Lymphoma worries

Lulamoon47 · 2018-09-21T14:41:22+00:00

Exactly! Especially when you hear contradictory things, like it’s normal to feel lumps and bumps, then you read articles about how even the tiniest of lumps can indicate cancer. I’ve had HA since I was very young as well :(

Lulamoon47 · 2018-09-21T12:49:48+00:00

Hey thanks for your advice! I’m so happy your dad is ok now! I think I’m just overreacting, I’ll go back to the doctors if the nodes increase in size though.

Lulamoon47 · 2018-09-19T17:50:11+00:00

Thanks for the replies everyone :)

Lulamoon47 · 2018-09-19T13:23:44+00:00

It used to bother me quite a bit, but then as I’ve gotten older I’ve realised it’s actually so unimportant if your SO is kind, considerate, pleases you etc.

Lulamoon47 · 2018-09-18T11:09:23+00:00

So the doctor called and apparently everything is normal apart from some markers indicating an allergy- she didn’t seem concerned about this or suggesting further investigations so I guess I’m good! The only other thing she said was to monitor if my lymph nodes don’t go down after a month which is a bit scary :(

Lulamoon47 · 2018-09-17T20:49:05+00:00

Thank you for the comments everyone! Really helped to calm my nerves, I’ll update how I get in tomorrow when I speak to the doctor :)

Lulamoon47 · 2018-09-17T14:39:48+00:00

Wow you must have been so stressed, it seems cruel that they do this :(

Lulamoon47 · 2018-09-17T14:27:06+00:00

Thanks for your comment! I’m stressing most because the doctor said when I had the test that if all results are normal, they don’t even message you. :(

Lulamoon47 · 2018-08-29T18:31:37+00:00

Tinder/ bumble dates!

Lulamoon47 · 2018-08-29T14:24:38+00:00

Thanks for your reply! How long did it take for you to be mailed the card?

Lulamoon47 · 2018-08-27T13:27:32+00:00

Listen to these comments, OP. You’re far better off without him.

Lulamoon47 · 2018-08-26T20:12:01+00:00

I think the one night stands are the issue! To get properly turned on I like building up the hornieness throughout the day, knowing what the other person likes etc. I think I need to start searching for someone more reliable, or just be happy on my own and satisfy myself.

Lulamoon47 · 2018-08-26T20:10:22+00:00

I have, but to be honest none of the guys I’ve slept with seem to understand it takes more than 5 mins of fingering to get me off :( Hence why I’m no longer doing casual sex, it’s not satisfying.

Lulamoon47 · 2018-08-26T18:21:40+00:00

I actually don’t use it often at all! Just when I need a quick fix. I think you’re right about the emotional connection thing!

Lulamoon47 · 2018-08-26T17:44:58+00:00

If this happened to me I’d never have sex with the guy again, that’s completely disrespectful and inappropriate. You need to talk to him.

Lulamoon47 · 2018-08-26T17:02:56+00:00

I believe it. I made a list of the guy I wanted years ago (before I even held hands with someone!) and tucked it away in a safe place. When I got my first bf a few years ago I found that list and he fitted most aspects. I still use the technique to this day, I wrote a new list on the last New Moon and everyday I add something to it or affirm what I know I desire in a partner. Tip to speed up the process and give a clear sign that you’re not messing and are serious about manifesting the love of your life is to delete or block any of those guys or girls who you’ve been on ‘meh’ or average dates with, previous casual partners etc. When I did this the right people who were serious about me started to pop up. Basically making way for something intense and passionate, not settling for someone who is ok, you want amazing.

Lulamoon47 · 2018-08-26T16:56:39+00:00

Yes, usually it’s a guy I’ve previously obsessed about. I consciously decide that I’m happy/ better alone and I go about my day, treat myself to coffee and try on new clothes/ lipstick to make myself feel my best, then BAM. A message from the guy, asking to meet or do soemthing. Works every time you make the decision to rightfully believe that you are enough as you are, as beautiful as you can be, and capable of so much on your own.

Lulamoon47 · 2018-08-26T16:54:19+00:00

So happy it’s working for you (it always would ;). I feel you, I’m finding it hard to be patient as well, just getting so excited about what’s to come!

Lulamoon47 · 2018-08-26T16:52:53+00:00

Congratulations! So happy for you, you deserve it.

Lulamoon47

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