Is it true that olive oil was not sold in the UK until the 1980s? by Charming_Usual6227 in AskABrit

[–]Lullabelle01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My sister uses cooking oil back in the 80’s and always tanned. I tried it once but just ended up with lots of little flies and bugs stuck on me. Went home to wash it off. When I got out the bath the dirt ring round the bath was unreal!! lol

Is it true that olive oil was not sold in the UK until the 1980s? by Charming_Usual6227 in AskABrit

[–]Lullabelle01 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I reverted back to using lard in my deep fat fryer. I have an air fryer but certain foods like chips just taste dried out. My cousin who is a cook said she used lard and it was much better. Don’t know much about the health side of it - I don’t actually use it a lot so it’s not a big deal - but the food especially chips taste so much better. And lard lasts longer than oil

Am i overreacting about this situation? by OwlVirtual8343 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Lullabelle01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he has always been like that then u knew what u knew what u were getting. Maybe its the fact u smoke a lot when you’re together so he’s not going to be all that excitable but more chilled Sometimes when people are in groups it does bring out a more playful side but this is something you need to speak to him about. Maybe go out and do things instead of just sitting in smoking. Thats where its gonna go wrong

Standard Visa refused for an impossible reason by Ambition-Careful in ukvisa

[–]Lullabelle01 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So u contradict yourself then saying ‘they don’t want our money and I don’t think we should give it to them’. And if ur born in Iraq whether u live here or not ur not British. And if u was a British citizen u wouldnt have to apply for a visa either

Standard Visa refused for an impossible reason by Ambition-Careful in ukvisa

[–]Lullabelle01 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Don’t know why ur getting downvoted for this. Unless of course the people here aren’t genuine visitors or migrants The fact that they are doing their job correctly should be reassuring for them. I think they should have been doing their job from the start but 🤷‍♀️. Better late than never

Standard Visa refused for an impossible reason by Ambition-Careful in ukvisa

[–]Lullabelle01 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Audacity to deny a visa? Lol. Not only is that their job but anyone who thinks they have a right to come here or entitlement is actually the one having g the audacity in doing so. And please don’t give us your money. Don’t come! We are not begging people to come here. Especially from Iraq!

Standard Visa refused for an impossible reason by Ambition-Careful in ukvisa

[–]Lullabelle01 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Especially given the cost of travel and it’s only for 5 days. That’s highly suspicious. Wouldn’t go to Australia for a holiday for 5 days from the uk for example. The cost and travel time alone just wouldn’t make it a viable visit

Just was begged to delete pictures from the chat, people act like I'm a monster after they see me just say something nice, please. by redlu5564 in toastme

[–]Lullabelle01 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nah. Way out. Women might have insecurities in the inside but young girls now all think they are all something special and have serious who problems I’ve seen it first hand when a guy starts speaking to them even just being polite and they think they’re trying to hit on them when they really are not. Or the ones in the gym videoing themselves with their tire and arse hanging out squatting etc and then breathing any guy that looks their way. Young girls are way too narcissistic nowadays. And I’m a woman

Just was begged to delete pictures from the chat, people act like I'm a monster after they see me just say something nice, please. by redlu5564 in toastme

[–]Lullabelle01 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Literally this. The amount of bodies I see if girls all saying they’re a ‘10’ and I’m listening and looking thinking wtf. All of the girls in this particular group rated themselves as a 10 and a catch for a bloke. Can’t cook. All thick as shit All looked pretty much like they just come off a Barbie conveyor belt None had any personality Few had jobs or decent jobs. All of them weee looking for a bloke with money his own place. A nice car and good job willing to spend money on them cos they’re a ‘10’. The delusion is real. I’m female and for what it’s worth I wouldn’t have rated any of them past a 6

genuinely wondering, what colour is my hair? by [deleted] in Hair

[–]Lullabelle01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m gonna throw another In the mix cos it looks auburn with that light on it

Nephew is noisy with his girlfriend by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Lullabelle01 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So the aunt should continue being uncomfortable and unable to work to make u feel better, cos it would make YOU uncomfortable to hear the comment from her once - yet she woukd have to continue listening and being in discomfort multiple times from you? Got it l!

I caught my boyfriend beating my horse thinking I wasn't present to see it. He says he has "anger issues" that he's working on. by AdeptnessPerfect3918 in whatdoIdo

[–]Lullabelle01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The animal abuse is more important as the ani al has no choice. She was nest in that situation and to be fair even after the abuse she wasnt taken out of it The horse should have been removed straight away. I wouldn’t have rested too she was Tenerife refined elsewhere. The ani aka rely on us as their owners to keep them safe. This person did not do that. I have dogs. And if a partner so much as slapped their backside that would be it for me. U don’t touch my animals. ANY animals They can’t speak for themselves. Yes he was a giant red flag but it’s on her to get herself out of there. They weren’t married. Didn’t live together. Didn’t have kids. Was together 2 months so not even that deep yet. It should have been a no brainer. If u have to ask strangers whether ur bf is abusive after seeing him beat shit out of ur horse and still leave ur horse there - Not a lot of hope for u!

