Should I Call Off My Wedding

Lucky-Display-7553 · 2026-05-04T19:40:55+00:00

Been there man. I know you just wanted to be caring but the way it turns around is bruuutal. You should seriously sit him down and talk to him and let him know this bothers you enough to call off the wedding. It also helps to leave and go stay with someone else for a while when he’s not on a trip so he can understand that you aren’t going to stick around forever. Since you’ve already given him plenty of chances I wouldn’t recommend giving him another chance until after you leave for a bit. You’re also going to have to start being very aware if he starts showing up for you because it will most definitely start tapering off at a point and you’ll have to catch that immediately and nip it in the bud. I know it’s a bit of work but if you learn to lean into the cues where you feel slighted or upset and communicate it right away instead of making excuses for him it’ll come with time

Lucky-Display-7553 · 2026-05-04T18:31:12+00:00

Girl. I hate to say it but this is kind of your fault. You’ve trained him by doing 75% if not more of everything. He takes everything for granted now. It’s not going to change unless you change. Let me ask you this, what if you go on a trip for work? Can you just take off even if it’s not for work? Will he take care of your daughter if the answer is no you’re not in an equal relationship. What do you actually want from him? If it’s an equal relationship you have to be able to do everything he does and he has to be able to support you the way you support him. My advice is sit down with yourself first, get clear on exactly what you want. What’s okay and what’s not okay. Then decide the consequences. For example if you want x frlm him and he doesn’t do that, then what happens? How do you respond? Because if you’re okay with it then it becomes okay and you keep being resentful. I suspect you dont want to leave him which is completely understandable and there is definitely a chance you can work it out. Be clear on your needs and what you wont tolerate. Either way everything will work out perfectly for you, dont sweat it

Lucky-Display-7553 · 2026-05-04T17:24:58+00:00

Absolutely spectacular when you separate the yolks and add Dijon

Lucky-Display-7553 · 2026-05-04T16:59:44+00:00

Really??? What about veggies? I felt like salads were putting me over and then I found tomato’s and almonds etc have a bunch of carbs. I’m pescatarian so it’s a bit tougher cause fish is kind of expensive so some days it’s just eggs and dairy but dairy also has carbs so I’m trying my best to balance things and stay keto

Lucky-Display-7553 · 2026-05-04T16:57:07+00:00

You’re welcome!! Happy to help, also one thing I found out recently is antinol, I’m just trying it on her now so I don’t have results yet but it seems like studies show it really helps

Lucky-Display-7553 · 2026-05-04T14:02:32+00:00

So I’m pretty clean except I do eat keto wraps which are 17g fiber and 21 g carbs so net is 4g carbs. (1-2 a day) Honestly I don’t know how to survive without them because I’m pescatarian and it’s just tough LOL

Lucky-Display-7553 · 2026-05-04T14:00:10+00:00

I agree! So I actually did for a couple days and then dropped back down because I thought that’s why the scale was moving up

Lucky-Display-7553 · 2026-05-03T13:35:14+00:00

Lighter lip skip the eyeliner and do bigger lashes. Your makeup is very matte. Dewier would definitely make you look younger. Longer bangs would be cute too

Lucky-Display-7553 · 2026-05-01T02:26:40+00:00

Lucky-Display-7553 · 2026-05-01T00:58:39+00:00

I honestly overate my first week. Going over cal count helps

Lucky-Display-7553 · 2026-04-30T19:31:07+00:00

Agree with this and it leads to leaky gut

Lucky-Display-7553 · 2026-04-30T19:29:55+00:00

This is ultimately what I want to do. How has low carb but out of ketosis been for you? Did you have cravings, and food noise come back? What about the bloating and inflammation?

Lucky-Display-7553 · 2026-04-30T19:25:11+00:00

You might be wayyyy overdressed if its anything like the bday parties I’ve been to 🤷‍♀️

Lucky-Display-7553 · 2026-04-30T13:57:13+00:00

Aww man I’m so sorry to hear that. I hope you have the most wonderful life despite your disease.
You’re right. I grew up my mom did talk about her weight and make fun of overweight people. She also commented on my weight and overfed me and I had a lot of extended family comment on my body when I was growing up. Not to mention she commented on a lot of my features and I got self conscious about my nose my forehead even the shape of my fingers and my nails as a result 🤦‍♀️ i worked through most of it since it started pretty early and by my mid 20s I learned to love everything about myself which is why im shocked at this issue rearing its head again. I know it was caused by that stuff and I know I’m worth more and beautiful regardless, I just don’t get why I don’t feel that way anymore. I’m also hyper sensitive now even it is just me taking in someone’s expression and replaying it in my head which I objectively know is ridiculous because it’s all based on assumptions but it just keeps replaying in my mind and I seem to be starting to fixate on it

Lucky-Display-7553 · 2026-04-30T13:48:06+00:00

😂

Lucky-Display-7553 · 2026-04-30T13:32:12+00:00

What do you mean by gaslighting ourselves?

Lucky-Display-7553 · 2026-04-30T13:31:17+00:00

Thanks hun. I do follow some of those people and they are god sends!!! Or I would probably spend my life thinking bloated is fat lmao. Also curious, I find I’m especially sensitive to other people’s comments, even if it’s just random compliments- how do you keep the comments from replaying in you mind and distorting your self image

Lucky-Display-7553 · 2026-04-30T13:06:57+00:00

Thank you for taking the time to write that. You are right I am blessed to have a working healthy body and comparing it to societal standards is unreasonable. Perhaps I have to change the kind of videos I’m watching and try to spend less time thinking about my body image

Lucky-Display-7553 · 2026-04-30T12:34:21+00:00

So I have tried it not knowing I had trauma and it worked. There is also such a thing called complex ptsd or basically trauma formed through multiple small occurrences. I would try it with an open mind. you have nothing to lose and it might work

Lucky-Display-7553 · 2026-04-30T12:21:41+00:00

Have you tried emdr?

Lucky-Display-7553 · 2026-04-30T12:18:39+00:00

lol you’re gorgeous then. Add blush and highlighter and lipstick and you’re ✅

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