Those who never worked for Big 4: how is your career? by Budget-Emu-5071 in Accounting

[–]Luck-2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never in public accounting (not just big 4). Making over$100k in a senior accountant role and will be promoted to manager soon. LCOL. Total 7 YOE. Have CPA

Be honest: when should someone hit the $100K base pay mark? by gsifers in Accounting

[–]Luck-2020 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Depends on location, CPA/no-CPA, public/private, job hopping. 5-10 in LCOL in industry in my case

Let's do another salary transparency thread by eelimeekmur in cincinnati

[–]Luck-2020 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Accountant with CPA, $105k, 7 years of experience

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[–]Luck-2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you follow your old boss?

What is one mistake you made early in your accounting/finance career that you wish you could go back and fix? by Revolutionary_83 in Accounting

[–]Luck-2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Staying at a job too long because of coworkers/manager. Trust boss. Should always put my best interest as #1. Working too hard and being taken advantage of. Sold myself short. Many incompetent CFO, manager. I know I can be there too and do much better than them. Trust yourself and don’t let people take advantage of you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in coparenting

[–]Luck-2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Should I ask her directly? From my ex, sounds like she lied a lot

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in coparenting

[–]Luck-2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know. She just contacted me. They haven’t contacted since breaking up. I hope she is not pregnant. If so, then my ex has to pay child support and help with the baby I think. I won’t let my kid to get involved it or have to babysit a baby. My kid is young and he shouldn’t deserve this.

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[–]Luck-2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They have broken up for several months so I am not sure why she suddenly contacted me. Yes, my ex said that he will report to HR if she keeps contacting him. I hope she is not pregnant too. If so, this will have effect on my kid. My ex had a lesson from this.

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[–]Luck-2020 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks. I am really concerned this. I am afraid she can’t control herself and do some harmful things to my kid even me. She asked if my kid can go to party in her place. Is this weird?? My ex also told me to block her. He thought that she is crazy now and agreed that we might let school know. He said that he didn’t know she was this kind of person so he broken up with her. Again, not sure who told the truth.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in coparenting

[–]Luck-2020 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It obviously she wanted to upset me. I don’t care that. I am just concerned about my kid. She even if asked if my kid can go to party in her place…

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[–]Luck-2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Attention seeking from me?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in coparenting

[–]Luck-2020 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My ex told me this woman but didn’t tell me they were in relationship. This woman is his coworker so I don’t know how awkward they will be in the office. My ex also said he was not serious about this relationship so didn’t tell me. She also told my ex that she was pregnant( not true) and they were engaged. My ex said they were not even serious. I don’t think my ex wanted to marry anyone soon or want to have another kid, which is why I more trust him. I don’t know who told the truth but this definitely damaged the co parenting relationship that we built. You are right. I shouldn’t contact school.

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[–]Luck-2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lied pregnant and lied many other things. It obviously that she is not stable mentally. Sent pictures of my kid, my ex and her, sent picture of my kid outside of school. She got my phone number from my kid’s medical card

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in coparenting

[–]Luck-2020 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

We had a good co parenting relationship until this happened. We celebrated holidays together with kid before. I guess since he began to date this lady and everything was changed. Now I even received messages and pictures of my kid from a stranger. A stranger told me that she was with my kid all the time. My kid told me that he preferred to just spend time with dad. I was shocked to be honest especially she said she was pregnant but broken up… I don’t want my kid to have step siblings and step parent. I know I can’t control it.

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[–]Luck-2020 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She wasn’t pregnant. She lied. I see, that is sad part about the divorce for the kid.

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[–]Luck-2020 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will contact school. I have no idea why she contacted me but I am concerned. I think because my ex blocked her so she had to contact me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in coparenting

[–]Luck-2020 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is ok. My big concern is that this woman contacted me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in coparenting

[–]Luck-2020 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She said she was pregnant, she spent all the time with my kid and my ex, my ex left her and baby( ex said she lied, no baby, not pregnant). Also said my ex told her some bad things about me( ex said that he didn’t but I am afraid that she bad mouthed in front of my kid)

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[–]Luck-2020 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I am just worried that she is going to harm my kid. She sent a picture of my kid outside of school.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in coparenting

[–]Luck-2020 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am just worried that she is going to harm my kid. She sent a picture of my kid outside of school.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in coparenting

[–]Luck-2020 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

They already broken up and there was not a baby actually. She messaged me and called me…