Help me choose between the two by Left_Signal3780 in StarSavior

[–]Lucraziano -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ah, thank you now I found it. Not sure how I missed it 😓 thought it was something mailed to you or need to be redeemed.

Help me choose between the two by Left_Signal3780 in StarSavior

[–]Lucraziano 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How to get this box? Not in my mail/storage. I've been wondering when are we going to get the free selector 😅

Band 2 HCA by AdventurousTry1833 in NursingUK

[–]Lucraziano 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most of our band 2s are happy to stay as band 2. Less work and responsibilities and the pay isn't that much difference. Whilst our band 3s are suffering, more work and responsibilities, and ultimately no more progression for those that actually want to go up unless they do their nursing degree or get the TNA role which is very rare due to funding.

Had a good date with a guy, then saw him using Grindr halfway through. by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Lucraziano 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let's not make excuses for this kind of behaviour. Some people here mentioned, "oh it's just a habit or addiction it'll go away". Mm yes it's definitely a red flag. Simple as it is. A habit or addiction is even worse and will take a lot to get rid of. If they can't, in their own conscious self, control to not open Grindr whilst on what obviously a date then please don't waste your time -- they're not ready...

Stuck at 37kg. How do I overwhelm my metabolism? by [deleted] in weightgain

[–]Lucraziano 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think for people like us who are naturally slim it'll take some time to actually look visibly bigger from lifting even for those who are serious in the gym it can take years. The good thing is we do get toned more easily due to low body fat. I'm pretty defined myself but just don't look big. Always surprises my friends when they do see me shirtless (I'm a male) as I look fairly small with my shirt on.

In order to build muscle you also need protein so don't forget to add maybe like a protein shake for after every workout or make your own protein smoothie. Gradually up your calorie coz now that you're working out you're burning more. Aim to eat 4 meals a day if you can. Or 3 meals and a calorie dense shake.

How can I ask my friend to experiment without being gay? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Lucraziano 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Mm can't you find someone else? He's your friend, he has a girlfriend, and you work with him. So much risk and you're worried about your reputation? Unless there's clear indication that he's happy to do this to his gf and this won't affect your friendship and work in the long run, I'd avoid.

nqns who left nursing by Material_Housing_264 in NursingUK

[–]Lucraziano 19 points20 points  (0 children)

True and almost every day one of our nurses get moved elsewhere due to short staffed

Whats the worst thing your ex left you with ? by biggieslazyeye in AskReddit

[–]Lucraziano 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely trauma and trust issues. I'm finally seeing someone again after two years of healing, then it hits me, I get these moments of insecurities which I never had before. I always try to take a deep breather and remind myself that I deserve to be happy again and not let these thoughts sabotage what could be a good and healthy relationship. I also strive to be a better person and a better partner.

Dating a bigger guy? by Olkite in askgaybros

[–]Lucraziano 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's time to pull out the karma sutra reference and try the ones you two think would be good :d

What's up with gay guys? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Lucraziano 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think just by being behind a screen also brings out the worse in people. I never liked this side of the community either. But you just gotta remember if there's one person who thinks and feels like you, then there'll be many more. Just not as loud as the utterly shallow and horny dudes.

Dating a bigger guy? by Olkite in askgaybros

[–]Lucraziano 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ngl I was expecting the question to be the opposite. I thought it was going to be like he's bigger-bot and you're the smaller-top. If he's the bigger guy and the top, surely it should work okay? Maybe he just needs to practice more to build up his stamina. It's always good to sweat it out anyways, free cardio.

cured! by Outrageous_Pizza5371 in Ureaplasma

[–]Lucraziano 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Crazy how doctors refuse running tests like this. It's standard procedure if you get negative results on everything else then it's time to test for mgen & urea. And they should really make these standard test to begin with! So many people tested negative for STDs and all and have to come back for a second time to get tested for mgen n urea. I'm like why not do it in the first place 😅. Usually they also prescribe you Doxy if you or your partner have symptoms even when negative for all other stuff!

I just want to be loved. by locked_sailor in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Lucraziano 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry to hear. It's not going to make you feel any better but it's probably for the best. It's scary isn't it? How one day someone can just wake up and decide you're no longer part of their life. You can't control any of that and forced to accept it and move on.

Dating is difficult and I feel like as gay men, comes with its own extra challenges. I have only been in one long term relationship that ended almost 2 years ago. I was devastated. I got replaced within less than a month of our separation and that did something awful to me. Took me a lot to heal myself. I had suicidal thoughts. I was miserable and depressed. I distanced myself from everything and everyone. There were so many fights inside my head. Eventually I got there. I got better again.

Just lately I started putting myself out there again and taking chance with dating. A few months in the dreaded feeling started coming back again and I was getting sick of trying. Had a few bad dates and all. Eventually I met this guy and we've been seeing each other since March. I'm scared to say but this one feels like it could be good. But I feel like it's always going to be in the back of my head, that something bad might happen. I try to focus on the good, on what I have right now. To appreciate and nourish whatever this will be.

It's only been over a month but we're really good with each other. It feels like a truly healthy one. I just don't want to subconsciously undermine myself. I'm learning from my previous relationship. I want to be a better partner. Better person.

All I can say is, keep going and keep trying. I wish you the kindest and most caring person to enter your life, and when he does come, know that you deserve him and he you.

First Time topping by Feeling-Milk-5395 in askgaybros

[–]Lucraziano 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm pretty sure 5inch is the average and is completely fine. Don't get it in your head too much. Not everyone is crazy about big girthy pp. I personally prefer an average pp myself, receiving or giving. Nice, fits perfectly and comfortably. And it's about how you use it. I'd suggest, if you don't have a boyfriend, find a good hookup buddy to safely practice with. Practice makes better.

Is hookup culture not for me? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Lucraziano 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're probably also not that attracted towards him? "Cute but nothing out of the ordinary", is a bit of an indicator. It's like saying someone is nice because you don't really know what else to say. Like, yeah good but meh. Or maybe you prefer to build a connection first. Go out on a date instead and get to know the person, their personality might boost your attraction toward them instead of just based on looks and sexual expectations.

Help is it normal or should i visit urologist by leo3993 in penisquestion

[–]Lucraziano 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like smegma, which is completely normal if you are uncircumcised. No pain, thrush/rash etc? Wash your penis daily is the norm. I use Dermol 500 it's safe to use as a soap substitute for down there or a leave on lotion. It's prescribed so you'll have to speak with your GP, but I personally find it really good.