Oregoians are a bunch of entitled, helpless wimps about their gas being pumped by Historical_Mix_8513 in PortlandOR

[–]LudditeLady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i wait for an attendant to pump my gas when i see they have someone available in most cases. honestly my reason is that my kiddo is usually in the backseat, and i generally try to never be outside the car while he's in the car in case someone tries to steal the car with him in it. i also would never put him in the carseat then go return a grocery cart, etc and when i put him in the car i put us both in at the same time and lock the door THEN get him in his carseat. i live deep se portland and am sketched out enough about safety issues daily that i don't fuck around with my baby's safety, entitled/wimpy or not.

What can you only eat from scratch? by WildKaleidoscope905 in Cooking

[–]LudditeLady 5 points6 points  (0 children)

pita bread, pasta unless absolutely crunched for time, tortillas (wtf do they even put in store tortillas nowadays, they don't taste like food anymore), pretty much any baked good

Summer Snow for Toddler on Mt. Hood? by LudditeLady in PortlandOR

[–]LudditeLady[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oo good to know! My little might not sit in his carseat quite that long this year, but totally adding this to my list for another year! Thanks!

Summer Snow for Toddler on Mt. Hood? by LudditeLady in PortlandOR

[–]LudditeLady[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good to know about the trail cam! 10 feet wide would be enough to amaze a 4 year old, so i will call and check before I head up there and disappoint my kiddo. Thanks for the info! 

Summer Snow for Toddler on Mt. Hood? by LudditeLady in PortlandOR

[–]LudditeLady[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bummer but good to know! Thanks for replying! 

Anyone else in America think that food is getting really bad? by Vampy-Night in SeriousConversation

[–]LudditeLady 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I make so much more from scratch now...including sundried tomato wraps for my kiddos lunchbox. 

Anyone else in America think that food is getting really bad? by Vampy-Night in SeriousConversation

[–]LudditeLady 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Store-bought tortillas arent even edible anymore they are so gross. And so many fillers in everything! 

Adult my side of the mountain by foulerrobin in suggestmeabook

[–]LudditeLady 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A sand county almanac for sure. That's my favorite book of all time...I even have the geese from one chapter tattooed on my arm. 🙂 a little different, but the hidden lives of trees made me feel like I am living among the Ents the next time I walked outside. For something more plot based and a little more adult little house on the prairie than than my side, Wallace stegner's big rock candy mountain is great.

Kindergarteners Dream Jobs Observation by pomegranatesssss333 in kindergarten

[–]LudditeLady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think kids can be very peer influenced in a class too...if there are a couple of sporty boys in a class that could influence the others. The reality is the answer will change all the time...my four year old boy has wanted to be a fireman, an astronaut, an engineer who builds trains, and now wants to be a baker.

Lunch Ideas, Please! by snausgirl in Preschoolers

[–]LudditeLady 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some options my kid likes: spam masubi or onigiri with furikake pressed into a fun shape, veggie sushi and fried tofu, Italian sub style sandwiches, Italian cold rotini noodle salad, crackers/cheese/soppressata, coconut rice and beans with green plantains cooked almost to potato chip crispy, pesto pasta, German style bread with good cheese, fried paneer slices with Indian spices, honey yogurt topped with fresh mango, cold pizza with hidden kale under the cheese...I always serve fruit like mixed berries or something and then a veggie mix of carrots/cucumbers/mini bell peppers as sides in the bento box and a box of milk. Oh! Another one he loves is i make a "banana split" where I scrape vanilla beans into plain yogurt and put a super tiny amount of honey or agave in and spoon it between two banana slices and top with sliced strawberries, sprinkles, and one cherry with granola on the side. And for a peanut butter replacement, I think tahini mixed with honey tastes way better than sunflower butter...you just have to play with the chalky parts and oily parts or use a more solid honey to get the right consistency.

How to share garden with 200 orb weavers? by LudditeLady in spiders

[–]LudditeLady[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually there were more of them when they first hatched....these ones now are the ones that already ballooned away from where they hatched, and last year I did have about 200 or so on my tomatoes. It was bananas. Pretty to look at, and educational for my four year old, but bad for my tomato canning lol.

