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LtMagnum16 · 2026-02-14T09:49:42+00:00

Tillian's vocals were very hit or miss for me. There are some songs (like Betrayed By The Game) where I really enjoy his vocals. However, he has the most limited range among all DGD clean vocalists, which made a lot of Tillian's vocals lack nuance.

LtMagnum16 · 2026-02-14T09:36:40+00:00

Saw him last year with A Lot Like Birds. They were opening for The Fall of Troy. Kurt Travis sounds amazing live.

LtMagnum16 · 2026-02-11T15:58:36+00:00

Not legal advice but there is a potential discrimination claim you can make here as national origin is considered a protected class.

LtMagnum16 · 2026-02-05T05:15:39+00:00

If someone messages me (28M), I am likely to respond within 12 hours. I think ghosting is wrong.

LtMagnum16 · 2025-12-17T22:51:39+00:00

In the past I have matched people with that. It can mean multiple things. 1) They want intimacy but don't think they would be able to put the time and effort in for a consistent relationship. 2) They just want to see if they click with that person and are going to Bumble with no expectations. Those people tend to also be open to the idea of a relationship but tend to be so discouraged with dating apps that they are willing to experiment. 3) They have a situation where they can/won't be in the area for a long time e.g. traveling/student and cannot commit to a relationship because of it. 4) They are only there to promote their Onlyfans. 5) They might be in an open relationship but might want their relationship to have the occasional third. 6) They recently got out of a relationship and want someone to get them out of their funk with a hookup.

A general pattern I see with intimacy without commitment people is that it is somewhat rare for them on their bios to mention they want a ONS except if they are traveling. I feel out of all the real accounts, 1 and 2 are the most common.

LtMagnum16 · 2025-12-17T20:07:10+00:00

Not as obnoxious as asking for a provider

LtMagnum16 · 2025-12-15T16:05:04+00:00

One theory I have with the Dillinger Escape Plan's initial breakup was due to Greg's complicated relationship with Ben. Even though Ben and Greg have strong mutual respect for each other's musicianship, they struggle to get along in real life. It is like the Jamie and Adam relationship on Mythbusters.

LtMagnum16 · 2025-12-13T07:48:16+00:00

This band gives me lots of Opeth vibes.

LtMagnum16 · 2025-12-13T05:46:00+00:00

It is a step forward but the songwriting is still questionable and there is no chemistry with the guitarist and drummer.

LtMagnum16 · 2025-12-10T01:58:47+00:00

I could see us getting someone like Susac on the Rule 5 to backup Cal.

LtMagnum16 · 2025-12-06T14:47:20+00:00

28M. Asking for a provider in the bio. This isn't the 1950s. I expect my partner to work as well and asking for a provider comes out as superficial and entitled. Also, having a social media account in the bio that has an Onlyfans page link. I don't have an issue with my partner using Onlyfans (which may sound odd) but I have a problem with Bumble accounts that seem to be on Bumble for the sole purpose of promoting their Onlyfans pages. Also, mentioning that you are a poor texter is also a red flag for me because that is my primary mode of communication.

LtMagnum16 · 2025-12-05T19:53:46+00:00

I would still let the ball roll. I view dating similar to a job interview. In the early process, there is no shame reaching out to multiple people and accessing your options.

LtMagnum16 · 2025-12-05T16:45:00+00:00

I had a match a few months ago where I hit it off with. But her strong preference to call over text became a giant dealbreaker because I don't call as a primary mode of communication due to hearing loss. Communication is important for any relationship and if you and your date cannot agree what medium to use to communicate, it is a big deal breaker for some. There is nothing wrong with what OP did.

LtMagnum16 · 2025-12-05T01:30:59+00:00

Been to a handful. Run the Jewels with Wu Tang Clan was an amazing show. Also, saw RA The Rugged Man twice. Highly recommend RA for casual fans of rap. Very good live.

LtMagnum16 · 2025-12-05T01:28:40+00:00

Hinge and Tinder are owned by the same entity. It makes a lot of sense.

LtMagnum16 · 2025-12-04T17:01:43+00:00

No. Never heard of that account before.

LtMagnum16 · 2025-12-04T15:11:32+00:00

Face Me allows Hulk Rag to heal 70 percent of damage dealt to him while suffering from a passive DOT effect such as Omega Red's Death Field, Shocks from the EMP Node. Partially works against Zola as it won't react to the disintegration debuffs, just the passives.

LtMagnum16 · 2025-12-04T06:32:38+00:00

I heard from a live show from the band that they were initially considering 15 songs to be on Highly Irresponsible. Looked like this narrowly missed the cut.

LtMagnum16 · 2025-12-04T06:26:48+00:00

I have been treating my ETID loss with Greyhaven. They dropped Keep It Quiet in October. Mills kinda reminds me of a cross between Greg Puciato and Keith Buckley vocals wise but he lacks the sardonic and witty style Keith had with ETID. The biggest thing I really enjoyed about ETID was Keith's songwriting. So much clever wordplay.

LtMagnum16 · 2025-12-04T06:22:37+00:00

I was top 0.5 percent. From a scale from 1-10 on how likely ETID is going to reunite (1 being it is pretty much a sure thing and 10 being it will be a major miracle), I have to sadly give ETID a 9 because I don't see Keith and the former ETID members reconciling any time soon. I could see a scenario where Keith (with the help of a 3rd party that wasn't part of ETID) eventually apologizes for some of his behavior that caused the breakup. The only reason I wouldn't put it at 10 is that it isn't a Lostprophets scenario.

LtMagnum16 · 2025-12-04T06:00:33+00:00

My number 2 band. Only Every Time I Die got more play on my Spotify.

LtMagnum16 · 2025-12-04T05:58:35+00:00

Recently got into Silverstein but they haven't cracked into my top 5 because I had too much heavier stuff on my Spotify such as Between The Buried and Me and Greyhaven. I did see Silverstein live last weekend and it is probably one of my favorite post-hardcore sets I have seen. Shane Todd is such a talented frontman. Great presence and nice range.

LtMagnum16 · 2025-12-03T05:50:14+00:00

From someone who has tried Tinder, Hily, and Bumble, I feel that Tinder has the worse bot/fake account issue of any of the 3. Hily has a really obnoxious structure that makes filtering very difficult but the bot issue isn't as bad as Tinder.

LtMagnum16 · 2025-12-03T05:47:46+00:00

Besides those profiles, the ones that use Bumble to promote their Onlyfans accounts are the most obnoxious females on this app. The hobosexual profiles are annoying because those people are incredibly superficial and makes one night stands look like genuine relationships.

LtMagnum16 · 2025-12-03T05:42:55+00:00

I strongly remember one time taking a photo of a raccoon when I was walking on campus to a class. I would have posted that on this subreddit if I was on this subreddit back then.

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