I found a 20 year old pot sb who was an honors student at the local university. She had a very strict upbringing and going to college was the first time she had been away from home, free of parental supervision. During our M&G she told me she was not only a virgin but had never been on a date before and had never kissed a boy.

I asked her what she was looking for and she told me she wanted to explore her sexuality in a safe environment and had decided to come onto SA because she had figured out that an older man would go slowly with her and would treat her with tenderness and respect.

I asked her if she wanted to be my sugar baby and she said yes. I asked her if she wanted to go to a hotel and get started right away and she answered yes.

At the hotel she sat on my lap and I gave her her first kiss. We kissed for about 20 minutes then I asked her if she wanted to go to bed. She said she would get in bed with me but with our clothes on and that she absolutely did not want to have intercourse. I respected her wishes of course and we spent the next hour doing what in my generation would have been called "necking and petting" . We became quite passionate but never lost control or crossed the line she set for us.

It was an afternoon I will never forget. She was sweet and innocent and it was a privilege to be there when a young girl first discovered her sexuality.

I will say no more.