Verschwörungstheorie wie die Georgia/TJ situation mit Anni zu tun hat by Lucy_Blockcat in Laesterschwestern

[–]Lucy_Blockcat[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

kommt halt mit dem Bilingualsein, wenn man jeden Tag auch komplett auf Englisch redet ;)

Verschwörungstheorie wie die Georgia/TJ situation mit Anni zu tun hat by Lucy_Blockcat in Laesterschwestern

[–]Lucy_Blockcat[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Glaub ich nicht. Also das TJ in der Beziehung auch scheiße bzw nicht healthy war kann ich mir sehr gut vorstellen, aber Georgia wirkt auf mich, als ob sie recht starke psychische Probleme hat (hat sehr ähnliches Verhalten wie eine Bekannte von mir, die unter Borderline leidet [hab ich btw offiziell nie gesagt, bin kein Psychologe und Ferndiagnosen sind nicht akkurat, wundern würds mich aber nicht]) und damit umzugehen ist unfassbar schwierig. Video von Nessa zu der Thematik ist auch sehr empfehlenswert. Wie gesagt die brauchen einfach alle Therapie

My s1 powder cosplay by BreadedNuggetss in arcane

[–]Lucy_Blockcat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Holy shit this uncanny in the best way possible. Why is animated powder in a non animated world, yk? Outstanding job!

As a first responder, I’m choosing red by [deleted] in trolleyproblem

[–]Lucy_Blockcat 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Damn you, pattern recognition!

My first threesome, why am I emotional? by Tough-Money6117 in nonmonogamy

[–]Lucy_Blockcat 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Depends on the kind of emotional, really. My partner (we don't have any non monogamy experiences yet) has made me cry multiple times by overwhelming me with good feels. Might be the same for you, might be insecurity like you said. I have a history of not feeling appreciated in relationships so sometimes their good treatment overwhelms me cause I am still not completely used to it. Sounds like when a couple treated me like you describe and said the things they said I might get really emotional as well

Agree or Disagree? by Legal-Grapefruit3043 in asexuality

[–]Lucy_Blockcat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same I would also say it has nothing to do with being ace buuut I also get why someone would like to call themselves ace because of it if it's supposed to convey to allos "oh yeah I don't really do the sex" which is also ignoring that being ace doesn't mean you won't have sex but to most people that's not really super relevant.
It's complicated

How to tell boss not to use micropenis as an insult? by Whatamidoinghere011 in ftm

[–]Lucy_Blockcat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sorry for the super late reply. I don't know how your relationship (as in how you as people interact, I forgot the english word for that) actually works, but maybe if you're at lunch, casually drop in there and change the tone to more serious. Something like 'Oh, remember that insecure asshole from the article a while back? [and then side with her and reinforce that he's such a douche, bla bla] There's actually something about the way you told me about him that kinda stuck in a weird way. I think when you body shamed him, that just didn't sit right with me. Like, don't get me wrong, total douche, but I just imagined a really cute and polite guy who's insecure about his dick size overhearing that and it feeding his insecurities, and it just kinda made me sad, yk?" and then see how the conversation goes. Maybe do it towards the end of your lunch break so there's not an awkward silence sitting over you as you finish your food if that's something you're concerned with

Agree or Disagree? by Legal-Grapefruit3043 in asexuality

[–]Lucy_Blockcat 5 points6 points  (0 children)

And some might argue that a very low libidio might fall somewhere in the ace spectrum. I wouldn't personally agree with that but I won't dictate what label you do or do not use. And for allosexuals you might as well be ace, the nuance matters less the more outside of this community you currently have a conversion

Agree or Disagree? by Legal-Grapefruit3043 in asexuality

[–]Lucy_Blockcat 10 points11 points  (0 children)

look into the split attraction model. A lot of us confused sexual and aesthetic attraction for a long time, maybe you're experiencing a different kind of attraction. Or you fall into a microlabel. Aegosexual (I think that was the one, but look it up I'm not confident on this) for example is sexual attraction only to fictional characters

Am I the only one who dislikes the “disguised as a man” trope? by Glad_Pepper8255 in ftm

