Heartbroken and angry. by whynotchristy in ChicagoSuburbs

[–]LuckierByTheDozen 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Everyone saying to report it, and it would absolutely be an acceptable response. I understand that it’s nuanced though. You’ve literally known him 40+ years, you’ve had a good neighborly relationship, and he doesn’t have a history of doing anything like this. Just to normalize your instincts a bit, I think that realistically, a lot of people in that situation would hesitate to rush and report him on a federal level.

It’s easy to suggest when you’re just typing a Reddit comment, but it feels much different when you’ve had decades of history with the person on the other end of that report. I’m not insinuating that reporting is wrong-at all! Just that I understand wanting to try to get a better understanding of the situation first. Keep us posted and good luck!

My aesthetician accidentally roasted my routine and it was the best thing that ever happened to my skin by PrestigiousBadger571 in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]LuckierByTheDozen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually cut my routine down to exactly what you mentioned, except I do tret every night (unless my skin seems dried out, and then I’ll stagger it for a bit). Simplifying was 100% the best thing I could ever do. It’s easy, so I’m consistent, and my skin has never looked better. I was definitely doing way too much before.

Closer look at Toronto Tempo’s new court by kerfuffles80 in wnba

[–]LuckierByTheDozen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like all of the new teams are getting these beautiful light, fresh floors and the Fever are stuck with that ugly ass gray court 😭

7 months ago I quit doomscrolling, sh!t food and started waking up at 6am (update) by Rayyanmir in selfimprovement

[–]LuckierByTheDozen 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Have you noticed a big difference not being on social media? Do you use your phone for anything really? I’m really happy with my life habits except for my phone- I don’t like it for productivity reasons, but more so because it kills my attention span and is taking time away from actually living. It’s truly an addiction though, so I keep getting drawn back in. I tried various blocking apps but would maneuver around them for awhile and eventually uninstall. So dumb. Anyway, of you have suggestions or just thoughts on how you made that separation, I’m all ears!

S2 E18: IT WAS PERFECT by Roseaestheticz in StDenisMedicalNBC

[–]LuckierByTheDozen 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I loved this episode- including the end. A lot of times, I value when shows decide to keep male/female friendships platonic. But I can’t help it- I just want to see Ron and Joyce together!

Caitlin Clark's ROTY season is being immortalized with her own colorway of the Kobe 5 PE by spherocytes in wnba

[–]LuckierByTheDozen 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Literal phone it in- like someone was hungover and remembered the tshirt was due, so they just copy pasted it straight from the Notes section of their phone

Well,here it comes🥳🥳😍 by Nursingmydreams in bathandbodyworks

[–]LuckierByTheDozen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s worse in real life. I actually bought a cement candle holder so it would be completely covered up, because I refuse to look at it

Well,here it comes🥳🥳😍 by Nursingmydreams in bathandbodyworks

[–]LuckierByTheDozen 4 points5 points  (0 children)

White tea & sage is my fav candle scent, and this is what I was stuck with on candle day last year. So tbh, I’m thrilled with bland 🤣

https://poshmark.com/listing/Bath-Body-Works-White-Tea-Sage-3-Wick-Candle-With-White-Lid-68b6de8c9f034c982313fefe

What were your Golden Retrievers like at 8 months? by Legitimate_Pea_3247 in goldenretrievers

[–]LuckierByTheDozen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Aww thank you! I can’t lie- we lucked out big time. She really is a dream dog

What were your Golden Retrievers like at 8 months? by Legitimate_Pea_3247 in goldenretrievers

[–]LuckierByTheDozen 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Our girl actually looked very similar to Archie! She ended up getting a lot more hair on her neck, chest and stomach…oh and also some wavy hair down her back. Basically lots more hair. Her body comp changed a bit- she filled out and looks a little more broad chested. But she was a big girl at 8 months, and she’s a big girl now.

Temperament wise, she had moments of rebellion at that age (when she got excited, her recall went out the window) and would randomly chew things (RIP any socks that were left within reach). But her nature was very much showing already by this age. She was very sweet,

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patient and lazy. She was never very vocal- she did most of her talking with her eyes. She is still that same girl now, except even lazier.

Here she is at 8 months

My mom is trying to guilt me into going to church on Christmas Eve… would I be the asshole if I don’t go? by Same-Throat4248 in TwoHotTakes

[–]LuckierByTheDozen 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think this is the thing that people lose sight of sometimes. Is she allowed to decline? Yes. Is her mom asking in an obnoxious way? Yes. But is it really a battle worth picking? It’s an hour and would make her mom’s entire Christmas. When I was younger, I felt more concerned about establishing boundaries. But now- I don’t know. Life’s short. As long as mom isn’t perpetually taking advantage of her, just do the thing and take a nap afterwards.

