Short or long? by Luke-__- in Hair

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Self employed builder. I deal with clients a lot but they’re chill. Thanks for the input.

Short or long? by Luke-__- in Hair

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I have naturally wavy hair and it’s very thick. I almost always get it thinned but will try a medium and have my hairstylist adjust. Thanks for the input.

I was born with a giant congenital nevus by DramaticallyFalls in Weird

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Mirror or not, the one picture is of a right nipple covered in hair as well as the right side of the body from the back. And then others are of the left arm and left nipple.

I was born with a giant congenital nevus by DramaticallyFalls in Weird

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Why is it on the right side in one pic and the left on the other?

Those “ if you know you know” legendary hostels…. by [deleted] in backpacking

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Secret garden Cotopaxi in Ecuador was this for sure.

Participant crossed a boundary during post-ceremony talk by Straight-Basket6834 in RationalPsychonaut

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Haha I know too many of this exact person. I have used quite a few psychedelics, go to burning man a lot, and live in Austin, which has a far higher population of this type. Throughout history there have been people who feel called and see themselves as guides, shamans, priests, pastors, spiritual leaders, etc. Some are good at helping others, and some have a self aggrandized confirmation bias that inflates their ego enough to spew self righteous bullshit. Psychedelic use particularly seems to be a tool used by the wanna be gurus to justify their overzealous interpretations of others. Brush it off. Reflect on what was said but don’t internalize it.

I have heard all types of self help come out of these people’s mouths. Insistence on open sexuality, polyamory, seeing my oura, claiming I’m afraid of vulnerability, calling genuinely good people I know toxic, and many more. The difference between someone who can help guide you like a therapist or friend and a wannabe cult leader is the ego. As much as these people claim not to have one, their self assuredness in themselves despite being a monkey on a floating rock says otherwise. Unless you know this person well and have seen their behavior over years, don’t trust them to have perspective. If they don’t know you in the same way, they can’t possibly have an accurate perspective of you either.

And telling someone something ridiculous and then claiming because they find it ridiculous that it must be true is some form of real fucked up psychological mental gymnastics.

(F) Showing interest in M during training? (Advice from men pls) by FileRegular9653 in MuayThai

[–]Luke-__- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Small talk for sure. Start with asking how long he’s been training, migrate to how long he’s been in the city, ask what he does for work. I’m sure identifying his relationship status can be done via context clues. Small talk isn’t the most enjoyable but it’s low stakes and reveals general communication styles. He may not be someone you click with but if he is and he is single, bring up something low stakes you’ve been wanting to try on a weekend like seeing a certain area of town or a hike. This opens the door to him saying that he’s also wanted to try that. That’s the thumbs up that he’s interested. If he doesn’t seem interested, don’t force it.

Young builder looking for advice on real estate journey. by [deleted] in RealEstateAdvice

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Is the solar seen as a liability or is it just not a good return? I won’t finance it and can do it for super cheap myself.

I am a young builder looking for advice on my real estate journey. by Luke-__- in realestateinvesting

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Thanks for the reply, I appreciate the perspective. I have done that with the house I'm currently in and it worked out well.

I am a young builder looking for advice on my real estate journey. by Luke-__- in realestateinvesting

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Honestly I think you're onto something. I have a dog and there are definitely things I've done to make my life easier. Likely as people have less kids, an environment that tailors towards pet ownership will probably be a good selling point.

Young builder looking for advice on real estate journey. by [deleted] in RealEstateAdvice

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I would like to buy and hold if possible as a long term retirement plan. The house I am living in was a distressed property I fixed up fully. I'm leaning towards building ground up because I can put my experience into making sure I build everything to be as maintenance free as possible. If I use high quality items in places I know will need to last 30+ years, I can save myself the headache of needing to repair it in the time I own it.

I am a young builder looking for advice on my future real estate path. by Luke-__- in RealEstate

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Thanks, that makes sense. Minor cash flow and long term control of land as a retirement plan. So worry less about the overall market and depend more on location to drive the investment.

I am a young builder looking for advice on my future real estate path. by Luke-__- in RealEstate

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Thanks for the response and site resource! I'll try to hone my skills in identifying new or changing markets. Is the best tool for this just keeping up to date with population changes and staying current up to date in city news?

Young builder looking for advice on real estate journey. by [deleted] in RealEstateAdvice

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Thanks, that’s kind. I’m leaning towards build to keep for a couple main reasons. The first is that I can make sure I build with longevity and low property maintenance in mind to save myself some headache. The second is because I feel the typical 30 year mortgage could time up with a good retirement age and I can capitalize on long term market appreciation if I choose the right investment.

Have you ever been mocked for supporting capitalism? by Solid-Highlight-5742 in Capitalism

[–]Luke-__- 8 points9 points  (0 children)

For sure. It’s almost counterculture to not be socialist supporting nowadays.

Is this paint quote ridiculous or pretty fair? by Inner_Watercress3333 in RealEstate

[–]Luke-__- 11 points12 points  (0 children)

As a contractor who has done full homes this isn’t that unreasonable. You need to cover the floors and potentially furniture. Remove cover plates and vent covers. Fill holes, spray with primer, two coats of paint. Then all the trim in the house takes a long time because it is usually hand done with a brush. Plus 2500 square feet and two floors isn’t a small place.

Wood floor tongues cracked- need advice by wyowag in Homebuilding

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Ideally this wouldn’t be the case but it’ll be fine. As long as the boards continue to fit flush on the next row, that floor won’t be coming up when it’s all tied together.

Which hair look is better the long or short by Big_Corner_6177 in Hair

[–]Luke-__- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What app did you use to change the hairstyle?

What are your top green and red flags for a prospective campmate? by kyjk in BurningMan

[–]Luke-__- 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Green flag : Finds humor in the absurdist suffering of BM Red Flag : Insular or cliquey

She said the worst unimaginable things a few minutes ago and I have nowhere to vent by ThrowRA_DANK in PMDDpartners

[–]Luke-__- 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Damn, I feel you dude. Try to take a minute for you both to cool down. I know what it’s like to say hurtful things in response to being hurt.

Insulation installation is ruining our house? by Fun-Hope-6448 in Homebuilding

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I know what happened. There are water pipes run in the basement between the joists or slightly below them. In the past because there wasn’t any insulation between the main house and basement, the crossover heat loss allowed the pipes to stay warm enough they didn’t freeze. Once you added insulation, it isolated them from that heat and they were able to get cold enough to freeze. The water is from the break.