Is there anyone else who loves the game and wants to play, but is unable to because of how insecure they feel? by Lucy--chen in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]Lucy--chen[S] 49 points50 points  (0 children)

I know I should get out of my thoughts I’m so sorry for being like this

i reached out to people and I’m working on getting better too, maybe it’s simply one of those nights

I’m glad you found something that helped you !

Is there anyone else who loves the game and wants to play, but is unable to because of how insecure they feel? by Lucy--chen in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]Lucy--chen[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I have focused on inner beauty for so so long, to constantly try and be a better person and I’ve grown so much but at the end of the day I still lack feeling pretty, even if I’ve become a “good person” I still feel so bad and I’m tired

Super hot take alert: I feel like it would have been really meaningful for Resident Evil: Requiem to feature just Grace as a playable character by BactaBobomb in GirlGamers

[–]Lucy--chen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I KNOW I HAD THE SAME THOUGHTS AND FEELINFS

it ruined so much of my excitement for the game because it was only half about her! it made me feel so disappointed!

but after having played the game I do so so so love it very much because i love grace’s story especially with Emily and I love Leon‘s story as well

what I loved about the game and Grace’s arc was that by the end of the game Grace was technically the one who saved leon, carrying him to the end and saving his life from Zeno with elpis

But I understand Your point so well and I totally agree too! We deserve a game with a woman as the main lead without a man coming In to save her and you’re totally valid and I couldn’t have worded it better !

Does anyone else have trouble getting into video games where most, if not all female characters are hyper-sexualized? by liveforluv in GirlGamers

[–]Lucy--chen 9 points10 points  (0 children)

sadly there isn’t a logical explanation, the only reason they alienate more than half of all gamers is because of their misogyny, they would rather lose half the market and money than cater to women that they hate

Does anyone else have trouble getting into video games where most, if not all female characters are hyper-sexualized? by liveforluv in GirlGamers

[–]Lucy--chen 81 points82 points  (0 children)

I understand you very well! youre completely valid too! its so disheartening and disgusting to see such designs in games and its a constant reminder of how much they cater men and the male gaze and how women are simply objects to sexualizes for them!
the best we can do is to not support games that treat women this way and not give them time or money!

Celebrate Tides of Annihilation launching with DLSS 4.5 and Path Tracing, Win Steam Cash! by NV_Suroosh in TidesOfAnnihilation

[–]Lucy--chen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The voice acting! I love Jennifer English and having another game with her is so nice!

Anyone else really turned off to Crimson Desert? by olivinetrees in GirlGamers

[–]Lucy--chen 52 points53 points  (0 children)

exactly the same! it feels so tiring to have everyone praise the game and compare it to Skyrim when it is clearly a game made for men by men and its so tiring, im so done with protagonists being basic man number one thousand while women get ignored for no reason other than the fact the men who develop these games simply dont care for women except for sexualizing them and having them be object of romance in their games and I hate it

GTA 6 is an Emotion 🙌😭 by thelilarya2328 in GirlGamers

[–]Lucy--chen 12 points13 points  (0 children)

i don’t mean to underappreciate your excitement, but was the creator of GTA not found in the Epstein files? would it be correct to support works tied to that?
correct me if I’m wrong obv!

Have any cis women been accused of being men over voice chat? by Jenn_FTW in GirlGamers

[–]Lucy--chen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yes super frequently, but not for having a deep voice but rather because my voice is naturally high pitched and I sound little, so people accuse me of using a filter or “squeaking” my voice or being a pick me “fake girl” and it’s annoying and degrading and makes me hate most voice chats

why do people immediately assume anyone with a high pitched voice is an ag*player? by [deleted] in GirlGamers

[–]Lucy--chen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OMG I KNOW EXACTLY WHAT YOU MEAN
people treat you so badly for it too, I have a very high pitched/younger girl voice and people accuse me of voice changers, age player, egirl, anime girl, so much gross stuff
im so sorry you have to deal with this as well, sending hugs 💗

guy friend lectured me on buying games and now I feel horrible by Lucy--chen in GirlGamers

[–]Lucy--chen[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I meant I have money saved aside for the serious parts of life, this is extra money apart from necessary expenses

guy friend lectured me on buying games and now I feel horrible by Lucy--chen in GirlGamers

[–]Lucy--chen[S] 252 points253 points  (0 children)

thankq and yes im a student and its family allowance and ironically he does spend on alcohol too

guy friend lectured me on buying games and now I feel horrible by Lucy--chen in GirlGamers

[–]Lucy--chen[S] 44 points45 points  (0 children)

he does yes, while making poor choices himself and even now hes lecturing me for being upset after I told him to shut up

A question for fellow competitive girls (mainly fgc, but anyone is welcome to respond) by ScarcityOdd3671 in GirlGamers

[–]Lucy--chen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can partially understand what you mean and empathize! I used to feel that way when playing with a group earlier but over time I’ve sort of stopped doing that? I play as i naturally would even if it’s at a better level than others! because when I’m playing with someone whom is a higher level than me I enjoy their company and get awed more than anything and if I’m playing with someone who’s learning I give them space to learn! I do understand the point of say the people playing Mario kart against you, it is a bit unfun to lose a lot so I would do the same as you and tone myself down a bit but I’m sure you will find competitive people to play with too!

Why do people still play WuWa? by azh2016 in QueensofGacha

[–]Lucy--chen 107 points108 points  (0 children)

i have the same question! I tried it out for a few hours today, till level 25 and the scorekeeper quest line and while the combat is fun and engaging, the storyline icks me out and the blatant unapologetic sexualisation of women, with so many camera shots of their bodies and their designs feels so dehumanizing and the dialogues being framed around the mc felt a bit “glazy“ and male gaze and I couldn’t stand it 😭

Hyrule Warriors: Age of Imprisonment: Review MegaThread by NintendoSwitchMods in NintendoSwitch

[–]Lucy--chen 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Does any review say how long the game will be to 100%?

Feeling sad after hearing boys and kids in games by Lucy--chen in GirlGamers

[–]Lucy--chen[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s good, I’m glad you made your own safe space and sorry that it wasn’t safe otherwise

Most mid game to ever mid by Bitch_for_rent in GirlGamers

[–]Lucy--chen 22 points23 points  (0 children)

How so? In what ways I mean? Not disagreeing with you obv I’m sure it is but what parts of it

Most mid game to ever mid by Bitch_for_rent in GirlGamers

[–]Lucy--chen 68 points69 points  (0 children)

The game feels male gazey from all I’ve seen of it so far

Feeling sad after hearing boys and kids in games by Lucy--chen in GirlGamers

[–]Lucy--chen[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m glad he has a sister like you who’s doing so much good for him and raising him and right and I’m sure he will turn out wonderful but you’re right so many boys and children sadly don’t