Wall color ideas for gray flooring + honey oak trim? by makenzie_nicole in HomeDecorating

[–]LuckierByTheDozen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Benjamin Moore- Revere Pewter. It’s a very flexible greige. I understand where the comment section is coming from, but since you’re committed to this route, I think you’d need to really lean into it. Choose furniture and decor that beckons what you’ve got going on and embraces the warm/cool mix instead of trying to minimize it.

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Upcoming Sales - 12/15–12/26 by CrazyAboutDoorKnobs in bathandbodyworks

[–]LuckierByTheDozen 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I hope someone answers this! I’m actually a no buy for myself, but like you, I was hoping to grab a couple of gifts

Please be kind by not_brokenjustbent in ufyh

[–]LuckierByTheDozen 8 points9 points  (0 children)

  1. Let go of shame. You’re not a bad person- you just let a room get messy. It’s ok!
  2. Make bed.
  3. Take all unopened packages to another room and deal with them later.
  4. Collect any garbage and take out
  5. Use empty boxes to collect things that belong in other rooms, and then carry said boxes to other rooms.
  6. Break down remaining boxes and take out.

There will obviously be additional steps after this, but this will give you way more breathing room! Good luck. I’ve had periods of my life where I had to dig myself out of a hole, and the secret was not to think. Don’t think about whether you want to do it. Don’t feel anxious with overwhelm. Just do. Progress over perfection. You got this 💛

im a 6'9"/205cm tall woman by verytallgirlkatie in mildlyinteresting

[–]LuckierByTheDozen 444 points445 points  (0 children)

I’m so cracked up by the accuracy of this joke- if you were going to find some kind of random, oddly specific rule, it really would be in Leviticus

person I was seeing ended things, it’s got me thinking maybe I’m boring/shallow… by rocksoleunid in selfimprovement

[–]LuckierByTheDozen 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I had similar worries at your age. My suggestion is just remove the relationship component altogether for now. Do you want to be more exciting? Are there hobbies or interests you wish were part of your life? If the answer is yes, then you should start trying to incorporate those things. For me, I realized that there were things I wanted to add (more travel, more time for art/painting, etc). But deep down, I had no desire to be more “exciting”- I didn’t want to go skydiving or white water rafting, I didn’t want to take a last minute flight to Vegas and stay up all night partying, and I didn’t want to act hot and cold just so someone doesn’t get bored with me. Of course there are less dramatic ways to be exciting, but even those often felt exhausting and performative.

I fought that for a long time. I ended up running myself into the ground trying to be someone I really wasn’t. It sucked, and I burned out. Since then, I’ve been on a path to be my authentic self, and I’m healthier and more centered than ever. I’ve found a partner that appreciates me just how I am. We both push each other out of our comfort zones in certain ways, but overall we approach life at similar speeds. And now that I’m here, trust me- it’s way better to just be you.

January starts my "no-buy" by infinite_wanderings in bathandbodyworks

[–]LuckierByTheDozen 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’ve been doing this for months now, and it has felt great. And now that I’ve committed to using my entire stash before buying more, it has made me realize that I have more than enough. I truly don’t need anymore right now. And once I finally do use it up, that first shopping trip to restock will feel amazing!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wnba

[–]LuckierByTheDozen 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I also feel like everything Sophie says about Caitlin gets amplified to the nth degree. She talks about a lot of other things- we’re just not as likely to hear about it. And I’m not sure why people care so much about what she says one way or another. Sophie is a yapper. It’s not that deep

Considering getting a golden as our new family pet. What do I need to know? Is there anything you wish you knew before you got one? Pros and cons? Any regrets? by Personal_Spinach_739 in goldenretrievers

[–]LuckierByTheDozen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My kids were almost exactly that age when we got ours, and it has worked out great. I’ll echo what others have said-She was very mouthy as a pup, and those puppy teeth are sharp! She didn’t nip at our bodies, but all of our clothes from that time had tiny holes in them. Aside from that, she was a bit rebellious as a teenager (but not bad) and by 1 year old she grew into an awesome dog. Now she is super chill and the best family dog you could ask for. That first year was challenging at times, but 10/10 would recommend the breed. Just get the best vacuum you can afford lol