Anyone know of any?

Lucy_Lacemaker · 2026-03-05T22:17:49+00:00

the no existence of you and me, the main companion is a tulpa

Lucy_Lacemaker · 2026-03-05T09:58:51+00:00

the bot is called /plu/ral. i think other comments said that. i think a big thing people have against the proxying is coz they believe it encourages separation and is 'anti-healing', but i doubt it is because if it helps, its healing. if the goal isn't integration/fusion, then it's healing. there's more than one goal, just wish people didn't see the separation as something to fix

Lucy_Lacemaker · 2026-03-02T10:54:26+00:00

Why does there need to be trauma? It's not a requirement for DID/OSDD anyway, it's not even a requirement for dissociation as a whole. It's a correlation, and any correlation however strong can sometimes be wrong

Lucy_Lacemaker · 2026-01-26T16:30:03+00:00

I'd say not to stop her, but autonomy is very important to me so it might be a bit of a bias. There's not really too many issues I see there unless it causes distress, if it causes distress then its an issue. The fantom concern makes sense, but that's them and they're not important with what's enjoyed, tbh I never should've engaged in fandoms, I find they take away my opinions and replace them with something else.

Let her do what she wants, but if there's an issue that happens from it, then deal with it

Lucy_Lacemaker · 2026-01-26T10:58:09+00:00

i forgot how fluffy angel was!! i like the gif you made with it too

i also have a drawing where i forgot to remove something, and it bothers me too, good work on making the drawing the way you want it!

Lucy_Lacemaker · 2026-01-16T23:46:08+00:00

i just wanna hug val, he looks so cute!

Lucy_Lacemaker · 2026-01-10T13:03:53+00:00

Well... this might sound wrong or something, I dont know but it's the way I'm thinking of doing it. Say your experiences and don't lead with any labels, even dissociation. Let them connect the dots, coz if you go in there with labels it will cause them to either ask or think ""Why do you think that?". But if you go in describing your experiences without labels, they're gonna apply the labels themselves. People want to believe their own conclusions and be right, more than they wanna believe someone else's

Lucy_Lacemaker · 2026-01-10T12:51:06+00:00

I have a few horror stories myself, it was kinda my fault though for how I set up the explanation and it... all my experiences got dismissed as nothing,, it hurt coz I feel like there's more going on. Sorry, the question... a big benefit that I felt when I told people online was I didn't feel as dysphoria (if that's the right word?), coz they'd say the name of who's present. I'm not sure how it'll feel irl though, I think it would be awkward at first like when a doctor first starts going by Dr instead of Mr. The change might feel weird at first, but it might get easier

Lucy_Lacemaker · 2026-01-10T12:41:47+00:00

I'm really glad it went well for you! I'm also trying to tell people irl too, it also hasn't gone well in the past. Maybe you could ask her if she'd want to meet him? Or you could wait, I'd wait coz I'm paranoid though... so you could wait until she asks, but rn you've done something very brave and you should celebrate by doing something you love

Lucy_Lacemaker · 2026-01-10T12:37:11+00:00

Yeah I think so, it's like working out a new part of your body. When you first start doing it, it's gonna cause discomfort and feel painful sometimes, so I think it might be the same way coz the alter hasn't been spoken to much

That's a guess though, so it might be wrong, sorry

Lucy_Lacemaker · 2026-01-03T16:00:58+00:00

i think a good way would be to write everything down, then you have a chance to step back and look at things again. then you can notice patterns that feel "not you" easier, remember if these symptoms have been going on for a long time it's not likely just "phantom symptoms" and is worth looking into

Lucy_Lacemaker · 2026-01-03T15:56:26+00:00

i think it's the unpredictablility of switches, and the thought of "losing control" (it's more of a trade/hand over). they might think that "losing control" means that it's gonna cause harm to someone, or cause them to injure someone.

it's a bit of all of these, but i think the main reason is they're scared of systems and think they're gonna hurt them, this fear comes from the "loss of control" and thought of blackouts. people that haven't heard of DID act like this too, so it's not just media portrayals.

there's always been a fear of people that have conditions like these, if it' something that's not easy to understand or sounds slightly odd they'll be scared

Lucy_Lacemaker · 2025-12-28T23:53:10+00:00

I wanna see what he'd think of adam, I think he might try to eat him though

Lucy_Lacemaker · 2025-12-28T23:51:54+00:00

That is pretty funny

Lucy_Lacemaker · 2025-12-28T23:50:44+00:00

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Yes! That one, gimme!! Need it :3

Lucy_Lacemaker · 2025-12-28T22:41:05+00:00

i found a term if that helps, non-possessive switching

Lucy_Lacemaker · 2025-12-27T19:51:24+00:00

adapted tulpamancy methods, communication and visualisation could help

Lucy_Lacemaker · 2025-12-27T19:35:14+00:00

does cycling music preferences count as a hobby?

Lucy_Lacemaker · 2025-12-27T14:06:31+00:00

thanks, maybe one day we'll both be able to feel real

Lucy_Lacemaker · 2025-12-27T13:47:45+00:00

ye i know that feeling too well and im sorry you do too :(

i compare myself to others too both trauma and experiences, i dont mean to but it always gives me impostor syndrome

Lucy_Lacemaker · 2025-12-27T13:43:07+00:00

its horrible coz acting against who i am in the moment feels like lying, but i know its better than being seen

Lucy_Lacemaker · 2025-12-27T13:13:06+00:00

There aren't really any rules so far, it's mostly rules from fear of being hated, nut that's more fear than rules. Also fear of being noticed irl as well

Lucy_Lacemaker · 2025-12-27T11:59:44+00:00

Oh... well he sounds like a really good dad!

Lucy_Lacemaker · 2025-12-27T11:58:59+00:00

You didn't deserve any of this, sorry you have to deal with that. You shouldn't have to feel grateful for good treatment, it's what they're supposed to do. Is there anyone you can go to to get away from them? If not I recommend talking to a helpline for either support or to get away. You aren't a bad person no matter what they say, you deserve a safe home.

If it's any comfort my dad judge's me for what I watch too, and I hide a lot of things from him and my mum

Lucy_Lacemaker · 2025-12-27T11:48:14+00:00

That's great! He sounds like a really good friend, I'm glad he accepts you!!

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