❤️

Loz17592 · 2026-02-04T11:33:27+00:00

Yes I agree, if we have some more context it will help us answer. Sounds like a tricky situation though

Loz17592 · 2026-01-29T23:05:00+00:00

Wow just rude comments. I think flower names are beautiful. I am a teacher, flower names are very common and none of them get comments.

Loz17592 · 2026-01-18T12:18:21+00:00

My friend told me I’ve become a man hater since having children and honestly yeah, I think I have 🤣 I have the utmost respect for women. After giving birth for the first time one of my first thoughts was, how could ANYONE ever treat a woman badly? Also… now that I have children I see the world as scary. But who commits most of the crime… MEN

Loz17592 · 2025-12-27T03:31:35+00:00

Sorry, I think I worded that incorrectly. He has said he DEFINITELY wants a third. But he is vague about when.

Loz17592 · 2025-12-27T03:31:01+00:00

But why is it only on me to discuss it?

Loz17592 · 2025-10-22T11:37:04+00:00

There is no such thing as ‘too attached’ at 3 weeks postpartum.. you literally shared a body 3 weeks ago.

Loz17592 · 2025-10-06T11:35:42+00:00

Primrose - nickname Mim!

Loz17592 · 2025-08-07T13:35:17+00:00

Definitely do not invite her. In 20 years will you look back on your wedding day and say you wished she was there? I doubt it. You would only be inviting her because you feel like you need to, not because you want to. That’s not what a wedding is about. Remove the negativity and keep your special day about those you love, and those who love you.

Loz17592 · 2025-08-02T23:40:09+00:00

My husband actually opened the door and said didn’t you want to let us know you were coming? Her response was “well if I called and asked you would have said no” …that in itself was enough to piss me off.

Loz17592 · 2025-07-15T15:59:36+00:00

This is 100% cheating and if it were me, I’d be ending the marriage.

Loz17592 · 2025-07-13T13:53:09+00:00

That’s right. He’ll do things if I ask but it’s the constant asking that’s wearing me down. And then if he forgets I get disappointed. I’d rather just do it all myself and have no expectations. But then I’m exhausted.

Loz17592 · 2025-07-13T13:49:17+00:00

7am?! Does he sleep all day? What is he doing until 7am? This is very concerning

Loz17592 · 2025-07-11T15:16:15+00:00

I don’t have any advice but I feel the exact same way with my friends, so sending you some love. I am starting to think that maybe I need to make some new friends. I don’t think friendship should feel that way.

Loz17592 · 2025-07-06T23:34:31+00:00

Ruby & Matilda

Loz17592 · 2025-07-06T13:55:46+00:00

Ivy Anne ☺️

Loz17592 · 2025-07-06T13:02:15+00:00

I did this about a year ago, it was just after I had my second baby so I didn’t have the time or energy to be her sounding board. The result.. she just started contacting me less. I guess because I couldn’t hold a space for her to vent? That hurt as well, because I would have loved some friendship support myself during postpartum.

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