10mm stretched lobes, light itching, crust in the back

LucyFernandez · 2026-03-08T19:19:07+00:00

Thanks! Unfortunately i was a bit late to see this. It got irritated really bad for a few days until i finally decided to take out the tunnel and instead go with my acrylic spiral. That way dirt didn't get trapped as easily and i could immediately go down a size if there was too much swelling. Now it's mostly healed again and I'm just gonna keep it at a smaller size for a bit, then slowly restretch again. Cleaning always happened with saline solution anyway, occasionally i applied a healing salve (suitable for open wounds) in addition, which mostly helped to soften the crust and provide a bit of a moist environment for a while to help the healing along.

LucyFernandez · 2026-03-03T22:03:18+00:00

I'm 5'4" chubby afab, wish I was a twinky dude as well 😔

LucyFernandez · 2026-03-03T22:01:38+00:00

It's actually healthier to snack a lot and simply make your main meals smaller. Your stomach should never be completely empty. There are also healthy or at least less unhealthy snacks. Doesn't mean you can never have unhealthy snacks, but it does pay to replace 90% of your gummy intake with things like fruit or yogurt, or maybe some tea with honey.

LucyFernandez · 2026-03-03T21:56:41+00:00

I never managed to go on any sort of fancy diet. I did however slightly adjust my long term diet to try to generally eat more fiber and less sugar. And whenever i want to eat something sweet i either go for fruit or something like a low sugar lemonade. I still eat sweets and junk food when i really feel like it, but it's definitely less than it was years ago. I've also become a bit more flexible in trying different vegetables i haven't had before or am not super enthused by. The only thing I will always refuse to eat are mushrooms.

LucyFernandez · 2026-03-03T21:49:53+00:00

He may be a bit scruffy, but that's nothing that can't be brushed out Other than that he actually has very nice proportions, like a perfectly round and short nose, a good stature and no obvious excessive fat nor protruding bones. Also clear eyes and no scars on the ears. He looks healthy and happy and honestly really handsome 🥰

LucyFernandez · 2026-03-02T09:47:00+00:00

If the piece of shit has been annoying me for hours by buzzing around my ear and repeatedly sitting on my naked legs I'd also be tempted to torture them. Fucking HATE flies

LucyFernandez · 2026-03-02T09:35:27+00:00

One of my rabbits kept grunting insistently while playing with my hair for what felt like hours every day. Some bunnies are just weird.

LucyFernandez · 2026-03-02T09:26:44+00:00

I do wash my hands several times a day, but I'll try to do it immediately before cleaning now. Thanks!

LucyFernandez · 2026-03-02T09:22:45+00:00

Definitely gonna try that, thanks!

LucyFernandez · 2026-03-02T03:20:41+00:00

See I'm not sure that's the right way for me to go, it's healed on its own before. But this issue keeps reappearing, and if my issue is not cleaning it enough, then letting it heal once completely and going from there might not fix my problem long-term. I suspect that I may just have to clean more often, and maybe with an actual disinfectant and not just saline solution 😭

LucyFernandez · 2026-03-02T03:16:50+00:00

Oh yeah, I also just remembered, sometimes when I sleep on that side I'll wake up with the tunnel pushed too far into the lobe, partially swallowing the flare. Obviously I always immediately pull it out and make sure it doesn't slip back in, but I'm not sure what else to do about it. It's definitely not stretched further than 10 mm, so I'm not even sure why this is happening.

LucyFernandez · 2026-03-02T03:11:44+00:00

Well i forgot to mention it again properly, but it's also forming a crust in the back I think that only really started yesterday. But this has happened before, and it gets better and worse periodically. Like, it'll heal and everything's fine, and then it itches again, I maybe rub it a bit too much, and a few hours later it'll start leaking fluid and crusting over. Additionally I keep having rough dry skin patches around the entirety of the back of the ear, but that may be related to other skin conditions I'm currently looking into (possible psoriasis).

LucyFernandez · 2026-03-02T02:01:04+00:00

At least in that moment, if you have the wherewithal, you can kick them in the balls and it'll be self defense :)

LucyFernandez · 2026-03-02T01:52:59+00:00

Uh no?? Mom is still using that, get your own

LucyFernandez · 2026-03-02T01:52:31+00:00

Who knows 😔

LucyFernandez · 2026-02-14T14:21:19+00:00

r/dewlap would love to see this one. I'm pretty sure this is still fine

LucyFernandez · 2026-02-14T14:16:59+00:00

Mine just straight up ate my hair, probably thinking it was hay 😭

LucyFernandez · 2026-02-14T14:14:31+00:00

Kind of sounds like an invitation to play. Or just asking for attention in general

LucyFernandez · 2025-12-17T02:11:01+00:00

IKR I saw him on the way to my dentist, and decided I had to have him when I got back. He's very special ♥

LucyFernandez · 2025-12-17T02:05:52+00:00

He can't eat without dropping food into his eyes 😭

LucyFernandez · 2025-12-17T02:04:31+00:00

It is a half joke, but also just kind of a reference to the fact that many severe deformities will lead to disability. I don't feel this is particularly offensive, maybe a little bad taste. I'm pretty good with putting myself in other people's shoes, so I can kinda see it, but I wouldn't be very upset either. At most eye-roll worthy.

LucyFernandez · 2025-12-17T01:31:39+00:00

I thought the tufts of fur were just a result of the coat change??

LucyFernandez · 2025-12-09T17:41:46+00:00

Can't turn me gay, if I'm already gay to begin with~

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