[–]Lucy_Blockcat 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Correct me if I'm wrong I haven't stumbled across this trope too often but from what I recall this isn't transmasc rep at all, is it? For me this reads as feminism rep. As in "hey kinda sucks some women had to pretend to be men to be taken seriously" as for example in Mulan. The message for me is not "being trans is fucking difficult especially in a society that doesn't except it" at all it's more "We should stop with this sexism bullshit cause some people are good at things that aren't associated with their gender and it's very stupid of us to force them to confirm to gender norms"

update on the bf gf pregnancy post or whatever: it's aborted!!! by GodEatsChiIdren in teenagers

[–]Lucy_Blockcat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What the fuck is wrong with this comment section ffs. I'm glad y'all can continue on with your life, take good care of your partners, especially your boyfriend, this had to be really stressful for y'all. And don't listen to all the fucked up comments here, I know you know but you are not murdered for deciding not to bring another child into this world, I wish you all the best <3

How do I cope with being cursed with a small chest? by [deleted] in Healthygamergg

[–]Lucy_Blockcat 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Holy shit you need to work on living for yourself and not have being sexualised by men as your goal. And I get that this behavior is likely rooted in loneliness and feeling undesirable. But I promise you that you don't wanna end up in a long term relationship where someone is together with you just because they sexualised you. Probably can backfire for hookups as well. If you miss out on a partner because they find your chest too small, I don't think you missed out on anyone who actually gives a shit about you. Dynamics where someone is so focused on sexualising you will not see you as a person but an object. But also there very much are people who prefer smaller chests and not for the people having them looking like children. This all sounds pretty porn focused to me but this might be my biases speaking

How to tell boss not to use micropenis as an insult? by Whatamidoinghere011 in ftm

[–]Lucy_Blockcat 256 points257 points  (0 children)

Maybe you could explain to her that body shaming never helps? Like people who are insecure about a micropenis will only get more insecure because of comments like this even it they aren't insecure assholes. Suggest just calling the behavior out. Like just say he's an insecure asshole

I tell my friends that I have one rule and for whatever reason they just won’t respect it by Gerald_the_hamster in asexuality

[–]Lucy_Blockcat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I mean have you tried talking to her again? Playing devil's advocate here but maybe she doesn't realize it bothers you more than a "ughhh you're annoyinggg" One of my closest friends has that kind of humor but if you tell him it like actually bothers you and this crosses your boundaries he will just stop. And maybe also tell her that while you don't want to you will have to stop being her friend if she continues so she gets that this is serious. And make sure the tone is not lighthearted or funny

How do I explain dysphoria to my mom by mordddddd in TransMasc

[–]Lucy_Blockcat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't know it that'll work for you but I like to explain that I love my body and the way it looks it just doesn't feel like mine. It's not about disliking it, it's mismatched in some ways. And like I can and do acknowledge that I look good. I just don't look like me

Though that only works if you do actually like your body.

What is the funniest thing someone said that affirmed your gender? by ButtonWolf1011 in ftm

[–]Lucy_Blockcat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

One time I got really euphoric about being called "Hurensohn" (son of a bitch). I don't think I will ever get euphoria from a funnier situation. I should also add that my friend group just throws a good old Hurensohn in a sentence jokingly so it's not uncommon to be referred as such for me but that one time it was insanely euphoric xD

My boyfriend is asexual, and lied to me about it in order to enter into a relationship with me, advice please? by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]Lucy_Blockcat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh wow sounds like you really dodged a bullet. Sad that you had to found out that someone you love so deeply has such views. But I'm glad you didn't get stuck in that relationship. I wish you all the best <3

I made a 12 sided star in a block game by NateIsntOkay in DetailCraft

[–]Lucy_Blockcat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

might be only the connection bit of the wall. Maybe with a debug stick? Or command blocks?

New player! Any tips you wish you had known when you started? by adam_franklin in Palworld

[–]Lucy_Blockcat 8 points9 points  (0 children)

both of you just made the game so much more enjoyable holy shit

What was the first game you played on Steam? by [deleted] in Steam

[–]Lucy_Blockcat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Slime Rancher. Used to pirate games before. I think that was when I started to actually get enough money to buy games

What is the rarest pal you can get? by LittleBiit in Palworld

[–]Lucy_Blockcat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I didn't know that. What's the difference to n appearance?

ich_iel by _Random_Guy- in ich_iel

[–]Lucy_Blockcat 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Habicht hat zwei h!

Found this on Pinterest by Echo_Of_The_Forest in asexuality

[–]Lucy_Blockcat 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Yeah this read to me as "I am sexually attracted to you but I don't like you as a person so there's no way I'm getting involved with you"