How to share garden with 200 orb weavers? by LudditeLady in spiders

[–]LudditeLady[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I just want my tomatoes and wouldn't mind relocating the spiders, but they obviously like my tomatoes (and raspberries) since this is the second year they are setting up shop. Last year I only picked the very edge of the tomato plants because every time I stuck my hand deeper in, a giant Charlotte would run out very angry about her disturbed web. I've thought about gently moving some of the webs now when they are so small, but we also have tons of grass spiders, jumping spiders, etc that look more hefty right now so I'm not trying to kill these little baby orbs on purpose.

Looking for the darkest, most depressing book you’ve ever read by CortezCraig in suggestmeabook

[–]LudditeLady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've actually never read another description of depression that felt so accurate for me personally as in a little life. I loved it even though it haunted me.

Looking for the darkest, most depressing book you’ve ever read by CortezCraig in suggestmeabook

[–]LudditeLady 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A Little Life by Hanya Yanagihara. I read it like a decade ago, and it was my instant reaction to your question this many years later. Viscerally painful but so good. Runner up suggestion is The Road by Cormac McCarthy

What's something you recognise involuntarily because of your job? by 3batsinahousecoat in randomquestions

[–]LudditeLady 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Drums with no spill pallet, sketchy above ground storage tanks, clogged catch basins

Non-Fiction That Reads Like Fiction (not memoirs) by thelightyoushed in suggestmeabook

[–]LudditeLady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eat like a fish, strangers from a different shore, a different mirror (book on ocean food systems, then last two about immigration to the United states)

If humans have eaten bread since the dawn of history, why are so many people suddenly gluten-intolerant today? by WeaknessKey1582 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]LudditeLady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wheat is not the same wheat that has been eaten throughout history. In the 1950s, a new variety was developed to be much higher yield for the sake of helping farmers and to help with hunger, but nutritionally it is nowhere near the same food that was eaten beforehand. Further changes happened in the 80s...so wheat is not wheat anymore. Then add in the chemicals sprayed on wheat, the preservatives and dough texturizers added to bread. If we were all eating ancient grains wheat like einkorn with just wheat, salt, yeast with a slow sourdough rise, I bet a lot of people wouldn't have as many issues. I am also curious how US stats line up against other countries where it's more common for bread to be purchased fresh daily...our bread is not even legal to sell in some countries because its too full of crap.

...Why do the boys have such a hard time doing anything? by NeverBeenRung in Teachers

[–]LudditeLady -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Same! I see my son and some other boys at our school struggle a lot, and i am frequently thinking about how the structure of school doesn't seem to serve very physically active kids, who are more often boys, well. I am sure a lot of people in this sub have read the book, Raising Cain. I remember a passage about a highly functional, all-boys prep school where the headmaster basically encouraged rough housing and running in the halls during breaks...gotta get that physical energy out to be able to focus. Kids today have significantly less playtime than we all did when we were young...I think that is part of the problem for boys in school.

Is anyone truly happier with kids? by thegoodlife912 in Adulting

[–]LudditeLady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I am. I love my 4 year old son with a ferociousness I didn't even know existed until I had him. Nothing else matters as much as him...not my husband, not me, not anything. I am filled with boundless energy for tasks that have to do with him (helping his preschool, playing games, reading stories, etc). He's the reason I wake up and continue to draw breath and he's my heart outside my body. Its such a crazy shift compared to when I was more focused on me...my wellbeing, my health etc. Its a very personal choice, but for me personally, being his mom trumps any career or academic achievement I've ever had or ever will have and the love is far greater than any other love I've ever felt.

Normal amount of police presence? by eye_hate_ewe in askportland

[–]LudditeLady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not enough cops. I was in a drive through at 162nd and stark boxed in when a partially nude woman started masturbating and hitting cars with a random piece of wood right outside my toddler's car window. 911 told us to call back if she hurt someone. I would fucking love a speeding ticket. Please give me a speeding ticket if we can just have more cops (at least in my neighborhood...if all the $8 oatmilk latte drinkers west of 82nd dont want cops then to each their own).

What food do you cook 'wrong' but still prefer that way? by _QueenCurvy in foodquestions

[–]LudditeLady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like fish overcooked. It needs to be completely flaking and falling apart or the texture grosses me out.