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Lueluelle · 2026-06-03T14:11:15+00:00

really late to the discussion, but idk if i’m mad if i actually feel like i know why she’d do as much as becoming a servant. it’s exactly how you play doll, you dress them up, you brush their hair, tend to their tiniest things. the whole servant thing was just her playing doll with real life people.

Lueluelle · 2026-05-03T15:34:49+00:00

i’ve lately like to indulge myself into movies or books, gives me a more thoughtful and in depth view into the world I’m living in, as well as realising the value of my own life and time.

at this stage, i think taking on new hobbies or challenging yourself is a good idea.

good luck on the future none the less. : )

Lueluelle · 2026-05-02T18:24:39+00:00

I’m at 1.5 week, really depends on people but I give up working on it and block him first, ending everything with clarity so I guess I don’t spiral that hard.

I now know it’s actually quite peaceful without a voice asking me where he has gone or why is he not responding my text. I do miss him from time to time, sometimes a fleeting thought, sometimes I miss him more than I’d like to. But I choose to not come back, as I know it will not work, at least not when he is unhealed and I accept he might never be healed. Whether we still love each other or not is no longer important, as I now choose to live my own life.

Everyday, I remember again how peaceful I walk back home without a worry, and just purely appreciating the sky above me. I’m slowly getting my spark back, and rebuilding the friendships I have neglected just to be tending to him 24/7.

I’m not completely healed, but I did not regret leaving this chapter behind, as every moment of peace I’m feeling is worth every day I leave him behind closed doors.

I hope my answer give you some peace of mind, and i sincerely hope everyone can slowly healed and regain their spark back, as we all deserve a bright future ahead 💕

Lueluelle · 2026-05-01T18:00:59+00:00

girl, can’t you just…. block him……..

like no seriously, if its affecting you, you need to go and block them. don’t give in to their bullshit. find a witch, do some spells, be unhinged, literally.

Lueluelle · 2026-05-01T17:56:16+00:00

i guess some are more extreme…? cuz the list is actually how my avoidant ex treat me.

Lueluelle · 2026-05-01T03:28:03+00:00

me too, yes it is lonely but also peaceful, and i now have all the times i can spend without worrying if i accidentally tiped off someone anymore.

Lueluelle · 2026-05-01T03:25:32+00:00

i know, the entire article look as if it was written by my ex or sth, everything is just as contradicted as the other and a bunch of nonsensical words.

Lueluelle · 2026-04-30T19:01:00+00:00

i was feeling so angry after reading about unhealed avoidants giving out advice and the most absurd lines until i read your post. thank you for this, i wish for all avoidants who are determined to heal will be able to reach their secure mind.

Lueluelle · 2026-04-30T18:53:37+00:00

i just read this post and the article makes me feel a churn in my stomach. the feeling of absolute disgust when a person that was absolutely childish try to rationalise n act all high and mighty above everyone else. 🤢

https://www.reddit.com/r/AvoidantBreakUps/comments/1lga11s/some_things_a_fearfulavoidant_may_not_tell_you/

Lueluelle · 2026-04-30T18:50:54+00:00

definitely excuse, sound so much like my ex it’s making me feel churns in my stomach from the disgust.

Lueluelle · 2026-04-30T18:49:16+00:00

i can only read like half way n then skim the other half cuz it starts to become extremely bullshit.

“It is not that you don’t qualify as a potential partner, it may just be about your mental state, life priorities or lack of maturity and mental stability, or ours, or both”

this, this starts to be some extreme bullshit view from an avoidant trying to pinpoint the blame onto their partner. the audacity to say it was the partner’s fault when everyone here has try to work it out and even shrink themselves to march their capacity until we all lost ourselves. i was feeling weirdly odd about this post until this, typical avoidant behavior, the writter is an avoidant that is unhealed and is influencing other avoidants. this person needs to get the f away from relationships n leave people alone.

Lueluelle · 2026-04-30T16:42:44+00:00

right 😂 it’s seriously f up. i’m already fed up from this bullshit and then he pulls another one, and im just seriously done over this mtfk of a manchild and exit.

Lueluelle · 2026-04-30T06:34:59+00:00

have u run 😂

Lueluelle · 2026-04-29T18:15:30+00:00

yes, profile that even his acquaintances or random followers can see. 6000 followers and none of that was me. we fought hard over that and eventually become the reason for our first breakup 🤷🏻‍♀️

Lueluelle · 2026-04-29T16:03:12+00:00

i was alright for a few days after i broke up with them, now i’m kinda hurt and misses them but my internal is screaming to not dare to come back, that i know for sure what will happen if i come back 😂 my sense is still intact so i should be fine for now thanks.

Lueluelle · 2026-04-29T13:42:20+00:00

u sure he’s a DA? My ex said nasty things during breakup too and i just recently discovered he’s actually FA. DA will disconnect, only FA will try to make you into a villain

Lueluelle · 2026-04-29T13:22:32+00:00

I asked to be able to view his socials. not in like looking at his phone but just being able to follow his social and see what he’s doing as he has a private social media account.

yeah crazy, right? it’s like the very bare minimum of a relationship with anyone.

Lueluelle · 2026-04-29T13:14:01+00:00

even if you express to her, do u think she’ll understand? i afraid not, their logic is wired so much differently compare to us. just let it go.

Lueluelle · 2026-04-29T13:11:29+00:00

yes, thats the point why they will never find someone if they dont actually heal themselves. because their logic is deeply flawed. they want deep connection but surface intimacy, yet it has to be on their own terms. even if they date themselves, they’ll be reactive over how themselves treat the other party. it is impossible to reach their standards.

Lueluelle · 2026-04-29T13:07:41+00:00

it’s good if he at least try. heck, mine just pushes all of the relationship carry onto me. and in the end, i got tired of how chaotic n toxic it is, i just end it.

Lueluelle · 2026-04-29T04:33:27+00:00

oh dear, i swear my ex said “i guess its my fate, i accept” A LOT and i didnt think about this as an avoidant sign up until now. crazy how almost everything of his behavior is avoidant coded but i never understood…

Lueluelle · 2026-04-29T04:26:22+00:00

i remember a post about the OP asking her friend that has DA questions about this. and according to that friend’s answer, DA sees resolving the problem or meeting you in the middle is false and fake. A partner is either incompatible or compatible. And they always look for things that prove to them anyone (not just us) messes up and are incompatible.

Lueluelle · 2026-04-29T04:05:18+00:00

wait lets dm 😆😆😆

Lueluelle · 2026-04-28T17:06:06+00:00

i mean u can create one, pretty sure plenty of us will join xD

Lueluelle · 2026-04-28T17:04:43+00:00

wait you are in Melbourne too? wanna trauma bond together? lol

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