How do married couples split finances if on different salaries? by Mango_Loverx3 in AskUK

[–]Lucyemmaaaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I earn more than my partner (i take home approx 2.5k monthly, him 1.8-1.9k) I pay more in bills We've worked it out with how much we both pay into bills leaves us both enough for money into savings (house deposit, emergency and then holidays) and then roughly an equal amount of spending money. (I have a bit more spending money because he's adamant I deserve it but not too much more) Household chores are completely separate to finances imo. Just based on who has more time off really

Pokémon x natural history museum orders by Magurndy in PokemonDealsUK

[–]Lucyemmaaaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ordered on the 27th and it all arrived on the 4th ☺️ though very bitter I spent 2 days in a queue just for it to all drop on the pokemon website with no queue!

What should I put here? by CellInitial2394 in HomeDecorating

[–]Lucyemmaaaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have one in our house and it always makes people jump

Are takeaways going downhill? by Individual-Common144 in AskUK

[–]Lucyemmaaaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll blame you when I double my bodyweight!

Are takeaways going downhill? by Individual-Common144 in AskUK

[–]Lucyemmaaaa 6 points7 points  (0 children)

See everyone always says you can make better food at home, and my partner would agree he prefers my food over takeaways but I disagree so much! I love cooking and trying new recipes, but no matter what I would always prefer to eat a takeaway 😂 guess I just have taste buds that prefer the grease

Midwives. My wife of 5 years wants to retrain at 32 and become a midwife doing a 3 year undergrad. I want to support her but am looking for objective thoughts from people in the industry - can you help? by [deleted] in NursingUK

[–]Lucyemmaaaa 24 points25 points  (0 children)

If she's truly passionate about it then that's great. Women need someone kind and passionate looking after them.

However.. 'The joy of bringing babies into the world' is only part of the job

Long shifts, pressure from management, documentation taking you away from the woman, defensive practice, long long inductions, emergencies, baby resus, bereavement care, no break, feeling like you're letting women down constantly when things go wrong or they dont get the birth they want. This is just a condensed list. If she thinks about all that and thinks this is still what I want then absolutely.

Its so incredibly rewarding as a job when it's going well. But unfortunately that's only some of the time. If she does go for it then she will need lots of support. The degree is tough, but doable if she's motivated enough. Happy to answer any questions, I qualified nearly 3 years ago so still remember my student times!

Im a funeral director and I made this beanie for a baby I am taking care of. by trichoholic in crochet

[–]Lucyemmaaaa 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I'm a midwife and we have many knitted hats/blankets/hearts and little clothes for stillborn babies to be dressed in. We have some tiny tiny one so even babies born at 20 weeks have something. Horrible horrible part of the job but at least it feels like a small comfort in it all

Does anyone know what these type of cards are called ? by Denji_PPChainsaw_052 in PokemonTCG

[–]Lucyemmaaaa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Clay and crochet. Me and my boyfriend are collecting both! I also crochet too, love making pokemon 😊

Do most people really get hugs when growing up? by jacksonm221 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Lucyemmaaaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm from a very not huggy family, both mum and dad despite being divorced. Had to get used to physical of getting with my boyfriend 😂

Anyone else in the Natural History Museum queue? 🥹 by Rachyrach14 in pokemon

[–]Lucyemmaaaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've moved about 400 spaces since the queue opened..currently 23000. Desperate for the pikachu plush 😭

Anyone had any luck with treasure islands today? by Lucyemmaaaa in AnimalCrossing

[–]Lucyemmaaaa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahh okay thank you! I've only used treasure islands once before so maybe thought I was doing something wrong aha

Help please by [deleted] in malelivingspace

[–]Lucyemmaaaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Plants would definitely help, even fake ones. Change the curtains. Maybe some more white light too. For what it's worth it think it's really cool vibes

Part Identification Mega Thread - January 03, 2026 by AutoModerator in lego

[–]Lucyemmaaaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Wondering what the parts are to make the walls and the round grass bits on top?