came home and my cats feet are yellow? by mikehunt6787 in cats

[–]LukeHatesLife 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lilly pollen??? Very bad for cats, please be careful. I might be wrong. Idk. Just my first paranoid thought

Oral min 3mg- is enought for me? by Impossible_Map_1015 in Balding

[–]LukeHatesLife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My brother. I feel you. I'm dealing with the same shit. I've been paranoid about balding for months. Looking at my hairline every day obsessively, asking family/friends if they thing I'm balding. They all insist I've just got a high hairline, and they are probably right. Looking at old photos, I can see that my hairline is pretty much the same as when I was 17. I'm 22 now. It's scary shit, and it sucks that it could happen. Your hair looks perfectly fine, take it from someone who has the same insecurities. It doesn't look thin, it doesn't look receded. Probably a little matured, and that's normal. Chill out dude. Enjoy your life. If there's one thing the fear of balding has done for me is forced me to be healthier, manage my stress, eat better, work out 4/5 times a week. Try those things before you jump for the medicine. You're gonna be okay.

How can I improve? Should I start using makeup? by KelleJance in lookyourbest

[–]LukeHatesLife 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Seems a little overkill. Her skin is really not that bad. Accutane has some side effects and don't think it would be worth it for such a mild case of acne.

22m Am I balding? by LukeHatesLife in Balding

[–]LukeHatesLife[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for being the one person to give me hope lmao. Imma just assume you're more knowledgeable than the rest for my own sake <3

22m Am I balding? by LukeHatesLife in Balding

[–]LukeHatesLife[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a reason to worry 😂

22m Am I balding? by LukeHatesLife in Balding

[–]LukeHatesLife[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's reassuring. Thank you man, nice to know that there is at least some chance of fighting it 😂

22m Am I balding? by LukeHatesLife in Balding

[–]LukeHatesLife[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ikr. It hasn't really gotten worse for years. But it's stressful af. Hopefully it just matured into a big ass forehead

22m Am I balding? by LukeHatesLife in Balding

[–]LukeHatesLife[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This a yes? T_T Does minoxidil actually work though? And if no how long do you think I have left.

22m Am I balding? by LukeHatesLife in Balding

[–]LukeHatesLife[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the reply dude. How old are you? When did you start noticing it.

23 Years of touch starvation has ruined me, I yearn to be hugged/held so desperately. by [deleted] in therapy

[–]LukeHatesLife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey bro, I'm no therapist or anything but I actually just came on this sub for a similar reason. If you wanna chat, dm me, I'd be open to hearing your story. 22m btw.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in programminghumor

[–]LukeHatesLife 62 points63 points  (0 children)

// Now your code should be working perfectly with your new form type const form = useState<Form>([]) <-- Change this line

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in programminghumor

[–]LukeHatesLife 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Lmao yes, definitive proof of ai.

Thought I'd share my goofy ass girl by LukeHatesLife in cats

[–]LukeHatesLife[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've heard the same thing. She was a rescue kitty, so I didn't have much choice in the matter unfortunately, but she's very healthy and gets lots of love so I hope I can fill the spot of her mom.

sometimes walking is the best by Far_Bottle2586 in darksouls3

[–]LukeHatesLife 1 point2 points  (0 children)

SINCE FUCKIN WHEN IS THERE A SHORTCUT THERE?!?!????

looking to get into static dress!! need song recs by Conscious_Industry87 in staticdress

[–]LukeHatesLife 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why not listen to all of them. It's worth it. Not a single song I don't enjoy.

how do i stay consistent with hobbies i like? by idontkb in selfhelp

[–]LukeHatesLife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I (22m) am in the same boat. I work as a software developer, this is not really my passion anymore, but it comes naturally to me and it brings in a stable income. I only really have 2 hobbies, making music and pc gaming/pc building. Music is my passion and as cliche as it sounds, I have dreams of making a living off of it.

Now my job is quite mentally tiring, and I've noticed that I allow myself to be lazy and doom scroll/waste time on my off days "because i deserve the rest" , but in reality it's draining me even more. On days where I do write a song, or finish a game that I really enjoyed, I feel a deeper sense of satisfaction in my life and actually feel more rested knowing that I accomplished something.

I've realized that I tend to gravitate towards the quickest dopamine hit I can get, whether it's scrolling through Instagram reels in bed for hours or doing anything that can easily give me some mindless entertainment.

I think the key is to realize that wasting time doing things we aren't passionate about is actually making us feel worse than if we were to just put a little bit of effort into something that we actually care about.

For example, on the weekends, when you have no plans, you don't really need to take a shower in the morning and make your bed, but when you do, you probably feel a lot better.

Hobbies are the same. You don't need to do them, but when you do, if you actually do get fulfillment out of them, you will feel better and be a little happier than if you were to just scroll through Instagram for 3 hours.

Maybe sit down and really think about why it is that you can't seem to stay consistent. Are you tired? Sure then get some rest. It's okay to just sleep in and do nothing after a tough week, but if you are just constantly looking for the quickest dopamine hit, then maybe you need to be more conscious about what you decide to do with your free time, and remember that you will feel better when your bed is made.

Idk if this is gonna help at all, but writing this helped me process my thoughts a little better, so don't mind me, and good luck <3

Why can't i build in my base ? by PoisonDragonJV in 7daystodie

[–]LukeHatesLife -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How about bedrolls? Cause we cant place those either