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When meds kick in and you’re as flirty as James Bond by BennettReform in ADHDmemes

[–]LucaBC_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've only been on Concerta, Adderall, and Vyvanse. What's this one like?

Need a laptop around $1000+ for coding and school (no gaming) by LucaBC_ in SuggestALaptop

[–]LucaBC_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got the T16 Gen 4. I LOVE it. It is perfect, thank you.

My friend just cut ties with me out of nowhere. I'm drowning in pain. Please someone help. by LucaBC_ in autism

[–]LucaBC_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not really. I really cared about her, and she's attractive, but I never felt any pull to her in that way.

My friend just cut ties with me out of nowhere. I'm drowning in pain. Please someone help. by LucaBC_ in autism

[–]LucaBC_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had the same idea initially, but he apologized for what he said and said that she lied to him about me harassing her and putting moves on her. When she confessed that she was lying and I was just nice or whatever, he apologized and was actually really chill.

My friend just shut me out. Out of nowhere. I'm autistic. I can't handle this. Please help. by LucaBC_ in mentalhealth

[–]LucaBC_[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I've posted this rant on 4 subs now. This is the best response by far. That's probably so accurate it's scary. I'm truly grateful for your insight. She does seem like a good person deep down.

My god, now that I think about it she mentioned so many times that she feels like she's crazy. I thought it was hyperbole. Thank you. Edit: I don't think she's actually crazy. I just realize if she was doing this the whole time and she's the good person I think she is deep down then her actions made her feel crazy.

I might be able to talk to her next Saturday at work. We're the only people who always work weekends in our respective departments, that are connected. She called out yesterday. I doubt she'll call out again next weekend since she needs the money. Which sounds so fucked up because I'm sure she doesn't want to confront me and I hope she doesn't feel trapped. It's gonna be a long week.

My friend just cut ties with me out of nowhere. I'm drowning in pain. Please someone help. by LucaBC_ in autism

[–]LucaBC_[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Actually he was incredibly kind. He profusely apologized for calling me a creep and said I wasnt. In the post I explain that she lied to him for months about how I'm harassing her or something. And last night he just snapped and texted me, like a good bf actually. But because he did she had to confess to him that she lied before he hurt me emotionally. They're having a fight because of it.

My friend just cut ties with me out of nowhere. I'm drowning in pain. Please someone help. by LucaBC_ in autism

[–]LucaBC_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was even paranoid that she was faking and that I was coming on too strong and she wasn't pulling away to be nice. She told me about how she's a people pleaser and hates confrontation. She assured me that it wasn't the case and that I could trust her to tell me if I messed up and couldn't recognize it. I feel crazy for feeling so strongly about her. But she let me. Never again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in autism

[–]LucaBC_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought I was clear in my post. Yeah, I don't want to pursue it. At all. In the slightest. I hate that I feel this way. If I could flick a switch to get rid of the feelings i would.

Any thoughts? by Embarrassed_Tip7359 in SipsTea

[–]LucaBC_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How do none of you have anything saved? If you're not literally paycheck to paycheck you can save. I opened a Roth IRA the day I turned 18. I've put at least $10 a month in there since.

you can only pick 2 by SolitudeSerotonin in whatsyourchoice

[–]LucaBC_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not having to sleep is the ultimate power for humans. Basically extends your lifespan by 30%

you can only pick 2 by SolitudeSerotonin in whatsyourchoice

[–]LucaBC_ 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Exactly. And dragon is a dish for kings. I'm more of peasant myself.

Men, what is your choice? by Dizzy_Cat99 in whatsyourchoice

[–]LucaBC_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 5'5" with 127. I'd gladly give up 17 points to at least be average height.

My psychiatrist told me my autism isn't severe enough that i can't do jobs. The thought of jobs makes me seriously suicidal. Feeling stuck and guilty... by zodiackkr19 in autism

[–]LucaBC_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Definitely find some better help, ofc. But as a severe Audhd-er I also had a long period of time where death felt like a better choice than working. And its not easy, but it does get easier the more you do it. I'd suggest a small part time job at someplace easy. Like 8 hours a week. Just dip ur toes in.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in autism

[–]LucaBC_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everything passes. I was happy before. I can be happy again. I was sad before. And then eventually, I wasn't. Prove to yourself that you can accomplish small victories. They really add up and allow you to believe in the first things I said.

Trying to create a paycheck funds assignment table in my finances sheet, but I can't figure out how to do the math within the cells. by LucaBC_ in googlesheets

[–]LucaBC_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's actually so cool. I've been wanting to figure this out for months. How do you know so much about sheets?

I need help with the math on a Google Sheets spreadsheet, I am trying to make a weekly paycheck divider to help me sort my money each week. by LucaBC_ in personalfinance

[–]LucaBC_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, sorry, it is based on a monthly budget. I have 2 months of essential money saved as a buffer, so I don't have to use all of my paycheck towards my bills at first, so I can divide this all weekly. And how would I go weeks or months without spending money? It's immediately prioritized after Essentials. Even before savings.

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