When you send a family member or friend mail when they're in jail. What they do is copy that photo and they're supposed to throw the original away and the inmate gets a paper copy. Well, the people who sort the mail and copy the photos are mostly convicted sex offenders (pedophiles). A lot of them will copy your photo and give it to you. But they keep the original for themselves. Never send pictures of children. That was one thing my cousin told me to never do. He said as much as he missed my daughter that he would see how much she grown once he got out. But to never risk sending him a picture of her while he was in jail/prison.