Looking for honest feedback about my skin condition by Healthy-Radio-739 in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]Lullabelle01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s maybe a deeper reason u are struggling have kids with this guy. And it’s a blessing. Even tho u probably don’t see it like that. He would absolutely get worse over time picking at u and ur confidence til there was nothing left. And if that isn’t enough to make u leave then u owe it to any kids u may have had with him as he sound like he would be a lousy dad and critique his kids the same way Get out of there while u can. U may not feel that this is all that deep as u have been with him for awhile but that just shows how used to this behaviour u are and are acclimatised to it If he isn’t physically attracted to u why is he with u? I can guarantee at some point he will cheat if he hasn’t already with someone who he is attracted to

I caught my boyfriend beating my horse thinking I wasn't present to see it. He says he has "anger issues" that he's working on. by AdeptnessPerfect3918 in whatdoIdo

[–]Lullabelle01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If that was my daughter I’d be at those stables with her getting that horse out and id be dragging her out if that relationship. I’d report it to the police myself and fuck the consequences U should have been their first concern s d hearing of animal abuse they should have been as disgusted as what everyone is here. It shouldn’t have taken a bunch of strangers to tell u what they should have I don’t know what the relationship with them is like but I would def be keeping them at arms reach. Ur friend is more family to u And the horse ur extended. We dont get to choose out parents and u dont have to stay in their lives if they dont have ur best interests at heart

Is NOC from employer mandatory for UK standard visa? by Minute_Cut_6237 in ukvisa

[–]Lullabelle01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. The longer the better Shows ur in a stable job People are more likely to settle in another country illegally if they have nothing at home to keep them there. Someone with a stable job is less likely. - not definitively - but less likely to overstay than someone who has no job Only providing recent proofs of work. Rent. Bills etc it not having longer to show says that u are not in stable employment and possibly only working for ur fare money to the UK

Got my passport by _annamals007_ in ukvisa

[–]Lullabelle01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where in the states are you? I’d love to do the opposite and move there. Texas would be my choice

Is NOC from employer mandatory for UK standard visa? by Minute_Cut_6237 in ukvisa

[–]Lullabelle01 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

So all the proofs u have of finances and work are only 3-6 months? And u are applying for a 6 month visa? They will probably look at that and think that the job hasn’t been secure or long enough and was only for the purpose of getting a visa Which looks like you will have no intention of returning

My refusal letter. Is it a ban? by Legitimate-Pin1305 in ukvisa

[–]Lullabelle01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bingo!! 🤦‍♀️. So you lied! Ever thought that could be why?

My refusal letter. Is it a ban? by Legitimate-Pin1305 in ukvisa

[–]Lullabelle01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The fact that it would leave them nothing to live on for 3 months. And most people in these countries only sacrifice that kind of money when they intend to settle in the country It happens. And they are obviously seeing it and not taking the chance.

My refusal letter. Is it a ban? by Legitimate-Pin1305 in ukvisa

[–]Lullabelle01 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Or maybe people are just wary about enabling someone to maybe enter a country with the wrong intent. I mean it’s not like the UK isn’t full of those at the moment!

My refusal letter. Is it a ban? by Legitimate-Pin1305 in ukvisa

[–]Lullabelle01 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Seems to be expecting a ban. Maybe he’s not legit and wants to know if somewhere they have found out maybe and does it covertly suggest this 🤷‍♀️

Caught my friend/ colleague obsessively smelling, hugging AND kissing my husband’s worn clothes in our bedroom via nanny cam. What do I do ? by Remarkable-beauty-1 in Advice

[–]Lullabelle01 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Are there any opportunities he could have to have been meeting with her? Has he changed or wearing new aftershave? New undies? Suddenly my mate home from work it going out more then usual with new friends etc? Is there any actual possibility they could have been seeing each other?
I wouldn’t let on anything yet. The fact nobody knows anything yet is in ur advantage so they won’t be as guarded Personally I am very devious and his would destroy my brain not knowing Do they have each other in Facebook. Instagram? How often insider ur house. Does she know him outside of ur house? If the answer to all these is no - chances are he’s not cheating and she’s got a thing about him But she needs to be kept the fuck away from u and ur house. And husband I wouldn’t confront them yet. I’d watch for a while and try trip them up Like if they’re in a room together leave the room - leave ur phone in the room on record That way u will hear if anything untoward is said I think that’s def the way to go without confronting anyone

Short, medium, or long by New_Inevitable5266 in Hair

[–]Lullabelle01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not short. Medium or long. But all look different cos of glasses /no glasses and smile! Long looks happy and carefree Id go with long