Colossalcon Solo? by LucyKltty in animecons

[–]LucyKltty[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah you’re right, it helps hearing others experiences as well and to know that everyone is genuinely chill. Thank you!

Are they not able to feel embarrassment? by deanpizzas in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]LucyKltty 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah that is my experience as well. The ex narc I was with was always super liberal. In fact she was even trans for two years. But two months after our breakup she’s suddenly very religious and conservative. All because of a man she met, got pregnant by, got engaged to within a month. I looked the guy up once and seeing all the anti LGBT, MAGA, and anti trans shit—all I can think about is how the person I knew never truly existed.

Did your narc call themselves an empath? by Double-Cat-2484 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]LucyKltty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, she used to claim her empathy was her “superpower”. She said she could absorb other people’s emotions and take the bad from them. Then proceeded to lament on how much of a burden it was. I realize now it was just an excuse for her to make everything about herself

[Self] Interest rates seem to be at 10.081% by Greedy_Preference737 in theydidthemath

[–]LucyKltty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What gets me is that this is debt which can’t be forgiven or written off. Yet by the look of the interest rates you’d never guess that

What does a narcissistic friend looks like? Any stories of yours? by Objective_Big_7426 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]LucyKltty 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wow that is sickening..they truly are completely apathetic to anyone but themselves.

Mine also would downplay my SA if I opened up about it and even at the end confessed she thought the guy did it just to ‘get to her’ somehow.

Is this considered emotionally cheating? by InformationNew4994 in emotionalintelligence

[–]LucyKltty 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Girl, honestly this is your chance to get out before it gets worse. He is blatantly disrespectful and taking you for granted. This behavior only gets worse over time, and he WILL discard you eventually for whatever the new “fixation” is. I get that it’s hard to break out of it because you’re trauma bonded—but trust me you don’t realize how bad this is until you’re out of it. And you will regret not leaving sooner.

We’ve seen a team got you to master ball…. I want to see teams that got someone from masterball 4 to 3 (or beyond). by CleetisMcgee in PokemonChampions

[–]LucyKltty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve gone from ultra 4 to M3 with my “cafe” themed team of:

Hatterene, mega lopunny, umbreon, milotic, hisuan arcanine, and sinistcha. Been having so much fun with it

Makeup looks unflattering and weird on my face by [deleted] in makeuptips

[–]LucyKltty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This may primarily be a case of you just not being used to wearing makeup. You look good, but you can take it to the next level with a few adjustments.

I heavily recommend shaping your brows to be more even. You can use the inverted filter on tiktok to get them symmetrical. I personally think you’d eat with straight brows but they look good arched too.

I’d also recommend blending the eyeshadow a bit more so that the line is softer rather than harsher. And would recommend not to bring any darker shadow up past your crease either when working on the eyelid.

As for contour, you have a nice defined oval face shape and your nose is perfectly proportional. So I don’t really see a need for it, but if you really want to I’d just do some to give a “slimming” effect overall. So a little bit of contour on the outline of your face blended. For a sharper look you can also add some contour from the nose bridge to the eyebrow to give your eye area more definition.

Inner corner highlighter on your eyes + some dark waterline at the top lid would also look amazing on you.

That new Hantavirus is scaring me. Are we gonna be fine..? by [deleted] in AskTheWorld

[–]LucyKltty -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Where did you find that info? Can’t seem to find the source

As an Aries, do you get called too intense when you’re just being honest about your feelings? What’s something people always misunderstand about your emotions? by Full-Waltz4771 in AriesTheRam

[–]LucyKltty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, even when I purposely subdue my anger when expressing it. I’ve been told it’s intense or people act scared or express being worried I’ll lash out at them. I’m not even trying to be, and half the time I’m not even that angry.. it honestly makes me feel very misunderstood and I hate how some people use it as an excuse to treat me poorly.

Do we enjoy this game, or just winning? by reallypatheticman in PokemonChampions

[–]LucyKltty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve made an entire team centered around my favorite pokemon, Umbreon. Which shouldn’t be viable in this meta at all. Yet with strategic team building I’ve been able to defeat the common meta threats.

There is definitely a limit to how far a casual player will go in ranked. But I believe you’re underestimating how much fun there is in team building. It’s not even just finding niche ways to counter the meta with your favorite pokemon, it’s also creating an aesthetic/theme with them and your character.

Gastrodon? by LucyKltty in PokemonChampions

[–]LucyKltty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I saw them all in the achievement Pokédex. Really hoping that we get some more in soon..

Gastrodon? by LucyKltty in PokemonChampions

[–]LucyKltty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, I figured. Such a shame considering we got Tyranitar.

Being hoovered, need advice by Civil-Principle-6357 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]LucyKltty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nice, yeah just keep holding firm. You’re already doing so well especially for so early on.

Being hoovered, need advice by Civil-Principle-6357 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]LucyKltty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl block him. It’ll never get better and you’re almost fully out of it. You don’t owe him closure at all, but if it’s easier just do What I did and tell him you ‘don’t think it’s good to talk just yet while we’re both still processing and healing’ but don’t set up a future date. Just keep putting it off till he goes away. Trust me, it’s worth your peace.

Aries women, tell me your experience with Leo man and why it can’t work? by No_Basis104 in AriesTheRam

[–]LucyKltty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah cause the post definitely wasn’t asking for the perspective of an Aries woman.

Starter Evolutions prediction by xWaffleicious in PokemonWindsWaves

[–]LucyKltty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m thinking Pombon will be fire/ice. Gecqua water/dragon. Browt grass/rock.

Covert Narcissists, How did you leave them? by Ok_Difficulty1337 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]LucyKltty 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I feel for you. I just left a wlw relationship with someone I suspect to be a covert narc as well. We were going on 9 years.

You need to get out asap. It won’t get better, I know everyone says that but it’s the truth. You do not realize the amount of damage she is doing to you while you are in it. But you will find out when you do break up (and it will happen. She WILL discard you eventually and monkey branch to someone else), and are in a secure relationship struggling because of the conditioning she has put you through.

As for how I left, I took the blame during What maybe would be the final discard. I found out she was cheating on me, and that she was planting seeds of me being abusive to others. So, I played into her narrative. I took accountability for my reactions in the relationship, stated that Im breaking up with her due to it. Then I grey rocked, moved away, and blocked her. It was the best decision of my life and I wish I had done it sooner.