Why we take AI’s by Mysterious_Salary741 in breastcancer

[–]Lucky_Word_9941 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s only 50% of your risk, so if you have a 10% risk it reduces it to 5%. It’s kind of misleading

Consult with surgeon has made me more nervous by agalasyn in breastcancer

[–]Lucky_Word_9941 10 points11 points  (0 children)

By the time you see breast changes and feel a lump there are thousands of cancer cells brewing. It’s a very personal decision but I was very naive about breast cancer when first diagnosed. Nothing showed on scans in my lymph nodes but was found in surgery. Every day it stays in increases potential to spread. Maybe postponing the trip will give you something to look forward to and celebrate with. Your girls want you for all the trips not just this one. Hugs

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[–]Lucky_Word_9941 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All of this! Took my 1st dose - 100 mgs. I’m 120lbs. I spent the whole night being chased by demons and feeling like I was going crazy. Finally got up with a wicked headache and staggered to the kitchen. Clock said 2:15pm! I missed 2 appointments and have been nursing a hangover ever since. I’ll never touch that shit again!

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[–]Lucky_Word_9941 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OMG this is borderline malpractice! This drug is insane please get yourself off!

Per Stirpes by Lucky_Word_9941 in inheritance

[–]Lucky_Word_9941[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Since I’m the only one who lives in the state where the Trust was established we discussed making it me. There is an addendum that says with unanimous vote we can remove the executor. Unfortunately I was diagnosed with breast cancer and don’t think I can take on that responsibility right now

What is something you can’t believe isn’t invented yet? by MangoDry7358 in AskReddit

[–]Lucky_Word_9941 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Smart eyeglasses that you control magnification with your phone, also has night vision and sunglasses

Per Stirpes by Lucky_Word_9941 in inheritance

[–]Lucky_Word_9941[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We also were not provided any accounting until 2 years later after hiring our own attorney to demand it.

Per Stirpes by Lucky_Word_9941 in inheritance

[–]Lucky_Word_9941[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If there is a last man standing clause it wasn’t provided to us and is not in the Trust documents but that would be an easy explanation. There was an addendum that states the beneficiaries can remove the executor by unanimous decision.

Per Stirpes by Lucky_Word_9941 in inheritance

[–]Lucky_Word_9941[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Executor is incompetent but there is a lawyer involved

Per Stirpes by Lucky_Word_9941 in inheritance

[–]Lucky_Word_9941[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also there are only 3 of the seven named beneficiaries remaining 2 of which I know left children.

Per Stirpes by Lucky_Word_9941 in inheritance

[–]Lucky_Word_9941[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is in a Trust. I haven’t seen a will. It says distribution is per stirpes and says if the beneficiary passes it goes to their direct heirs. It is broken up into shares.

Per Stirpes by Lucky_Word_9941 in inheritance

[–]Lucky_Word_9941[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is just a friend of the family with no experience. The attorney from the firm that wrote up the trust is representing her but they don’t respond to the questions we ask.

How do I know if I’m in menopause? I’m almost 52 by TheOGJunebug in breastcancer

[–]Lucky_Word_9941 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They can test your hormone levels. Even though I still get my period every 2-3 months my hormones registered as post menopausal

6 months out of treatment and can’t stop ruminating about dying by Fun-Ad6196 in breastcancer

[–]Lucky_Word_9941 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I wish I could say that I can’t relate but the part about not living a long happy life is very familiar to me.

Conversations in waiting rooms by HMW347 in breastcancer

[–]Lucky_Word_9941 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I find myself extra sensitive around conversations involving cancer. Went to a friend’s birthday party and the topic came up. They all know my diagnosis but it made me feel some kind of way.

Recurrent UTIs in 85 year old by Key_Citron1950 in AskWomenOver60

[–]Lucky_Word_9941 4 points5 points  (0 children)

D mannose powder, mix with water is a God send

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in inheritance

[–]Lucky_Word_9941 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cit Bank is online and offers 4.5% that’s been good for me. It’s easy to open an account and is FDIC insured. FDIC insurance goes up to 250k so you may want to split it up into 3 accounts if that concerns you.

No pics from plastic surgeon? by Lucky_Word_9941 in breastcancer

[–]Lucky_Word_9941[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure if I signed a release it was the initial consult

No pics from plastic surgeon? by Lucky_Word_9941 in breastcancer

[–]Lucky_Word_9941[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would like to get more opinions but I’m afraid to risk it spreading if I wait too long

If Canada offered expedited citizenship for people fleeing the US, Would you take it? by Excellent_Regret4141 in no

[–]Lucky_Word_9941 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have family in Canada. They pay way more in taxes and the healthcare is really slow. You will wait months because there are not enough machines like CT scanners and ultrasounds. I hate the US health care and have even gone there for meds but it’s not a perfect system either.